ask_lovers_lament lovers lament alright, you know what to do. . .you ask me silly questions about ice cream and dreams and i tell you my take on things. . .so let's get on with it. who's going first? 001123 ... silentbob what do i do if im the lonliest boy in the whole world? 001123 ... Barrett Hey Bobby, join the fuck'n club! membership is due.... Fuck it! Welcome aboard! 001123 ... Snakeyes Here are the rules for the lonely club: 1. U never talk about the lonely club 2. If u're ever lonely..shut the fuck up 3. If u make me feel lonely i'll kill ya 001123 ... lovers lament bobby, poor, sweet bobby. if you are the loneliest boy in the whole world then you must, obviously, search out the loneliest girl in the whole world. when you have found her, you can make babies and not be lonely anymore. or, if you don't fancy that solution, you could always talk to me. i'm always lonely, even when i'm surrounded by people i love who in turn love me. sometimes the combination of "lonelies" will perk you right up. :) 001123 ... lovers lament (and it's at least nice to know that there are people who understand how you feel and can sympathize) 001123 ... ewww silentbob Yeah, that always makes me feel better you should get some kind of chatline and we could chat it up like banshees in the night. do you have one? next question: What do i do if i turn into a gnewt? 001123 ... lovers lament bobby, no i do not have a chatline. don't know where to find one or what exactly that does. i have ICQ, i forget my nick, i'll email it to you later. if you turn into a newt (which, by the way, is unlike Gnat, which has a "g" at the beginning) you MUST watch out for the witches. i will put you in an aquarium in my home and kiss you every night. In which case, if you don't turn back into bobby, you can at least see me undress every night and get a salamander boner. LOL as a side note: the witch comment better not offend any Wiccans out there, because if it does. . . you are an idiot.you should know i don't mean it that way. 001124 ... silentbob haha salamander boner rich. Lets see...what next. OH Yes. If you could be reincarnated as any kind of weather...what would you be? 001124 ... lovers lament ask me a hard question, bobby. i would most definitely be a storm. and not some pany-ass storm either. i'd be the storm that hits just after sundown. no warning. one minute peace, silence, cool night air, the next-lightning and thunder tearing around, wind ripping up trees. no rain. just holocaust. just beautiful anarchy. no method. pure and utter random chaos. i am a storm sometimes. . . 001125 ... silentbob so its a hard question you want. very well. what is your perfect image of a guy? what would you do if you found out a guy you dismissed as just being an asshole, was actually everything your image entailed? What would you say to him? Answer all three. Maybe that isn't hard. don't worry, i'll brainstorm more. 001125 ... MollyCule hey lovers lament - what do you do with a horny, 18 year old ADD afflicted boyfriend? 001125 ... MollyCule kisses 001125 ... lovers lament bobby dearest, my perfect image of a guy is what i basically have now. 1. he's not out for sex only 2. he has a heart and is not afraid to show it (even in front of his friends) 3. he can break down in front of me, shamelessly. 4. he cries 5. he likes to cook 6. he thinks i am fabulous 7. i think he is fabulous 8. he writes beautiful poetry. 9. he's not afraid of commitment 10. his name is tom stack in reply to your second question: i did originally write him off as just another asshole (so it's kinda funny you mentioned that), but then i felt like an idiot. (but that was mutual because he had thought i was just an asshole too) in reply to your third question: i asked him out. mollycule, my soul-mate: i guess you'll just have to fuck his brains out until he finally (if ever) gets sick and tired of looking at your naked body. 001126 ... lovers lament mollycule: HA. . . . . . . . .!!!!!!!!!! yea fuckin right. you know that was a joke. sorry, babydoll, you're stuck with him until you dump his ass. (or at least until he's not afraid that we'll key his piece-of-shit car anymore) 001126 ... silentbob Lovers Lament Why is it that every woman i have ever met in my life that i thought would be perfect for me, lives at least 300 lightyears away? Just curious. 001126 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l1) What are the possible means to separate your LOVE from your EMOTION? 