shagging_tally bethany 18 this is for a english bird named frieda who is proud of her 50+ but she's not too sure shagging tally. 020214 ... another day another name Not as many as he thinks, but I doubt I'll ever convince him of that. 020215 ... unhinged three and as jon was quick to point out, that's more than the number of guys i've dated...but i guess the first one doesn't count to most people 020215 ... pralines&cream 0 (by "shagging" i assume you mean sexual intercourse) 020217 ... ol dirty birdmad too many for me to comfortably admit (something i never imagined i would say when i was younger) 020217 ... the Queen of Hearts Its so sad that you feel the need to proclaim to the entire world who many people you've opened your flabby, scabby thighs for. (Hey people, dive right in! Really, theres room enough for all!) Does it make you feel good? Feel proud? Feel all kewliez and grown up cos you have managed to convince this many people into fucking you? It's ok, tears and begging are indeed useful stratigies to get your tally up, and let's face it, you're gunna need it to catch the funky girl you mentioned with 50. no, correction, 50 PLUS. wow... I bet she worked real hard at that. Bet her mommy is SO PROUD of her. Hey, I have an idea, I'll let you add 10 people to your tally if you catch the most bubonic STD thats going around your high school by the end of the month. Deal? 020218 ... my NAME is pralines&cream wow, "queen of hearts". You're really a bitch (or, at least you really act like one when you're using that name). If people enjoy having sex with 50 plus people and consider it an accomplishment, good for them and their fabulous libidos. If people enjoy having sex with zero or few people, and consider themselves less whorish than others because of it, then more power to them. If people do what they want, then that's what matters, not someone's bitter lectures about flabby thighs and STDs. 020218 ... misstree learned to think for herself a long time i've surpassed 50 in my time, even if you only look at males. i have no regrets, no shame, and no STDs or children. i have enjoyed it immensely, one night flings and drawn out relationships alike. i have never intentionally harmed anyone with my activities. anyone who's going to judge me or berate me because i live the life of a hedonist can go nail themselves to a cross for someone who gives a shit. 020219 ... bethany amen 020222 ... blown cherry I found out that he mislead me about his. Not lied exactly, but just kinda let me think it was the same, or roughly the same as mine. Now I discover that its less then half mine. Not that I really give a shit about the numbers, it's just that I don't like that he felt uncomfortable about telling me that. And now he feels intimidated by the fact that I've had more. Damn. It's not supposed to be like that. 020317 ... minnesota_chris :) "I really wish you had slept with more people!" 020317 ... little wonder i sometimes think about how many he's up to. maybe someday i'll ask him 020318 ... continuous ache 14. and i just have to say that misstree rocks! sex is not a dirty little secret. there's not one person on my list that i'll forget or regret. 020320 ... yummyC "five" "thats not much!" "um...Since last november, when i lost my virginity." "oh....." "yea I'm a whore, huh?" "don't call yourself that!! I hate when you do that to yourself!" "dude, i'm not being mean, I just know the truth. *giggle* you are a funny one..." heh. yeah, five guys. :( 020320 ... yummyC um i mean the year before last. not THIS past november. *sigh* 020320 ... Photofused Is it bad if I'm not sure if I've slept with certain people? Eg. I remeber all the important ones.. but the drunkn nights where you wake up nextt o someone and you know you kissed at some stage early on, and neither of you is sure. You'd think you'd be able to tell from mess etc... but still. I don't know how many 10-15 I guess. Oh, but by American pie standards I'm supposed to multiply that by 3 and say that. so 30-45. eeww. 020321 ... daxle I was thinking about this last night so far, seven I wonder how it happened to me it only feels like two 020321 ... hey now! am i the only one who doesnt think of sex when i see the word "shagging"? i think of the dance, y'know, you shag to beach music? or maybe thats a north carolina thing.... *shrugs* 020321 ... blown cherry :) Damned that post coital grin, I can never get rid of it, it's always so damned obvious the next day when I show up at work. American Pie rating of 3 & 2/3 (last 1/3 added as of 4 hours ago ;) 020328 ... bethany like the movie "shag" they were southern girls weren't they? anyway i thought it was gonna be about sex but it was baout dancing...i'm pure new england irish though...cheers 020328 ... silentbob zero 020414 ... kill rhythm none 020414 ... sweetheart of the song tra bong zero But I thought of the beach dancing first, too. Right on North Carolina. If this were about dancing I couldn't even tell you how many people I've shagged with. 020414 ... sweetheart of the song tra bong zero But I thought of the beach dancing first, too. Right on North Carolina. If this were about dancing I couldn't even tell you how many people I've shagged with. 020414 ... Rhin 6 :( 021124 ... IKC 56-80 2, innocent fooling around turned into a couple of short flings. nobody got hurt, but now i wonder if she doesn't hold these against me since she knew all about it from them. i'd ask her, but she isn't talking to me it would be nice to shake away the doubt 021125 ... no reason i wonder if tally is offended. 