intimacy Drennan Has intimacy between people been destroyed by the internet. The letter and telegraph were its banshee cry and the telephone its poison, they strangled it but could not stifle its existance, but the E-mail and internet was like a scythe through it's heart. I had hoped that of all things, intimacy was our most devine. 991002 ... sparker even in its greatest depth, can make strangers out of lovers 991206 ... Shugarhi i tried intimacy...it led to failure and a broken heart 010515 ... Glory Box The internet can breed intimacy, but only the most shallow, unfulfilling kind. 010917 ... Orange Bang I never much liked Tim Macy. He was always always the heppest cool cat. He was in, before like, anyone else was in. 011215 ... lookie here is a good thing if all parties involved know what the fuck theyre doing. knowing how to avoid abusing intimacy is also a good thing. 011215 ... ClairE Transcending bridges. 011215 ... ExiriaMalice the internet in it's way has destroyed intimacy, but it can never obliterate it completely, b/c it's so inherent in all that we do, whether we know it or not 020708 ... jane intimacy has not been destroyed, only muffled by fear, leading to superficiality. if you're not being honest, how can you know if what you have is true, or if they like just your persona? true, i have my own fears. i have built up walls that need to be climbed, or better yet, demolished. what is this deal with the avoidance of pain? in the end, the intimacy is worth it. tis better to have loved and lost than to not love at all, right? huh. try it. 050614 ... . get out there, into the real world if you want intimacy - the internet may or may not be the real world but most often, for most people, it is the latter, believe it or not. 050615 ... a chaotic gift to idealism nothing can destroy intimacy. it is the glorious wonder of one and one making one. in the form of something sensed, it is the combination of one and one making one. like love and hate alike in their own, intimacy drives onward being all powerful, never knowing the realm of the demised. if anything, the internet has only given intimacy a new world to dabble itself in. dont get me wrong, i do still prefer intimacy in it's sweetst form, that of which is with my loved one wrapped in my arms. that to me is intimacy at its best. 050615 ... Q a nice head game for souls and their bodies 050910 ... pSyche "Intimacy is when we're in the same place at the same time Dealing honestly with how we feel, and who we really are That's what grown-ups do That is mature thinking" 070628 ... Lemon_Soda Look, I'm gonna clear this up for you guys: Intimacy is a moment. Stop expecting it to last forever. YOUR not even going to last forever. Stop associating and expecting "true love" with intimacy,THEY ARE NOT THE SAME THING. You want to know who REALLY loves you? Its the person who is always going out of their way for you. Its the person you like to talk too because you feel they are really listening. Its the person who is , every time you look to see, STILL THERE! Hollywood brings us up expecting "true love" and "happily ever after" with our perfect bodies and our perfect jobs and the lie that as soon as you really, intimately bond with someone, that everything will be allright forever. NEWS FLASH! They lied. Its a pretty story but its no different than Saturday morning cartoons. Made up to entertain. Nothing more. A REAListic optimIST might say you can have love, maybe even for the majority of your life, but you'd be deluding yourself if you thought you wouldn't have hardships along the way. Truth is you have to fight to makeyour dreams real, and you havee to keep fighting to keep them real. You can have it, just don't think wishing it is going to make it happen. Sorry...really took off on that one. My apologies... 070628 ... Lemon_Soda Oh...and stop blaming people for not loving you anymore. Let them go, and find someone else. BELIEVE me. I wasted alot of time fuming and pining over someone I lost. The relationship wasn't a waste of time, but yearning and ranting for it afterword certainly was. has no sugar content today. 070628 ... . oh give me a spliff then. 070628 ... LS Whats a spliff? 070628 ... kuffsleeve it's what Bob Marley used to smoke but it killed him in the end. the new spliff should be chill out zones, like calm places to go, i can't find that around here, it's driving me crazy. (yeah they went that way... cooorrr... true true) 070628 ... nr it felt close, anyway. as close as it could get. i like the way you stroke my hair, and touch my arm, and ask me how i'm doing and if things are okay with me. i'd say, yeah, they were a lot more than okay. i like the way we could almost immediately talk about anything, and how we make each other laugh. i like that you text me, and always text me back as soon as you get my texts. neither of us know what now. because i'm gone. but i shall return. that is a threat. i just hope you're still there. 140929 ... nr i like when you text-wink at me. 141019 what's it to you? who go blather from