001127 ... lovers lament my silent boy, because it is a cruel joke played by fate or god, that you must endure for a predestined amount of time before being deemed as worthy to find someone closer. and cuz life sucks that way sometimes. why, who ya jonesin' for, bobby? ;) 001127 ... lovers lament to separate your love from you emotion, you must have equal parts gasoline and o.j. (of the drinkable variety) and mix them together. honestly, i don't think that is possible. love IS an emotion. therefore, to separate it from other such feelings is pointless as it will always be recycled back into the mix. 001127 ... silentbob I'm jonesing for every girl who has ever said "Hey, what is your A/S/L" and had her preference of music be remotely close to mine. I wish the internet was a big singles bar, so i could actually hit on everybody in real life and have them turn me down. somehow, i think it would be more worth it. Hmm...my question... If i were tied to a big stick in the middle of a pit surrounded by alligators and a pendulum was swiping by every minute, cutting my ropes, what would you do??? 001127 ... coeur noir lover's lament; why is it that i only ever really fall for my friends even though none has ever been willing to let me be anything more than just that (and even sometimes just barely that) and on the other hand, why is it that anyone who will sleep with me never really bothers to find out if i'm good for anything else (even when it's more than just a one_night_deal ?) damned curious, Grendel 001127 ... lovers lament dear bobby, that's a silly question. i would tie a rope around the tree that would be just outside the pit, i would then swing out to the stick that you were tied to and grab you just as you were about to fall. we would both then swing back to land unscathed, and fall in love and have lots of babies. either that or i would get a big gun and shoot all of the alligators and rig a net in the pit for you to land in. ;) 001127 ... lovers lament dear coeur noir (grendel), this is an unavoidable constant. this is what happens. you meet a nice girl, you, being a nice guy, immediately think, hey, she's pretty cool. she, of course, thinks, wow, friend! this is because women will always fall for the heartbreaking-rebel-type.you, i assume, are not that. if you become this, you will undoubtedly have flocks of women beating at each other to call you "boyfriend". but, that would also defeat your point. so my suggestion is to start looking at older females. those who have had their hearts broken enough times to hopefully wise up a bit. i'm not saying 80 yr. old or anything. just look a bit older. and if all they seem to want you for is sex, don't give it to them. you're better than that. 001127 ... Snakeyes hey thats a good idea....tested & true!! I've been with a lot of girls & most of them are as u said just interested in calling me 'boyfriend' so I thought that I should maybe stop dating for a while...which I did & by total accident I met the current love of my life. She is around 4 yrs older than me & we have been together for nearly 1.5 yrs.... 001127 ... silentbob oh hey, thast COOL What would your DREAM job be? 001127 ... lovers lament taste testing for Denny's? that's a good question. i think it would be to run my own coffee house/nightclub/bookstore. and/or yup. 001128 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l2) Is SALT separated from WATER as to LOVE separated from EMOTION? l3) What is your definition of LOVE? 001128 ... silentbob Lover's Lament: How often do you lovingly lament your love? 001128 ... grendel in the glass case dear lover's lament; i wonder about that. even when i was the dangerous criminal type (a secret i kept from my "friends" to protect them) i was always either " just_a_friend " or " just_a_fuck " (see: one_night_deal ) it's not a long story, but rather a collection of them, each more ridiculous than the next, but, hey, thanks for the advice all the same. 001128 ... lovers lament in tears dear kx21, 12) yes. 13) love is infinite. it knows no bounds. once you are truly in love you can never get over it. seeing that person again will always be cause to breathe a little bit faster. love IS jealous. but love is pure nonetheless. and stings and charms and devours. it is everything beautiful and tragic. 001129 ... lovers lament silentbob, if you counted every second from now until infinity, you still wouldn't be close. 001129 ... silentbob lovers lament, when will i find myself a girl who loves me that drives me crazy and i can just go "Wow...you're the best thing that ever happened to me..." What are kind of time frame are we lookin at here? 001129 ... MollyCule go ask the Magic 8 Nipple. ask_mollycule 001129 ... startfires hey *L.L.* do you like tomatoe soup and grilled cheese sandwiches? i do. 001130 ... lovers lament silent bob-by, survey says: never! just kidding. i think that you will find her very soon, i just have a very positive feeling about it. i'd say at least within the next year, if not just 6 monthes. how's that strike ya? 001201 ... lovers lament lamenting not eating specified meal dear starfires, funny you should mention that. . .that just happens to be a fav meal, i eat it at mollycule's all the time. BUT, the soup must be spiced up a bit, and the sandwich must have swiss and american, and munster if available. ;) 001201 ... silentbob oh that strikes me as a long time, but in the long running realm of things it aint so bad. Next little question. What are you and my virginity going to do on your first date? 001201 ... lovers lament well first we'll have a romantic candlelight dinner, then it's off to the movies, then i guess i'll prolly fuck it, doggie style 001202 ... DedAce As if there ever was a lovers lane that did not have a tale of a man with a hook hacking young supple breasts and fine football playing backs. Never a story about the love that was bore there. 