mother andrew@benicetobears.com fucker. someone had to say it. 980819 ... dallas oh, mother. I'm gonna take your daughter out tonight. I'm gonna show her my world. Oh, mother. 981027 ... daxle "mother do you think they'll tear your little boy apart?" 990517 ... David I should have gotten "Mother" tattoed on my ankle. (sigh) 990927 ... some guy Why do we take them for granted??? 991107 ... Gigo Loma i sure as hell don't want to have sex with her, freud can kiss my effin' ass. 991107 ... jennifer as she runs circles around me, frantically doing one thing or another, I have sporadic bursts of conversation with her and I realize that it has been that way for some time 991215 ... mott man i wish i was your mother, i wish i'd been your father, cause then I would have seen you - would have been you as a child... 000120 ... oodles She didn't just give birth to me...she gave life to me. There is a significant difference. I think I'll call her and thank her. You should too. 000218 ... Brad why are ordinary things, when said by our mothers, for some reason automatically transformed into things so corny that we want to be physically ill? The phenomenon is uncanny. Just think about when it is combined with a phrase that actually IS corny or antiquated... let the barf-o-rama commence. 000312 ... WoNDERGIRL mother? are you there? I love you. I never meant to hit you over the head with that shovel.. and now as wondergirl i miss her somehow that wonderful person she was when i was littler and innocenter 000521 ... bebop Looking at goldfish makes me think about what it would feel like to be born tomorrow... maybe everything around me is just a womb providing for evolved needs until I become something that I have yet to be? Well... isn't it obvious? 000808 ... Becca she with the greatest importance in the life of a child - who can do the greatest damage when love is absent. 001112 ... pope john lithgow IV this too is true 001112 ... cat^.^ hard to talk about 'cuz she screwed me up bad..but should I thank that bi-polar bitch or pity her when all that pain comes out on canvas??? 001229 ... my Mumma is nice but she don't really know me. shes got skin like silk. is your mama nice? mines a freak. I want to teach her how to break dance, butt she don't get it. set. like stone. Mumma Mumma, will you cook me a nice meal. Mumma Mumma Mumma Mumma your driving me up the wall. don't tell her too much, it's easier that way, they won't phone you every 10 minutes. god dam it. fucking fucking fucking too good to me . its annoying, but i feel bad 4 sayin' it. 010416 ... like rain. she winked at me when i left the car, and somehow i knew that burger king breakfasts and rides to school were the tip of the iceberg in her heart, even if she has trouble understanding sometimes, even if she can't accept my love. 010511 ... marissa mother, mother hows the family? im just calling to say hello. hows the weather? hows my father? am i lonely? heavens no. mother, mother are you listening? just a phone call to ease your mind. life is perfect, never better.. distance making the heart grow blind. when you sent me off to see the world, were you scared that i might get hurt? would i try a little tobacco? would i keep on hiking up my skirt? im hungry, im dirty, im losing my mind, everythings fine! im freezing, im starving, im bleeding to death, everythings fine! 010603 ... nanny i'm 21 and still call her mommy 010909 ... soul I love my mum, i just don't like giving her the satisfaction of the fact that i'm using her advice. And do i really love her? Sometimes she just really pisses me off. Can't with with em, can't live without em. My mother and me are so different. I think i'm going to be me growing up by myself and calling her every few years or so to tell her i'm fine. exactly. 010926 ... spooky fish (waiting for the worms) will she break my heart? 010926 ... niai The thing you grow to hate The love you won't forget ----- ||Siouxsie and the Banshees|| 011005 ... Inanna I am 011005 ... yes. Well the telephone is ringing, Is that my mother on the phone? Telephone is ringing, Is that my mother on the phone? The telephone is screaming, Won't she leave me alone? The telephone is ringing, Is that my mother on the phone? Well every girl that I go out with Becomes my mother in the end. Every girl I go out with Becomes my mother in the end. Well I hear my mother calling, But I don't need her as a friend. Well every girl I go out with Becomes my mother in the end. Oh, Oh mother Oh mother dear please listen And don't devour me. Oh mother dear please listen Don't devour me. Oh women please have mercy Let this poor boy be. Oh mother dear please listen And don't devour me. Oh mother...... Well the telephone is ringing Is that my mother on the phone? Telephone is ringing Is that my mother on the phone? Oh mother......................... ------The Police 011006 ... kerry i'd like to say i like you can't want to can't the video recorder was running and i thought i might throw up when they all gasped and i felt like the devil incarnate "well, i LOVE her, but no, i don't LIKE her" thank god you