sweet_little_asian_girl Sonya I'm told that I should keep quiet while you undress me with your eyes You want to put me in some silk robe and make me wear bright red lipstick I'm just a toy to play with and satisfy your fetish My pleasure, and my desires are always second to yours I'm told that I should be feminine and I should be delicate and pure You call me "china doll" one minute and the next you call me "chink bitch" I'm just some dirty immigrant, or am I? I'm also supposed to be studious and sweet I'm supposed to be hardworking and not put up a fight I'm just your sweet little Asian girl I'm the supposed female incarnation of complacency that helps you sleep better at night I have no representation to look up to like the other girls Barbie isn't me and never was nor ever will be You've asked me why I have almond eyes as if I had control over it You say that my olive skin is repulsive And still to you I'm just the sweet little Asian girl You only know of the Chinese and no one else You fail to see my other qualities and backgrounds I'm just the sweet little Asian girl you can push around Well I hate to break it to you but this girl has a lot more to her And maybe, just maybe if you took the time to see what lies inside this sweet little Asian girl you'd see You'd see that you might just enjoy being around me 011107 ... unhinged "do you have any asian in your background?" 011107 ... ilovepatsajak my best friend is korean and i hate going out with her because guys stare at her so much and it makes me sick. and my dad looks at asian porn, so i hate being with him and her at the same time. it's becoming some kind of trend. like that annoying lesbian thing. 011108 ... ilovepatsajak asiaphiles 011108 ... Sonya The whole "Asian" trend is pissing me off. It's mostly because I'm Asian and I have some guys staring at me but not in the normal way. It's kind of creepy you know?? And they aren't even my age, a lot of them are OLDER and creepier....they want that asian schoolgirl thing...damn pedophiles. Anyway, the thing is that it's kind of flattering but mostly not because our potential is dumbed down. We are nothing more than some little doll to play with. That is what really pisses me off. I don't mind people liking the way I look, but if that's all they like about me, or that's all they want from me, or if that's all they expect me to be, I WILL be pissed. 011108 ... ilovepatsajak it pisses me off too because now i am jealous of asian girls haha. just kidding. but it really does need to stop, you have the right to be angry. 011108 ... Rickster Forget what you know for it is little, Remember that each of us has a heart that is very brittle, You must understand that people don't always know, How to explain how they feel and how to tell you what they know, You must be accepting of the small things they do, Even if they seem evil and and sometimes shrew, Love is but a bitter battle, It doesn't take much to get on the saddle, Learn to find the things that make a difference, Be honest with yourself and take none of it, If you cannot find what you so desire within the one you have, Then end it now and remember you gave it everything you had, Time will heal the wounds they create, So deep, so painful they seem to be, But yet we move on like nothing can stop, Because thats how simple life can be, Start over and think of why you love the one you do, Make sure you understand that love is a precious thing, So much to understand and such a slow process of learning, Where do we place the ones we love among our hearts, Is it somewhere that others could see from the start, Perhaps they see it and toy with us to cause the pain, But maybe your just taking it to hard and crying yourself to sleep in vain, If you cannot live with the one you hold dear, Then pack your bags, throw em in the back and put the fucking car in gear. 021226 ... Jess I'm Chinese 100% although born & raised in UK. I still know Cantonese. I have something to say too. I fucking hate those men who are like, over the age of...50-something, looking at me while I go out shopping. It makes me feel so sick that I just wanna go out there and kill them damn pedo, rapers, molsters etc... Why do people do these things? Why don't they just carry on a normal fucking life instead of doing those "things." Sick bastards... Wonderful poem above all. It captures what girls think and feel about people giving them looks or something 031109 ... magicforest damnthemallme 031124 ... Lemon_Soda Okay... No one anywhere has the right to tell anyone where they can or cannot point their eyes. No one anywhere has the right to tell anyone what they can and cannot think. Do not get angry at someone for finding you attractive because of the way you look. Its a compliment. They most likely haven't even had the oppurtunity to get to know you yet. Get angry when they start pushing the subject or subjecting you to their opinion when you'd rather not hear it. Am I supposed to walk around with a blindfold on until I've had a meaningful conversation with every woman I meet? Can I magically turn off the part of my brain that makes me find women beautiful or attractive? Do I control my subconcious reactions so well? Is there anybody on the planet who is capable of having sex that has NOT fantasized about somebody while looking at them? Everybody is meat to someone. Of course there are extremes. 