021125 ... minnesota_chris rhin, is 6 too many or not enough?!? oh, fair disclosure, 4. 021203 ... Aimee 3 willing 1 unwilling 021203 ... Rhin 6 is WAY TOO MANY!!! i'm ashamed of all of them, except for 2. ...and the sad part is that i can't take the other 4 back. however, the only thing that prevents me from deeming myself unworthy, is the fact that at the time, i thought i loved them. i was sure of it. the truth is, i'm having serious doubts about whether or not i am even capable of recognizing love. it seems to me that each time, i have seriously mis-judged, and with each one, i thought that nothing was even comparable to it. i know that by my definition of love, that i did love them, because i never have sex, just to have sex. love makes sex...explosive, and if you know me then you know that i do not settle for anything. i don't know why i'm telling you all of this. it's my shame talking...and i'm defending my honor for myself, and to everyone. i don't feel any better though. i could lie to everyone, regarding my number, but then that would make me a liar as well. i would rather be stoned. 021204 ... minnesota_chris You're more virtuous than me, even though your tally is more than mine, and your age is less. I think I have a biologic need to make out. Many behavioral scientists would argue with me. But I would give up a lot of things to kiss someone I care for. 021204 ... Norm Alot... more than James Bond. 030219 ... lost well to be truthfull im not sure. i dont consider it an accomplishment or anything. i just like sex a lot. and one reason im not sure is because sometimes i was soooo drunk that i dont remember but woke up in the bed with someone. now though, i realize that sex is something that should only be performed when caring feeling are shared between the two or however many people. having said that do realize that that doesnt mean i wont have sex with someone without having feelings for them. i still sometimes just want to have sex, but if i want a relationship i wont have sex unless i care for the person. 030219 ... night let's see, about nine... i agree that one should not be proud of how many people they have skrewed, but it is one's own choice. i personally am pretty young to have had sex with nine people, however, it is my own choice and i have never regreted it. i don't even regret my one-night-stands where i was too drunk to even see what they guy next to me looked like. you see, sex feels good, and i use protection, and i'm old enough to weigh the consequences and decide for myself. so is everyone else here. i have many friends that are virgins and that is great for them, it's everyone's own choice. 030220 ... niska is this a tally of people? or times? If you've only had sex three or four times, it's not worth counting - especially if it was with the same person - it counts as one in that case, sorry. when a man asks me this, i have to think about it. this could be good - at least i don't keep a list. or bad - he may think i've slept with so many peole i can't keep track. but why do I ask THEM? it's only conversation, or to get an indication of whether or not i'll have to do most of the work. I know the range i'm in, but i don't have instant recall of those people who didn't blow my mind... the only record i have is the virgins: 4. how can anyone forget being told they were someone's first? awww... 030306 ... niska i don't mean record as in 'that's a record', i mean that i keep record of... 030306 ... E 3½ 030307 ... ahem 3andahalf 030307 ... niska half? what does half sex feel like? I'm dying to know. 030308 ... E it feels like five minutes i don't recommend it 030308 ... cube Half sex is when only one orgasms. Always strive for 1/1... ³ 030308 ... Casey With other people=0 With my hand= um, I can't count that high. 030308 ... niska HAHA yeah five minutes isn't worth much, but there have been times it's been less... can you believe it? there's a word for it - plain ol' FUCKING. 030309 ... megan zero :o) you will be so lucky oh my man. 030309 ... night now it's up to about 15. i still don't regret any of them. i recently ended a long-term relationship and now am really looking for a guy to just have sex with. sex isn't dirty, it is part of life. i still think i started having sex to young (i was 12), but i don't regret it now that i am old enough to make my own decisions about it. being a virgin is cool though, very hard i'd guess. 030511 ... . . 