001202 ... lovers lament welcome to our insanity dedace, hope you enjoy your stay 001202 ... DedAce I will enjoy my stay. My years have given me privledge to see what is no more than a gleam is some young boys eye, or a distant dream in some young girls heart. Desire? Love? Virginity? All once upon a time reserved for one and one alone. Now thrown around like our young, our old, and even like us. Direction? There is none. Passion? Tarred and feathered by lust, Commitment? Only when you start masturbating to Hollocaust films. Ironic isn't it. That most truth is found in silence, most light in darkness, and most sorrow in anothers elation. The blackest souls are often the most colorful. 001202 ... my my the cruelest lies are often told without a w Dear Lovers Lament How can i convince dedace that the worlds not completely fucked up? that not EVERY youth in the world today fits that description? 001202 ... startfires # dear lover's lamb mint # do you ever like just lose hours or days? like you just look at the clock and it's three hours later? or three months later? isn't that scary? 001202 ... lovers lament dear mymy, ace is just one more lost case, i, alas, know him all too well. besides, i don't really think that he thinks all that. 001203 ... lovers lament dear starfires, yes, and it fuckin scares the shit outta me. don't you think that if our brains are like computers we might be missing a few important chips or something. maybe god messed up the programming, i dunno. 001203 ... Jenna Elfman God is in a meeting right now, he will be with you shortly. 001203 ... silentbob How do i fit in the vast puzzle of the universe? and where do you fit in? 001203 ... lovers lament bobby, my love, in the vast puzzle that is the universe, you take up a very large and important piece. the role that you play is a 'healer'. the reason that i call you this is because i believe that people find it calming, even theraputic, to talk to you. you have the mental capacity to give people the advice and understanding that will truly benefit them. you give so freely of yourself that you sometimes feel stretched or unappreciated. but fear not, because someone somewhere is taking note of all of your good deeds, and you will be rewarded. (sorry, didn't mean to sound like a horoscope) i am just one more little piece that fits into the border and makes the universe whole. and when i am gone, there will be someone else to take my place in the scheme of things. 001203 ... Jenna Elfman God will see you now. 001203 ... DedAce I don't see the world as fucked up mymy. I just work very hard to keep mine that way and thus, I keep it bright and shiney like a new penny on a summers morn. And yes, LL does know me. But, hell, even I have to have a nice thing or two in my life. 001203 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l4) Naturally & Technically, there are many means to separate SALT from WATER. What are the ways to separate LOVE from EMOTION? l5) How do you measure LOVE, particularly, your unit of measurement of LOVE Level to support your profound thought on "love is infinite. it knows no bounds"? l6) How do you differetiate you truly loved someone or you engaged someone in an inappropriate relationship? 001203 ... lovers lament kx21 before i answer your questions, i have a question of my own. 17) have you ever been in love or loved anyone? 001204 ... lovers lament 14) i suppose you would have to view LOVE separately. that sounds redundant, but here's what i mean. put your LOVE in a category separate from your EMOTION. sift out everything that isn't your LOVE, i.e. anger, hatred,bitterness, etc. and put them in the EMOTION category. everything leftover goes in the LOVE category. 15)i measure it this way. as an example, take someone who has been in your life for a very long time, maybe your mother or sister or something. if you have ever truly loved that person, that love will never stop. even if they fuck everything up and you start to hate them, you will still, somewhere inside of you, hold that grain of love. forever. 16)if you LOVE someone, you will know it, inside and out. even the shit that they do that you HATE, is still endearing when you sit down and consider it. as to whether or not they are the right person for you, well, you might never know. unless you're psychic. in which case, congratulations, and can i have a free reading? 001204 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l8) Are you trying to conclude that LOVE is the only Language in your LIFE as to Change is the only Constant in the UNIVERSE? 001204 ... lovers lament kx21, 18)no, what made you think that? 001204 ... sick of shit loverslaement, why dont ypu just fucking die? you keep talkin all this shit abuot how you slit you're rist and shit but y arent you ded than? i keep fucking preying youll die soon. will i get my wish within a yaer? please say yesi am so sick of you. comit suicide and make every one happy. 