weren't there to see me and the teacher's eyes got big and then i thought the world collapsed on me they all thought i was evil 011206 ... EMO I fucking hate them!!!! I swweear to fucking god i hope they die!!!! i fucking hate them i hate them i hate them i hate them i hate them i hate them. Both mother fuckers they are such fucking cocksuckers its un fuccking belieaveable. All i want to do is get the fuck out of this house!!! Iwant to live on my own I want to start my own job doing something i enjoy doing. I will NEVER !!! follow in either of their footsteps. They are fucking sappy assed losers anyways. i fucking hate them i fucking hate them i fucking hate them i fucking hate them i fucking hate them i fucking hate them. Fuck you mom Fuck you Dad . GO TO HELL YOU FAT FUCKER!!!!! I HOPE YOU FUCKING DIE!!!!! DAMNIT! FUCK YOU FUCKER!!!! I HATE YOU! 011206 ... FUCK THEM IM NOT DONE YET. OKAY I FUCKING HATE YOU I FUCKING HATE YOU MOM I FUCKING HATE YOU DAD I FUCKING HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YHOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU I HATE YOU. THERE JUST NEED A CIGGARETTE NOW. 011206 ... Paramour Mother.....you've killed me. 020103 ... psychobabe mom i hate you and i love you. More love tho cuz your my mother. Without you i wouldnt be here. I love you so much but when i talk sometimes i cant help but make everything i say sound horrible. Really i do love you mom and at times i want to run up to you and hug you till my pain goes away. Maybe someday soon when i get over my stupidity and self loathing i will be able to do it 020103 ... ClairE "I love my mother." "Yes. I think my mother is my favorite person in the world." "Dude, you should go tell her that." "She's asleep. I don't think she would appreciate it." 020104 ... broken_down girl is beginning to hold finances over my head as an excuse to treat me like shit. "If I was a working paid employee for the business who could just walk away whenever I wanted, I don't think you'd treat me like this." "That's probably true. But I'm paying you allowance every week and your college so there's really nothing you can do." 020321 ... youinquired the one retrospective person who believes nothing of what you intend to say, culminating on embers of her own fires, repressing the stick throwers until all is left on a pile of rag doll melodies. 020428 ... Patty I'm always worried about my mom. She's really sick. And she is always in pain. it makes me sad. 020515 ... phil I don't want to have any kids, I wonder what she thinks about that. 020515 ... a b for the m....amused it's like i'm holding my breath, being held to the floor by you and your husband. Having my hair pulled by two different hands as two more try to shove pills into my body then every so often a hand just comes down out of nowhere and slaps me across the face... oh wait, that was last night. I am obviously completely 'out of control' you forget i don't owe you shit because your ass only picked me up after nine months, i woulda slapped you had i seen you coming... 020617 ... swarm why do you repeatedly speak of me as if i was one of them? telling me how i don't want anything to do with you because it's not cool to be around you? one of them as in the stereotype of my age-group, what if i replied no its not the fact of "whos Cool?" like it was in your day as a child, its the fact that I don't like what you like, it's not me,im trying to let you down softly but im not your image, im not the image you have of me or want me to be. your reply="Don't be so rude" in the end your only defintion of rude is what your mother told you? 020619 ... Freak she's dead too 020621 ... coolz The Star in my sun. 020909 ... SuicidalAngel I haven't seen my mother in ten years because when my dad won costody, she stopped talking to me.. well I ran into her Sunday and may possibly again this coming weekend. We didn't say a word to eachother at the time, but I'd like to say something to her now. I'm really not angry at all and feel a little strange just saying hi.. anyone have any ideas of what I could say? 021008 ... minnesota_chris my advice, tell her what you feel. But put it in a letter (or maybe an email) instead of calling or face to face. I think it'd be easier to have your say. Also don't forget to say you love her or you're proud of her, or that you miss her, or that you want her in your life. If any of those are true. Far too often those phrases go unsaid. 021008 ... minnesota_chris p.s. you never said why you were moving to NY? 021008 ... SuicidalAngel Thanks Chris, yeah I might actually do that. It would be much easier writing her a letter, and I think I would let her know that I'd like her in my life and I am not angry. Yay good idea! 021009 ... minnesota_chris I am really nice. You should visit me! We could go to the Abominable Mega Mall, if you haven't been yet. 021010 ... SuicidalAngel Mall of America? Yeah I've been there a few times. It's pretty fucking cool. That would be cool but I'd have no way of getting there. 