bisexual alex311swim those who take advantge of what life has to offer and those who love to have fun! 010203 ... j_blue hm 010204 ... tazfab i think my boyfriend might be bi-sexual. he came out as gay in high school when he tought he wasn't going to be invited by his friends to hang out with them, because he was straight and they were gay. he now has a 3 year subsciption for play boy (he's had it, he renewed it for another 3 years). hm..and he can masturbate to straight porn... 010208 ... G_wiz13 any guy can masturbate to strait porn, and i dont concider playboy porn all it shows is tits. I think he prolly is gay if he orders playboy cuz playboy just sucks. 010214 ... the spork thats a silly argument considering that most of the harder porn mags have ads in them for gay and bi curious phone sex just an observation from the cutlery drawer 010214 ... spork-o-rama to say nothing of the ones for TVs and she-males 010214 ... j_blue i dont think anybody is anything, i mean we should all just go with who works (for ourselves) its funny how often people approach bisexuality from the hetero side though. 010214 ... glassprincess Let's just put it this way...I don't discriminate on the basis of gender. I like beauty. I like personality. It doesn't matter if the person is male or female. 010308 ... unhinged that seems about right 010314 ... jem i tend to wonder if im bisexual... i havent had much experience in either aspects of it so i guess i cant really label myself either way. but that could change 010314 ... lost I guess i dont have anything wrong with being bi. I just am not attracted at all in any way to any other guy. Thus i am strait. 010315 ... unhinged after the past couple days i have come to a confirmation. there is no doubt in my mind i love her. so i'm assuming that makes me bisexual. i think the whole problem i have with this label is the 'sex' part because to me all it has to do with is intense love beyond that of friendship. most days i can leave sex on the windowsill and come home to a dry, small mass of practically nothing. which is the way i like it. 010423 ... Persephone Beauty, sexuality, it's all fluid to me and rains down. It doesn't matter whose arms I'm in. I just want to be held. I have no limits. No boundaries. It's a free-for-all. 010506 ... keeper a good friend of mine once told me he wouldnt be surprised if i came out one day and told everyone i was bi. i wonder where he got that idea? maybe he was just hoping for a 3 some 010506 ... dovenightmare Easier than saying you just want to get fucked by a man. They say all the bisexual men end up with men, and so do all the bisexual women. The people get offended. But there's truth in there. . 010513 ... nemo i'm scared to say that i am 010614 ... Hil bisexuality feels so natural i wonder why everyons isn't bi. But then there are some who say everyone is. I don't agree with that. 010714 ... Casey I have never met one that I know of, but I believe that no one should be judged just because of their sexual prefrence. 010714 ... freakizh i agree on the thought that we fell in love with the personality, not the beauty nor the gender. a friend and i find out, that in this country where i live (that happens to be called mexico) there are several factors in a certain type of 'race' or 'group of people' that are common. let's generalize. you're part of us if you are three or more of these: a) you love radiohead b) you're bisexual c) you love art/music/literature d) you love to write *short* stories e) you laugh at the world trade center incidence (no offense for the americans) f) you cannot choose between studying art or mathemathics i'll try to rewrite it later. *anyone applies?* 020311 ... Becky why would you laugh at the world trade center incident. 020512 ... silentbob because it didn't happen to them. he meant no offense to us, but if you were someone else and weren't bombarded by media coverage and you lived in a country that views the US as somewhat stuck on itself and thinks very highly of itself and then just blatently got our asses kicked despite all our vanity, but didn't have to go through all the news that we went through, and you just heard of it secondhand, you probably wouldn't be overly sensitive about it either. of course i could be wrong. maybe freakish isn't even from a different country, and maybe you would feel bad and not laugh because maybe thats just who you are. and thats ok. but you cant expect everyone to feel the same way a lot of other people do. no offense to you. maybe thats just the kind of person freakish is, the kind that laughs when people die. i'm not taking sides at all, well, since it isn't even really an argument. and it shouldnt be. im just pretty much thinking to myself. 020512 ... misstree makes a lot of sense, silentbob. i had a twinge of laughter for those same reasons, but between the deaths of the firefighters and the orwellian firing up of the war machine, it just gives me a slimy chill now. and, on the subject of bisexuality, living colour once did a song called "everybody loves you when you're bi", and woody allen said it doubled your chances of getting a date on a saturday night. not exactly true. from a female perspective, boys look at it as "ooh, i wanna watch," or "cool, a three-way," straight girls either think it's a little weird and a little uncomfortable *or* want you as their first (i refuse to be someone's experimental plaything anymore--i've slept with more straight women than my boyfriend), and people who are more heavily homosexual see you as either a trendy poser or indecisive. and hell, sometimes i wonder if i'm just fooling myself and i really lean more one way or the other. 020512 ... stork daddy i'm pansexual...that means i like bread right? right? 