031204 ... Little Lost Riding Hood To be honest I dont know exactly. I hazaed a guess at around 46/47... I dont remember all of their names let alone their faces. No doubt you will think me a promiscuous little heathen and ya know what? I hope y'all do. I love sex and had a damn good time getting to that number - I never caught anything except a good time. I have never told ANYONE except my best mate how many I have slept with until now. God Bless Blather!! BTW - When a guy asks you 'How many people have you slept with?' He really means : 'It must be less than me, even if you have to lie'..... 031204 ... Ginger Ahem...I think I may have you all pipped here. 031204 ... time_warp what is pipped? is a little slow. 031204 ... girl_jane Reading some of these makes me feel much less guilty... 040221 ... stork daddy who does this kind of thing? 040221 ... Silentlybroken Regrettably one, I believed she was the one I would marry, I only ever wanted to have one sexual partner and now I find the prospect of another extremely upsetting. I will no longer have the opportunity to give myself to her alone, as part of me will remain with the first. 040221 ... white_wave shagging can't help but make me think about "Austin Powers". If it were in his day, before AIDS existed I would say hundreds. For being an old gal, i'm ashamed to say two. But they were two worth waiting for. 040221 ... Syrope i dont really know. i'm not quite to 50 yet. people. times...haha that's funny. i feel bad, cause the guy that came over last night, i was trying to remember and i can't seem to recall if we had sex last time i saw him or not. then i got to looking at my list of guys i keep in my sexy_journal, and i don't know 2 of their last names...but i talked to one this morning so now i know :) the other, i dont really plan on talking to him again, so *shrug* i'm not proud but i'm not ashamed. i'll tell if you ask. it bothered me that the last guy i tried to get serious with obviously kept hinting around trying to get me to bring up the subject, but he never really did ask. so i don't know what he assumed. oh well :) 040222 ... ambermoon i lost track 040222 ... birdmad From 11/88 to 8/97: too many to keep track of (more than 70, maybe a little less than 90 ... which never ceases to amaze the crap out of me considering that it has been a long time since i ever considered myself attractive at all)... and with a few exceptions - which i can count on the fingers of one hand, i didn't feel any real attachment to any of them, and that was fine because only three that i know of felt any sort of attachment to me. From 8/97 to present: none. I had this bright idea that i was done with doing the whole one_night_stand routine and that i didn't want anyone i didn't really care about or anyone i wasn't genuinely in love with, ignoring the fact that all of my debauched adventures were how i tried to assuage the rampant self-doubt and self-loathing that took over after the first few emotional crash_and_burn sessions i experienced when i mistakenly thought that allowing myself to fall for, or adfmit that i had fallen for anybody i felt really close to was a good idea "but i was young and foolish then i feel old and foolish now" (TMBG) 040427 ... pheather my tally, i'd rather not tell. but Bird, you are so modest. I mean with that tally, how could you not be attractive? and seven years of nothing means you've got serious self-control, and highly developed hand skills. 040427 ... bird trust me, the numbers i managed were based more on any number of other factors than on my looks (read some of my "blurring_the_edges" chapters to see what i mean) 040428 ... Wondering Does it count as sex if you do it for awhile but neither of you finish? And then you have to stop for some reason 040428 ... pheather Yeah, Bird, good writing is awfully sexy. What's on the inside counts most, but I'm sure you're no ugly duckling. 040428 ... ODB i am grateful for the combination of cute, horny and indiscriminate (+2) 050322 ... Zoe i don't really know my tally... more than the 12 i told him it was. it wasn't that i meant to lie to him, but he wanted an answer and he wanted it quick, i just don't keep track. so i made a number up... it's around 14 i think though. he's been with 6 girls (including me), i think he feels bad about that. i hate that he always thinks i'm going to cheat on him just cause we don't get to see each other very much. i'm not a whore! 050322 ... grendel is a satyr from Nov 1988 to August 1997: at least 80 from September 1997 to late 2004: None (and how stupid was i?... lemme tell ya...like i had any business trying to be any kind of a romantic) late 2004 to present: 12 and counting not bad for a big, weird looking goofball, if i do say so 060703 ... B~R 2 first was a long time bf that got me preganant and broke my heart on the same day. second was my best mates bf that she'd broken up with but is now back with. i wonder if he misses the very late get togethers we had. i shouldnt have. 070613 what's it to you? who go blather from