50 year old whoevers don't need to be looking at anyone in the lower age groups, just like 14 yearolds don't need to be masturbating to a 35 year old actress' photo. People like sex. People people will fantasize about sex with certain people. People some times think of people as playmates and sex toys. But even if the rest of the whole friggin world thinks so, that doesn't mean you are. You are what you think you are. You stand where you stand, not where someone else says you do. I'm sorry there are pedophiles out there. I'm sorry alot guys have a drooling problem. And I'm sorry you find it annoying that your attractive enough to have this problem. But unless your a nun(even then its not over yet), expect someone on the street to look at you and want to have sex with you. It's going to happen. Where you take it from there is up to you, but I've never understood why people get upset at the way other people think when in all likely hood your just going to walk past the guy and never see him again anyway. As for this sweet little asian girl thing, thats just one of a million stereotypes of sexual playmates. Some people like same sex, somepeople want a virgin husband, some people want a gal with huge feet. Until as a culture on the whole we decide to filter this sensual/perversive attitude out, everyone is going to have to deal with this. And by the looks of it, I really don't think we're going to drop our number one selling point for the moral minority. 031124 ... misstree holy sh*t soda! righton! everyone is meat, everyone is an object, starting raising a fit only if you actually interact with someone and they fail to shift their perspectivometer to "real human being." until then, deal with it or blind yourself to avoid the inherent hypcorisy. also, beauty's_curse floated back to recent mammary from this page. other side of the coin, i suppose, but it's the same coin. 031124 ... Piso Mojado at the LA Times festival of books one year, walking the ucla campus, got a sticker: angry_little_asian_girl 031124 ... oldephebe objectification sucks! as a guy who grew up with four sisters each with varying shades and bodily, facial attributes..I became very sensitive towards what a hassle it was for them sometimes. Without my mom or anyone of them prompting or inculcating me, i kinda had a sensitivity towards how to respectfully regard a female. but yeah the whole asian thing is an object of obsession amongst some guys...personally i think all women are beautiful and i think our pornographic, misogynistic culture fans the fires of predators, pedophiles and closet mysogonists..yeah me a guy..saying this..i've consoled far too many friends in college whose dates got a little drunk and carried away..it sucks. Fathers and if not fathers then Mothers have got to have a serious grab you buy the hair talk with their young lions swelling with testosterone and sexual curiosity, desire. We've got to set these boys straight and help them to cultivate discipline and empathy and not wait until they are 15 or 16 or about to leave for college. 031124 ... ClairE L_S, I don't even understand what you are answering to. Did you see what Sonya said before you ever blathed? Sonya I'm Asian and I have some guys staring at me but not in the normal way. It's kind of creepy you know?? And they aren't even my age, a lot of them are OLDER and creepier....they want that asian schoolgirl thing...damn pedophiles. Anyway, the thing is that it's kind of flattering but mostly not because our potential is dumbed down. We are nothing more than some little doll to play with. That is what really pisses me off. I don't mind people liking the way I look, but if that's all they like about me, or that's all they want from me, or if that's all they expect me to be, I WILL be pissed. 011108 I really don't understand where your outburst came from because I don't see who told you where to "point your eyes". If there is something specific that triggered it, I would love to know where it is. But saying that anyone who does not want to be objectified as a stereotype has no right to get angry just doesn't fly. People who are into this idea of the sweet little Asian girl don't find them attractive as human beings or females. It is just some perverted distortion in their heads that dehumanizes the person he is viewing. You may see it as a simple case of attraction, but it stems from something rotten and evil. 031124 ... ClairE He/she, my_bad! How heterosexist and man_hating of me! 031124 ... Lemon_Soda Your upset because somebody somewhere thinks of little asian girls and gets a boner without taking the time to think to themselves "gosh, I wonder what her favorite hobbies are?". I've never seen someone so wrapped up in someone elses opinion. Especially someone you've never met nor have any plans of seeking out. Your making it sound like an army of perverts is marching through the streets grabbing little asian girls by the hoardes and buttering their bread with a butcher knife. Your aware that the age of consent is 13 in alot of eastern countries, right? Their train of thought is exceptable to more people than live in THIS country. Not MY bag of tea, I assure you, but it kinda puts things in perspective. Maybe one of us isn't looking past their own nose. As for what I said in my earlier post, it applies perfectly. Perhaps the wading pool was a bit deep, so I'll drain it down to a sentence. Those pedophiles opinions about your lack of use aside from sex only applies to you when you let it. But maybe I'm wrong. Maybe you'd prefer to walk down the street looking over your shoulder for drooling old men holding their canes a bit to firmly. Or perhaps it pleases you to fixate on thoughts of older men treating you as such. Go ahead. Let it fester and boil in your heart. String that sword with a fine thread and stand under it. See how many dates you get. If you believe that thought patterns like this arn't going to severely cramp your ability to get close to ANYONE, you sorely mistaken. If you want to lable me an asshole, feel free. Its worth it if I can pierce just one of your minds with the thought that your worth more than what a non-descript pervert has to think of you. 031127 ... magicforest Don't worry so much. It really doesn't matter what they think you are. You know better than they do. And if you don't know better than they do, You'll never believe it anyway. 031127 ... notme across_the_sea 031127 ... . . 031129 ...