020512 ... kerry hahahaha 020512 ... unhinged many people keep telling me that i'm a lesbian. that i should just give up the pretense of being bisexual. and most of the time it just pisses me off especially when the approach is "oh come on nicole. you are so gay. you just need to admit it." i know i have been in love with men. i know i have been in love with women. i look at her and i look at him and the same feeling takes over. i want to shelter their broken eyes. its hard enough for me to have to deal with the fact that i feel the same way about him and her without you telling me what i am. i think i know what i am. you can think what you want about me but don't tell me anything about how i am. 020512 ... reitoei more like youre lusting for the devil..pan- the pagan satyr with the pipes? remember? 020512 ... freakizh go, bobby. sorry if i injured anyone along my humor road. 020512 ... phi/ pan is the devil??? HOLY SHIT! 020512 ... "Ancient Pagan" Pan is not the devil and has nothing to do with devil. Christian misinformation and propoganda falsely and baselessly associated Pan with the devil during their bloody and totalitarian invasion of Ancient Roman political power. Whoever considers Pan anything like the devil in content of character and beingness is utterly mistaken. The devil image was modelled on Pan as a tool for falsifying non-Abrahamic beliefs with misinformation. Also (and I'm not claiming that anyone at blather has done this) don't victimize "lesbians" "bisexuals" and even "heterosexuals" with labelisms. Beauty and love are everywhere and it is natural, normal, clean and blessed for so-called "heterosexuals" to have so-called "homosexual" urgings. This is merely sensuality and love at work! People have falsified sexuality by equating it with a lifestyle (thus, via our creationary power, and society's limitations it has become--with some--a "lifestyle"). THESE SO-CALLED "NON-HETEROSEXUALS" ARE NORMAL PEOPLE: DON'T VICTIMIZE THEM WITH STEREOTYPICAL LABELISMS!!! We are all human and must not dehumanize one another! Well, let me end this with blessings to all at Blather & Beyond! God(s) be with you! Pax Dei Tecum! 020513 ... stork daddy oh yeah i get it now...like if we break down the latin of the word panorama it means to be rammed by pan right? 020513 ... Arwyn lol yes stork daddy, that's exactly what it means. 020528 ... old satyr yeah, kiddies...speaking of which who's up for a little pan-o-rama 020528 ... Freak I just want a nice girl to keep me company. Just a phase?!.......maybe...I guess we'll just have to wait and see. 031020 ... unhinged when he couldn't get me off i was a lesbian but after we had sex for two and a half hours all of a sudden i was bisexual.... yeah, right. fuck_off 031021 ... endless desire his mom found out. she walked in on him while he was kissing some boy. and then she kicked him out of the house. the police took him back and said that he had to stay there until he found somewhere else to go. but now poor sean just cries all day because he doesn't have a lot of hope. he might get sent away to military school or something. i don't think he'd do well in military school. he always told me his mom was homophobic. . .that'd he tell her when he graduated and was ready to move out. . .that she would disown him. . .i just never believed him. and now i just don't understand the pain he's in. 031021 ... Death of a Rose hell, if you know it deep down, be what you want. if you can find love with both sexes.....lucky bipedal homo erectus 031021 ... breygris AND PROUD!! well, not really.^ i dont really care. but it does make the locker room a lot of fun. ;D 031027 ... oldephebe in 9th grade there was this guy who was so flagrantly effeminate that he got razzed by girls and guys alike..and the teachers never really intervened..i felt really uncomfortable when he would wind up trying to convince me of his hetero-sexuality..personally i didn't really care..but it just felt odd that he had this need to try and convince me he was straight as i was not one of the many kids who mercilessly teased him..being active in the church as a youth i ran into a lot of so called "straight" guys who were just effeminate because they were "holy" these genderless eunuchs or really spiritual types..or so that's what some females liked to whisper in my ear..i gotta say i was pretty disturbed by the flagrant homo-sexuals who went around calling everyone in the choir "miss thing" and "she" wether they were male or not..they were talented but really..um there should be some kind of decorum..and then again i'd get the occasional accompianist who would earnestly assert that they were "straight" and they wished everyone would just stop making their sexuality the subject of debate and derision..and again i felt squemish discussing it..so i just kind of said non-specific things like.."um yeah" ..and "wow".."that's a shame"..and "then what did you say?"..personally i guess a person's sexual preference is thier business..but ah you don't need to flaunt it or throw it in peoples face..and ah yeah you keep it to yourself or don't try and force your preference or other people..being a musician and a singer and having this overtly emotional penchant for drama..or whatever..i've dealt with it people trying to figure out if i was bi or straight and just mildly effeminate or just really ..genderless artistic type..not often but it's come up in Jr. high, not really highschool..but in college and several dalliances i've had with bi-sexual and lesbian women..they'd say..'wow i didn't think you were into women..i thought you were a little gay when i first met you"..so weirdness prevails..i'm straight by the way..it used to really irk me especially when more than a few bi-sexual/or lipstick lesbians would arch their eye brow lasciviously once they figured out i was into them..and then i'd get this confession.."um i'm not normally into guys but there's something really</