021118 ... gay gizmo that was really sweet chris 021119 ... minnesota_chris Thank you! I feel a lot of times like I'm shouting into a big void. Maybe I should do an ask_Chris. But since I'm not a doctor, maybe I should just make it "ask_somebody_nice". Then again, Jane already has a column. 021119 ... kitty i used to *HATE* my mom when i was a teenager. i thought she was the fucking nazi devil. now that i'm a little older and i've already done all the things i'm not supposed to, me and my mom get along really well, and i'm glad she's there for me. 021119 ... the godfather my mum seriously stresses me sometimes. and there are so many things about her that annoy me. but i still love her. as much as i hate her sometimes, i still couldnt live without her. so yeah. thats me. 021216 ... anezka i was driving in the car and something in the song and the air made me think of my mother. it filled me with such a powerful yearning that i called out to god for a sign from her.. and suddenly a van pulled out next to me on this otherwise empty street and on the back window was a sticker that said only "mom." as i started to cry, heavy rain started to fall, and i was so filled with joy that my tears stopped.. and so did the rain. 030318 ... catherine my mom rocks my world. 030321 ... User24 whenever I say this word, I have to say it in the accent from Psycho. "Motherrrr?" Muahahaha... 030515 ... superstrings mother, do you think they'll like this song? 030515 ... cold comfort for change did it need to be so high? 030515 ... god it's ok. relax. 030530 ... shivers means nothing, its the person that raised u. mom 030530 ... megan too polite of a name mom mommy she held me when i cried she listened when i needed to spill she was my beginning 030530 ... Lia She loves me, I love her. Caring, softness, warmth, nurturing, that is my mother. Sometimes sharp, never hurtful. Like what a hug would look like if it were a person... 030619 ... me "paradise lies at your mother's feet" 030624 ... Meighan My mother. My friend, my enemy. My laughter, my tears. My happieness, my pain. My inspiration my Mother. I love you mom :p 030728 ... etoiles your mother suffers from..(something)-by-proxy. i can now eliminate an almost inifinite number of words by saying that i believe it starts with an "m". miranda? silly! that's the rights. you have the right to remain silent. you have the right not be read your rights and then be arrest. you have the right to waste your time. you have the right to go to engineering camp. and you have the right to get up and go to sleep. and the right to write like ernest hemingway and the right to finish stories and the right to have your bum squeezed. you have the right to be a senior with responsibilities and an equivalent right to be a senior without them. you also have the right to make typos. and make mistakes. you have the right to know the president and then the right to grin about it for a few minutes. you have the right to know that "all at once" does not imploy one man performing these three tasks but rather konwing two seperate inviduals who have held such posts. and the right to know they still have society standing to the *n*th degree in such situations. anything you say can an dwill be used against you. or quoted. or ridiculed at a later date. (what the fuck are you talking about?) 030901 ... oldephebe ...and the baby tastes the milk grow bitter on the vine the bumped his head and waddled all around no one to soothe his groaning, wilting spirit no one to touch his implacable ache you who should have been my nurture became my wound a living tapestry of torture - genious of the fire-rain you know just where to bruise me where others cannot see you know just which words to choose to make me breathe the blue the baby taste the milk grow bitter on the vine the baby fell down and lost his mind tell me something tender about me tell somethin true somethin' you can't use to tie my tongue down and i always wanted to be the good son the kind one but ya make it so hard for me to love you accents of antipathy upon which you suckled me could you would you tell me somethin' tender about me lately dearest mother of mine their seems to be a disquieting dissonance to the words we mime to one another a frayed jagged edge to every empty phrase and long ago i stopped looking for a mothers love to step into this space and i can't bring my self to say all is forgiven and Father Defalco says to let the gentleness of the lord be my answer to this rage so turn the page it'll melt grieving heart but father you don't know a damn thing about being born to a black and loveless womb the child of blight learned long ago to stand alone tell me tell me something tender about me mother 'cause it seems all you bring is the bitter tell me somethin' tender aw damn that it's too late i don't think your words of remorse hissed through gritted teeth could could touch me anyway let this gavel that governs our love come down hard upon our heads tell me tell me somethin' bitter about me 'cause you see that's all there is between you and me i did it i told the tale in shades of grya and night and you color the air any way you want to but that won't bring my love back to life so bring on the bitter and we'll sit and shiver see i impoverished myself to find redemption in your eyes a man could find more or less the same thing staring into the eye of hell bring on the bitter tell nothing was ever tender between you and me 030901 ... etoiles oedipus and the motherfuckers would be a really awesome band name. if you decide to use it, please just give me a nod. i'm happy to be a contributing factor to the hungry cynicism and downward spiral of humanity. 