001204 ... lovers lament dear sick of shit, don't worry too much, i hate you too. your spelling is enough to make me hate you, and four-star vocabulary helps a little too. i might just choose to live on the premise of pissing you off. :) 001204 ... startfires dear lubber's land lint, how_does_it_feel? 001204 ... unhinged some people are stupid fucks that don't know the difference between self-mutilation and suicidal tendencies. they aren't connected. lovers lament, can we please please please live in that commune that we told the drunk people about last night in dennys? me you molly tom kt...probably would have to have some more guys...i'm sure you know who i have in mind. your boy is wonderful and i hope that you are happy together forever. nothing like walking in sheetz at 5:30am and acting like assholes. i will say it for the five thousandth time I LOVE YOU 001204 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l9) Can LOVE really be measured you objectively? l10) How do you determine the level or degree, etc. of LOVE you gave out and LOVE you received? l11) Is LOVE really exist or just an illusion of emotional Lust / desire? 001204 ... silentbob lovers lament: if i were a piglet, would you grow me up big and fat to make bacon of ? because it would be the best bacon in the land. or would you keep me up nice as a pet? cuz id be the loveliest pig around 001204 ... unhinged i would keep you around silentbob...when i look at myself in the mirror lately my face doesn't look right...i hate it when that happens. 001205 ... lovers lament it feels real good, starfires. . .aaah, yea 001207 ... lovers lament dear kx21 19) i guess not l10)i don't think it can be measured. l11) it really exists, lust is a completely different feeling 001207 ... lovers lament dear unhinged. i have set the date for the move to the lesbian nun commune at January 17th. that is all. dear silent bob, i could never slaughter you, even if you do taste really good, and i know you do ;) i would keep you and make sure everyone in the world knew that you were the prettiest, loveliest pig. 001207 ... MollyCule dear LL Bean - don't you feel like a pretty cow? 001207 ... your temporary atom ~ lovers lament ah, but honey, i didn't mean it that way. . . ;) love you mollycule 001207 ... unhinged YES =) i'm marking my calendar....i hope you have a good day...i won't be seeing you tonight cause i'm sooo sleepy and i have a lot to do over the weekend...two big finals on monday. maybe i will see you tomorrow night at the nyabinghi. 001207 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l12) Given that you do not have any emotional Desires or Lusts for LOVE. Why are you thinking, taking, writing and making the fuss around LOVE? l13) How do you detect LOVE? Are there any commercial LOVE DETECTORS or LOVE SENSORS available to confirm or measure the state, degree, level, etc. of LOVE? Copyright 2000. kx21.com 001207 ... silentbob Lovers Lament Will you email me? i miss you. 001207 ... lovers lament l12) um. i don't know where you got that idea. i just said that love isn't my main drive in life. i am very deeply in love with someone right this very moment and have been for some time. so, of course, i would feel strongly about the subject. l13) other than the corny 'stick thumb here for five seconds' color testers i am not sure. they did some sort of test in germany or somewhere like that, i think, if you want to hear about let me know. i don't feel like typing it out right now. 001210 ... EECP Dear Lament, Do you know what my EECP stands for? Bob wants to know. It may be a growing question, and only a handful of people know what I am. I would like to know what you think it may mean. 001213 ... lovers lament EECP extraordinarily extravagant charismatic prick? i have no idea. 001214 ... silentbob when the world ends how will i know? will there be a sail? will they anounce it on tv? and if the world were ending..would you think of me? if it doesn't work out with our english teacher...would you think of me? 001214 ... lovers lament when the world is ending you will know. it will not just one day cease to exist, but rather, it will tear itself apart. that's what i believe anyways. yes, i would think of you. you have impacted my life, bobbylove, and i would never not think of you. and if that was a reference to My Girl, i would definitely think of you BEFORE my english teacher. loves ya. lovers lament 001216 ... lovers lament tangled 001216 ... unhinged i miss you baby...sorry our last night together for awhile had to be so weird...everyone's pissed at me..hope you and molly aren't...reaching across the wires i give the biggest hug i can muster through all this damn webbing. these damn holidays. they always got me down. 001217 ... silentbob oh definately it was a reference to my girl. What do i do if im sick of life situation and the only way out might possibly not work? how do i see myself thru and not worry? 