harder nate Somewhere between too hard and not hard enough, just the right level of hard that we see that it's possible, but satisfyingly difficult. Harder is usually a good thing. Easier is often a bad thing. 021106 ... p2 why make it harder than it has to be? 021106 ... stork daddy because, she'll thank you later. 021106 ... p2 heheheh set the standard too high and she may be disappointed next time set it low first and improve and she'll think she's the reason 021107 ... sonic life just gets harder and harder. sometimes i wish that everything could just be easy, but it can't. if everything were easy then you would never grow and that is the whole purpose of life. every challenge you have helps you to grow into a better person and in a way i love that. 021226 ... no reason because you're harder on me than others it's harder not to be harder on myself when it comes to you (erg. any way this is said it sounds dirty.) 090629 what's it to you? who go blather from