030913 ... oldephebe man, that was harsh, but then the relentless excavations of the imperial matriarchy is an infinite universe of bruised hues and masterfully, ruthlessly executed machinations..some though, are an elegant finesse of treason, justating for years, planned and planted in the early innocent soil of uour yearning heart(s)..and then when the time is ripe, when she feels she's exhausted every other avenue to your egos obliteration, she calls unto that which has been tenderly nourished, that wich has slumbered only to be awakened at this time..yeah the manipulations and wiles..you will never search out all it's chambered frailities and fury.. it is best to efficiently, sever all tethers to her despotisms, gentlemen this can also be transposed to the conquests of a mans will while he labors under the illusion that he has conquered the marital or relationships or trysts, or illicit interludes, or quid pro quo - in short splattering his seed and his advantage in the pursuit of putting his thing down nothing personal ladies, but the male minds limited imagination of gamesmanship is like a flickering firefly against a star's retinal obliterating luminosity, compared to the unmeasure potentialities of a womans stricken ire.. it doesn't matter the age, or the page, or the part you think you might be playing..master of the game..take some time to get schooled gentlemen before you get played..or flayed.. a gamers (don't want to assign a pejorative gender value - gamesters come in all genders and shades so watch and observe measure your words, your responses so you don't get played) ire, vengeance, crouches in the dark, and springs forward in ways that won't percieved until the cut has ben made over and over again, a gamer is differently constituted..so gentlemen or ladies get schooled so you won't get bruised..learn the signs, learn the moves..I'm hardly the one to do any schooling, but why wait and let life dope slap you, why not arm yourself in advance? seek out the elders or the precocious and preciently wise, or learn on your're own by tuning your perceptions to a different frequency or vibe..couldn't really tell you where to start, but everyone here has thier own infinite source of inspiration and wisdom.. this was only supposed to be a few quickly typed lines..i don't intend any offense towards anyone..just trying to share a little.. 030913 ... misstree i got lucky, i guess, because i didn't really know her that well; not like most kids know their parents, who spend more than one day a week, every other weekend, and half the summer with someone. familial familiarity does not conform to schedules, numbers, dates, parenting in pieces. so my mother was always a little bit of a stranger, someone i tolerated telling me what to do and even looked up to, in my saner moments. there was no clinging suffocation, no fight to establish my own identity, no bitter curses for being a burden. my father was there but not, custody won, for what? my warden, my teacher, but not much more. so when the time came to break, to sever the ties that kept me in the nest, i found that there wasn't much there at all. nowadays, i've realized that my mother is wonderful, that she is wise and caring and that she knows she can't shove, she can only guide, and she's someone whom i'm very happy to have in my life, all placental coincidences aside. 030925 ... oldephebe i liked that.."all placental coincidence aside" nicely done..but yeah you were just being real..so i guess no need for my compulsive appraisal..still though..some of your phraseology is pretty nifty.. ... 030925 ... misstree thanky. :) i've always liked strange turns of phrase... it makes the brain linger a moment, allows you to carry more than a cliche. this one was actually inspired by you, too, contemplating the hell that must be an overbearing and alien mother, trying to wrap my brain around it but my brain kept jumping back in nervous revulsion. it really bothers me to think of being locked into a family with people that are of that other species, the one that makes me slink back into the shadows so they can't see my light, can't try to slap a price tag and a social value on it. i would say i feel for you, but i really can't bring myself to the point of empathy. vent anytime, 'phebe. i like poking at things that i have aversions to. :) 030925 ... oldephebe man misstree i so dig your honesty..loved that line about i would say i feel for you but i can't bring myself anywhere close to empathy..that was so frank and open.. here's something..i want to reach into my mothers mouth and repudiate every