experienced Juve experience to have done; performed in part of; to have been through of one particular thing. i.e. I have experienced a 69 sex position with ma girlfriend. 011007 ... Death of a Rose And what was your experience example. Just a quick question, if you don't mind. I'm seeing alot of sexually related topics/postings here. Is this a so all consuming hormone raging thing to be obsessed about? Or are we talking about certain demographics here? Experienced means seasoned, well done, been there done that (Oh my, I haven't done that yet but it looks squishy). 031009 ... misstree "are you experienced? have you ever been experienced?" i think the sex obsession hereabouts is influenced by the demographic, but also influenced by anonymity, and personally i see a lot more love obsession hereabouts, so they're prolly linked... both grab us by some form of gonads and whip us around and make us gagastupid for a time, and writing seems a good way to deal with that overwhelming unreason. if you're asking why sex makes people obsessive in general, well, i'll leave that alone, because i like my job, and i need to at least pretend to do it once in a while. 031009 ... Death of a Rose Good answer, although I would have liked to see your thesis study on this question, although I understand and can empathize (sp?) with the doing the job appearance thing. Okay, here goes. Yes I am Male, here I roar and whimper (damned thorns). Yes I want sex in most of it's tasty forms. But and you will not believe me when I tell you, love comes before sex, and sex can only be consumated in its wild forms with that woman who enflames the delicious wickedness in me. Sex is good, Sex is great, just don't throw it around and around while singing your satans summoning spell. Oh my Jesus, I'm blathering again. Got to stop doing that. But I keep coming back. Must be that instant obsession/ fulfill your complusion disorder. 031009 ... misstree actually, i find nothing at all shocking about a male who prefers sex with love as opposed to without. in fact, i'd bet that most people prefer such. and it's still not shocking to me that you insist on the two being deeply intertwined. no sarcasm here for once, but good for you. personally, i rather enjoy sex in all its forms, be it with beloved or stranger, and honestly there are times that i prefer strangers; i'm not so fond of visiting the brutality on people that i care about, but with a stranger i can be a selfish as i wish, as free as i wish, and not worry about what that's going to mean in the future. and, man, i've got so many theseseses to write that my head is spinning. there's enough sex hereabouts; suffice to say that it's one of the most primal motivations that any animal has, and it's been twisted and repressed by shifting cultures (there are reasons behind it, fact, not value judgement just yet) and so our brains twirl around it even more. i'm guilty of it too, and i've got a lot of respect for the people who choose chastity, 'cause there's a lot of good reasons to, but i know that there's no way in hell i could willingly go chaste for long. hell, just a little while of unwilling chastity just about kills me. i don't even know what i'm talking about any more. i need to go home and refuel my coffee cells. 031009 ... Death of a Rose Brutal honesty, picture perfect. Keep on writing those volumes. And at least I will read them. I started out with nothing and still have most of it left. 031010 ... Lemon_Soda The only true definer of both age and youth. As for the sex obsession thing, I figure its along the same lines as Eating, Sleeping, or Dreaming, other things we tend to blathe alot about. We've got them all in common so their the easiest things to really get deep about because people are more than likely than not going to a) care and b) have some semblance of knowing what your talking about. I love these topics. Especially when their mixed. Hallucinating spaghetti roll between the sheets....mmmmmmmmmmm..... 031010 ... Syrope "personally, i rather enjoy sex in all its forms, be it with beloved or stranger, and honestly there are times that i prefer strangers; i'm not so fond of visiting the brutality on people that i care about, but with a stranger i can be a selfish as i wish, as free as i wish, and not worry about what that's going to mean in the future." ~misstree i've been looking for these words as for experienced...other people see me as experienced, but there are still things i want to try, things i'm not sure of myself about. the only difference is that i'm not going to let the insecurity stop me from trying these things. i'll let you know when i consider myself experienced 040306 ... scary carrie im experienced not necessarily stoned but beautiful (in an ugly sort of way) 040306 ... misstree done so much more than so very many, but so very little next to what i have left to do. i drink deep of traveler's tales because i may never taste their places myself. i listen rapt to any perspective untingled. i pause and then leap into anything new that is shown to me. if it is possible to be too experienced, i will know when i get there, but i have my doubts it can be done. 040322 ... Syrope update: i'm still not experienced 040323 ... Quaterz You begin to question your love for him, your need for him. What are you supposed to do when you fight? What are you supposed to say? Are you supposed to stand up for your rights as an equal, a woman? Or are you supposed to sit back and take the criticism, the shit you receive from him. what do you think? 050825 what's it to you? who go blather from