husband Shar doesn't mean owner or director or leader or child so don't treat him that way 000503 ... Blanch what DOES it mean anyway? 010112 ... you know me what's a husband? the man who stands up for you when you won't even stand up for yourself- the man who believes in you and won't let you stop believing in yourself- the man who gets up late at night to check things out when, really, it was the cat in the garbage can again- your shoulder to cry on- the arms that make you feel so safe- good father to your children- loves the cat when he's really a dog person- what's a husband? maybe you won't know for yourself until you have one~ 010113 ... camille after the flowers die and the memory of the thought fades... a husband becomes your father 041012 ... lola i want one :( 041013 ... lunaria my life partner; my best friend stability familiarity kindness tenderness understanding sharing knowing laughing crying husband is everything i could ask for in a companion 050226 what's it to you? who go blather from