word ever whelped there..and watch her howl into hell dopplering down her desolation..that was harsh..yes..yes it was..but i've rarely allow my mother to see any emotion from these days..when she starts her silliness i just tactfully..truncate the game..or line of questioning or..converstaion..i speak to her like i would any adult..i've always shown her a constrained respect..a kind of vague promise i made to my father once.. i love my mother with every thing in me..it's just sealed in layers of prophylactic..its got to be that way.. any way back to the fact that there's a real intriguiging vive that runs through most of your writing..it is one of the more unique voices her in blathahdom..sort of like how you can always recognize a Dave Mathews tune by the 2nd or 3rd beat.. i get the feeling that you have consumed gigabytes of knowledge..and some of it not through books or rote recitation or inculcation..some of it through a kind of transferance..a kind of cognitive and intuitive predisposition to .. sometimes i feel like my relationship with my mother was carried to the grave yard when i was 4 or 5..there was always something unkind burning in her eyes towards, me..i think though in a way she was a little intimidated by my twin (fraternal - sister) who looks just like my maternal grandmother..i'm look like my pop (a mullatto) with a nice tan and my twin..we don't even look related..we don't even look like we ever lived in the same neighboorhood.. heh heh..i love my sister with my life though..she is artistic and creative and was writing brilliant poetry at the age of 10 or eleven..brilliant..she had more creation in her pinky finger than i have in my whole body.. so misstree..thanks for being so honest and i really can't put into words..well how about that..me and my flailing tongue stopped up..i wanted someone to break me off with a little truth and you came thru..yep conversations free of connivance..free of frilly lattices of obfuscation..free of the fallacy of these absurdly expected dances that we do..societal pieties..be polite and what evr you do don't say what you really think..i want a little subtly bruising truth..one that will grow into its clarity..one that will etch itself into the gift that was bequeathed upon its utterance...only some are too surface to perceive..it.. Light..Truth..we are all thronging to the quest..in our own inimitable ways..sometimes we just wander..or stumble right into it..that's always the best way for me.. ... 030926 ... s3an M*Malice O*Oh so detestable T*Terrible H*Hateable E*Ever so annoying R*Rotten thus the result of a homophibic mother 031122 ... smurfus rex she's my Queen. 031122 ... endless desire Gigo Loma-- " i sure as hell don't want to have sex with her, freud can kiss my effin' ass." oh my god that was funny. i needed something to laugh at. thank you blatherskite. 031122 ... a girl with nothing to say fucker!!!! 031123 ... r1y9a6n4 never knew her and still dont. has been in my life for its entirety but still cant say that i know her all too well. 031125 ... oldephebe looking back on my last two post..especially my last post to this page..i am ashamed at what i have writtien about the woman who gave me life..sure biological imperative and all that..but..i think i need to move past that..i do love my mother, dearly..and i can accept what passed between us but i am still furious over how she wounded 3 of my sisters, and brother and nephews..however they were/are still able to love her and there is an intimacy there that i knwo i can never have with her..and i don't quite understand why..i guess it's because i read her aura so strongly and i refuse to accept her for the person she will always be..she's incredibly strong and has endured much in her life..from a very young age she learned she had to impose her will upon this Life in order to survive. Mother..I do love you..and I don't know what I'll do when the Lord carries you home to His eternal busom..but i guess i need to grow more..or humble myself..or become more intimately aquianted with God's compassionate, forgiving heart. I hope you can forgive me for my reticense.. 031126 ... delial without you, I fear I'll stay a child, wandering down a black hall with my blanket and bear, calling your name until my end comes as well. it seems as if you're the one person who understands me at all, probably because you've known me and have been near me longer than anyone else in my life. you're also a very perceptive person. some things i'd rather not speak about but they'll come, regardless it makes me cry just to let the thought cross my mind, but i have to look it in the eye in order to grow up enough to deal with it when the time comes...but it's so easy to run and hide from it. 031126 ... oldephebe i'd look at the tireless maternal ministrations of some of my friends moms' you know?..even some of my aunts and wonder what's up with my mom? someone said mercy comes from the womb..to me..i guess it was like thrashing around in the black waters of a toxic tomb...we came intothis owrld to become the surrogate of her spite... 