001217 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l14) What is the prerequisite(s) of Love? l15) How do you determine the capacity of your LOVE? 001218 ... lovers lament dearest bobby forgive me for saying so, but you sound a little close to life's edge there. have you ever dabbled in magic? not parlor tricks but real magic? if you have, you'll understand that feeling of power when performing a ritual, and the feeling of strength when it works. if not, it's definitely worth looking into. magic has had a way of balancing my hard times. it helps me focus when i am depressed. my focus evolves into strength, and when i realize that strength, i stop looking for ways out. just a suggestion. i love you, bobby. 001221 ... lovers lament kx21, sorry. i am tired of answering your endless questions about love. they are well worded but poorly thought out. i can't deal with them anymore. to be honest, they're really starting to annoy the shit out of me. pick a new subject or don't bother me anymore. no offense. 001221 ... the ancient and terrible birdmad Dear Lovers Lament Do you prefer to play with black candles or red? What has been the most disturbing result of any ritual you have ever conducted and has anybody ever fouled the results of your workings so that it backfired on you? (and if so, do you know how to lift it?) 001221 ... unhinged are you out there? i'll be back in a week and a half. i can't wait. so on sunday january 14th you better be in the usual place at around 11pm so i can tackle you to the ground and blow in your ear. 010102 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l14) The prerequisite(s) of Love:- Relationship, Water? l15) Way to determine the capacity of your LOVE:- Reading, Wavelength? 010103 ... Shae Dear lovers lament Has kx21 really asked 115 questions? cause the however many i read today were really really annoying Anyway, my question in truth is that of this I'm moving in with my boy, mi amor and i keep feeling a little weirded out by the thought I really really love him though and we spend all our time together anyway... am i crazy? 010104 ... shae the bored I counted ( i have way too much time on my hands) how many questions kx21 has up there... 17 if i didn't lose count at some point do to distraction by pretty words 010104 ... kx21 Dear Lovers Lament, l16) What is the connection or relationship between LOVE and TIME? l17) Will Love become Bore over TIME? Why? 010104 ... lovers lament who is sorry for taking so long to r birdmad, i prefer whatever color candle pertaining to the ritual. and that doesn't mean just black or red. black is for banishing and red is for energy, sec-shooo-al and otherwise. i was at a place with two other friends that is haunted and in my mind i began to call out. to nothing in particular, just whatever happened to be around. i asked to be able to see or hear something that would lead us in a general direction of figuring out the mystery behind this place. well i thought nothing happened. but i talked to one of my friends three days later (he was with us) and he said he saw a purple aura around my car and heard scratching noises coming from everywhere. he didn't even know that i was doing anything cuz i didn't think he'd care to know, so i didn't tell him. no one, to my knowledge, has attempted to harm me or cast on me with magic. but, yes, i believe i would know how to counter it. 010108 ... lovers lament dear shae, i've not been around for awhile so if you blathered your question a long time ago, i am sorry for taking long to reply. there is nothing wrong with loving someone and wanting to see them more often. if moving in isn't that much of a jump from where you are now, i say go for it. but things to remember are: 1) respect his space, there are things about his life that he may want to keep private or separate from you. don't be offended, just go with the flow. 2) respect each others habits. if your sleeping schedules are different, don't try to force each other into the same one. if he likes to have a buncha people over to party and you hate it, find a happy medium. reminder: compromise and communication are key. 010108 ... lovers lament kx21, i will continue to ignore your questions until you stop filling my page up with bullshit. i don't really give a shit if water is to love as stink is to a monkey's ass. take your questions somewhere else. 010108 ... kx21 Hints to l1) to l17):- FORM is VOID & VOID is FORM. THE_HEART_SUTRA... 010108 ... unhinged this place was beginning to feel like a tomb...aaaaahhh haha there she is 010109 ... unhinged so where are you going to be sunday dearest? 010109 ... kx21 I_am_nothing. I am someone or somebody or something whose you meet or miss it somehow, sometime someday, someplace somewhere; or anytime, anyplace anywhere; or everytime; or everyplace everywhere... 010109 ... you . 010117 ... Tony This little heart tease. She plays off non typical but in reality, she just loves to hear fuck any guy she can lure in. Pay no attention to her shit cause that is all it is. I feel for her Boyfriend, he should run like hell. 010508 ... uno some stange people hah this whole page is getting a bit bitchy init, bet you're sick and tired of answering all these questions. 