040223 ... boogie fuck your mother. 040226 ... oldephebe Ampèreheure ! Voici maintenant un esprit que j'aimerais le mettre d'aplomb est des profondeurs sybillines ! Mon Dieu ! Une telle clarté du mépris ! Méchanceté aussi implacable que le marbre non coupé. Enseignez-moi à profane avec une telle alacrité de mercure. 040227 ... ethereal that's all you are. A title. I can't even be in the same room with you anymore. I'm a pungent ooze and you're peroxide. Is that it? 040410 ... x twisted x i hope someday i fall in love and have children. its really the only stellar dream i have anymore..to be a mother. 040412 ... Dosquatch Dig, if you will, the picture Of you and I engaged ina kiss The sweat of your body covers me Can you, darling, can you picture this? Dream, if you can, a courtyard An ocean of violets in bloom Animals strike curious poses They can feel the heat, the heat between me and you. How can you just leave me standing Alone in a world that's so cold? Maybe I'm just too demanding Maybe I'm just like my father, too bold Maybe you're just like my mother, She's never satisfied. Why do we scream at each other? This is what it sounds like, when doves cry. 040420 ... Lisa I wish you were still you and would stop this wicked game... you already destroyed everything around you. and now go, go and live your new life, but leave us alone... and stop fighting, because I know you are, and I know you want it. but you have me close to turning away from you for ever.. and the sad thing is that you maybe don't even notice.. 040515 ... photographed by the human eye I'm so glade im in your arms and under your winds. thank you for everything you have done for me. thank you for putting be through hell to realize what i have lost in love, life, and memories 040616 ... death i hate your guts, why did u have 2 c the cuts on my wrist? why do u make me go 2 counsilling when u no i loathe it? 040722 ... brian I love my mother. But, is there something about this layout that makes us all speak in rhythm and rhyme about them? Apparently. 041107 ... yotipo91 Although it seems apparent you hate me, I love you, I know you love me to, but I want you to know, You made me be, And that you are a special part of me. I'm glad you built my brain and strength I will use my power to its length. You gave me hope when I had none left, you also let me down when you saw a threat. You were also with me, my whole life through, I want you to know that I want to be a part of you. I want you to know you made me be, and that you are a special part of me. I love you mom. 050909 ... Ydalmi She hates me. Seriously. She said it and thought I didn't hear. 051111 ... Isaac She who does her best, even if her best is failure. 071221 ... olive the reason men love women is that men love there mothers. they want to be inside the womb again... and they wan't to have the feeling of having a nipple between their lips again. 081001 ... niecespieces Today I realized for the first completly solid time that my mother does not love me. She complains and complains but I guess I have never really paid attention. I want a bigger house, I want millions of dollars, I hate my body, You dont care... She says and says and says and says. Really though, we have money. A bigger house would not make it be clean, but some effort would. Our house is not flawless but I thought it to be a home. Apparently life is replaceable. Family means nothing, only material possesions do. If I could just win the lottery, then I would move out and have a nice, perfect, clean house. And I could travel. Sold. She just sold me the fact that a house is worth more than her daughter, husband, and life. Why? Why does it make any sense for money (which barely even exists) to be more valuable than the human which she created, and the human which she created another human with. 090523 ... Raina all I want is more of her time 130530 ... tail-devouring snake You let yourself be bullied, you hide what's true and real for you, because you are so deathly afraid of being left alone, left behind. 140310 ... motherless "...and YOU. I don't care what happens to you. I don't care if I ever talk to you again." so brutal, her words. The shock of it, the hurt, the unfairness rammed my heart like a stake... and as I stood there shaking, reeling, all I could say anymore, so done, so done with her was "fine, you no longer have a daughter". out the door I went, never to look back. Then the years hit me. Decades of caring for her, being her defender when everyone else was done with her... always there to listen to her troubles and woes, though I knew they were self created. Nonetheless I cared. Even though never did she ask me, "how are you?", I always listened. And it was all for nothing. full circle to zero. She told me of things my Dad said of me before he died... she riled a campaign against me, while I was off at work, innocent, oblivious. What mother does this to her young? :( I no longer invite pain into my life. I no longer communicate with those who do not listen. Love is a gift meant to me cherished. Goodbye. 140414 what's it to you? who go blather from