010526 ... lovers lament not sick of the good questions, but yes, sick of the bullshit. and who were you referring to with that last comment Tony. if, that is, the mysterious Tony is still around. 010703 ... unhinged why do i have to make love pain? why do i always shut myself up in the closet when my heart starts to get full? 010804 ... silentbob if i were drowning, what kind of air would you breathe into me? everlasting life? everlasting love? everlasting strength? Everlasting life does not make me live forever, but makes me enjoy life to the fullest, every second of it, even when it hurts. Everlasting love does not make others love me, but it causes me to love unconditionally and forever be able to share my heart with everyone. Everlasting strength is the ability to pick up and hold on whenever lifes trouble is affecting me. it won't hurt me and i will prevail. which one? 010927 ... lovers lament dearest unhinged: i do it too. it's a safety mechanism. we're like bank trucks or swat team vans, built to be impenetrable. i'm locking myself in the closet today...away from greg....because i care about him, and that hurts too much. to my digital hubby: i have acquired the nickname 'trinity' from my best friend Ron (who started it) and a few other people. therefore, if you were drowning, i would give you all three. and do you know, i don't think i'd have to lock my feelings away if i did that for you. it's obvious that you feel as much as unhinged and i do...you are one in a million, bobby. love ya both. 011006 ... unhinged what are you doing to yourself? 011023 ... dB Why is it that every woman I end up having any feeling for I can't have because of extenuating circumstances? 011023 ... lovers lament sorry if i scared you, love. i just wanted to experience that. it was well worth it. for 9 hours i sat inside my own head and figured a lot of things out. i am sorry that i saw you that way though. it was at first like being very slaphappy stoned, euphoric kind of. that's the state you saw me in. i calmed down a lot after that. i went for a 2 hour walk at 5 this morning with my friend kevin and saw some very beautiful things. it wasn't out of control like you first saw. i just had to get accustomed to it. please don't be upset with me, i've always wanted to try that. love you hon. and mollycule, if you see this page today, i'll give you a call after my class tonight. sorry i forgot to last night, got lost in the mirror a few times. ;) 011023 ... lovers lament well dB, that's what we in the 'field' like to call life. sad, but true. the more you wanted it, the harder it is to grasp. there's about 5 situations in my own life that spring to mind when you ask that question, so if it makes you feel any better, you're not alone. the things that are meant to happen will happen at their own pace, and the things that weren't meant to happen will make themselves obvious soon enough. some shitty things have happened and not happened to me in my life, but when i look back, i don't think i would change very much of it. if it's worth it to you, and i mean worth possibly getting your hopes up only to have them crushed, then press on. worthy causes should always be fought for. 011023 ... trainkilled This is full on scab sickness. I read all of this and have to ask myself, was this my friend? When did this little tart begin to copywrite here rants? That is sad. Any legit writed would dismiss her in a heartbeat. Go back to jumping Tony and digging trenches in your arms and leave the spirit world alone, you are not welcomed. It's little whiney boy toys like you that keep the spirits away. A stable of male "friends" only means you are a provider of friction to the male member. It's not like you are interesting in any other way. This is the key to your depression. To many spraweled out nights with Ken or Joe or Tom or any other number of guys who sat through your crap long enough to get your out of style pants off. Stay out from under my bridge and quit calling on me. Stick with the denny's crowd as they reflected your true nature, just another piece of an ugly puzzle. 020313 ... continuous ache Here comes a train? 020411 ... yummyC do you like sporks as much as me? 020411 ... me_again no your the yummist; you and i both know that! what i dont understand is why i cant get a ride from u? 020412 ... MollyCule nope, not mine 020412 ... lycanthrope if an evil dictator made you choose one of two complete strangers to have their life spared (ala sophie's choice or the lady and the tiger) but you weren't allowed to talk to them or do anything but look at them, how would you decide which one to save? would you play rock paper scissors? or would you look for certain characteristics like physical appearance or emotional expression? just curious 020412 ... lovers lament their eyes would probably be the key. generally speaking, they hold almost everything you'd ever want to know about a person. if that didn't resolve it, maybe i'd just kill em both. fair is fair after all. 020417 what's it to you? who go blather from