niska Innocent Bystander Please leave us alone You're worse than Chrity Do you even know who that is? Oh right You wouldn't Because you don't Care to Read Previous Blathers 030309 ... niska oh lord. a poem? for me? you shouldn't have! i wasn't concerned with reading a page full of other people's thoughts because they belong to other people. i'm just not that nosy. but, i guess we're SUPPOSED to read each other's blathes and pick them apart, so... you're so offended that it wasn't my business to read your blathes before? awww... well i read it now. you poem sucks. better? 030310 ... Innocent Bystander My Humble Thanks You let me Know How Close-Minded One can Be You like to Start Shit Don't you? 030311 ... Guilty Passer-by wow, now that's what i call irony 030311 ... Innocent Bystander I don't Enjoy This 030311 ... niska i dind't start this... 030311 ... niska why are you doing something you don't enjoy then? don't blame me for your choices. 030311 ... stork daddy just remember niska...you are beautiful no matter what they say, words can't bring you down. 030311 ... MDogMA but Troglodytes can 030311 ... stork daddy oh yeah no arguing with that. trogodlytes totally could. but aren't dinosaurs extinct? 030311 ... cube I think that the recent criticism that Niska is receiving both unfair and unnecessary - but not unexpected. It seems that young blatherettes occasionally take a bit of heat whenever they first start contributing. I did the same to ClairE once but, look now at how she's grown over time. If you take the time to read Niska's previous postings, you'll find a distict personality emerging - equal parts romantic, sex kitten, and social activist. And there's nothing wrong with social activism now, is there? ;-) ³ 030311 ... Lilac I wouldn't go as far as to say worse than Chrity. Getting there though. Definitely has potential 030311 ... :-* whenever I see this name I think of the old guy who liked to torture people on that show Firefly. he believed in the works of Suyn Yu. Suyn Yu said live with a man for forty years and then hold him over the volcano's edge. On that day, you will meet the man. In short, torture brings about honesty. Is that what you're trying to do, niska? 030311 ... no offense Go away, we don't like you 030311 ... minnesota_chris she's got a big mean streak 030311 ... Innocent Bystander I am not Blaming you For Anything I am just Asking you To Take Responsibility For making other Blatherers Suffer 030311 ... Innocent Bystander Cube, I don't Think we should Have to Wait for Niska to Grow up 030311 ... methinx Innocent Bystander, try standing by and seeming innocent. If you don't want to wait for niska to "grow up" there is absolutly no reason you have too. If you can't stand 'em, leave 'em alone. Nobody is making pay any attention to niska other than yourself. 030311 ... Innocent Bystander You make a Good Point I actually Agree And i will Stop See That's all it Took 030311 ... x she's bitchier than me 030311 ... farky chase webb the third "don't sell yourself short, judge, you're a tremendous slouch." 030311 ... fark the harold anger ahem, mr.flakulater! 030311 ... farky the third *smooch* if the bitch fits, wear her. 030311 ... silentbob Niska, don't leave it seems this person is getting more criticism than she is giving 030312 ... Lilac Not to be adding to the critism but I think that if you go back and read the things she has written you MIGHT disagree. 030312 ... minnesota_chris If we gather here and say nasty things to niska... aren't we acting just as badly? 030312 ... stork daddy i like niska 030312 ... niska my favorite part was that someone took the time to read all my blathes and called them "ubiquitous". i didn't know my blathes were supposed to support a fixed theme... thanks for clearing that up though, whoever you are. i might even read all of yours too, to see how static your blathes are in comparison to mine, but you are anonymous - perhaps so i can't... I'm not on here to develop a persona of any kind. i'm also not here to "belong" - i have enough obligatory relationships in REALITY, why would i cause myself more on the internet? i'm not here to please people and make friends. sorry. i come here to be alone with my thoughts. sometimes i'm not, but most times i am - that's the appeal of this site. innocent (or instigating?) bystander, i'm not going anywhere, so deal. this page you created speaks volumes about the kind of person you are. you can certainly keep it up for my entertainment if you like, though. i'm not really offended by it at all. it's interesting that someone whose name indicates a lack of involvement would find spreading hate such a noble cause. it's pointless to go back and forth more than i already have. if any of you took the time to really read what i wrote, you'd see how we're all actually trying to prove the same point. we all feel violated. i said what i had to say there, and there's no need to reiterate. for those of you who DO see BOTH sides to this argument - thank you for being so reasonable. as for responsibility for my actions: i'm totally responsible for my own actions - no one else is. when did i claim my actions were those of someone else? i don't deny my involvement at all. but i can't control any of yours, so perhaps you mean i should accept the consequences of my actions? yes i do, and it's fine by me. this is in motion now - can't change it, and i don't think i'd want to. 030312 ... niska and Lilac, i would hope people read my posts and the posts of others before coming to their conclusions. i'm curious how you're keeping score. after tallying blows, i don't see how you could possibly think i'm winning, but yes, most people do only see what they choose to... 030312 ... silentbob well just don't leave over stupid blather arguments blather arguments are stupid. i try to ignore them unless i feel like i have something to say in the case of say_anything someone was kind of mean to you and you just WENT OFF on them as if they had fucked your mother or something else i'm sure i've been guilty over this too, but for the most part i just try to ignore peoples stupid bullshit. whatever 030312 ... cube Ha! The woman packs a mean right hook, eh guys? I think we can safely add "good sparring partner" to her list of qualifications :-) ³ 030313 ... s.a. i called it ubiquitous because it had seemed to me that most of your posts were asinine and everywhere 030314 ... Lilac I wasn't trying ot attack you or add to anything. Thats why I said he might disagree not that he would or even that I did. 030314 ... niska HAHA! silen bob. 'fucked my mother' yeah i did go off. but how would anyone know i'd react that way? i don't know how any of you are going to react to anything either. it's a gamble... also, i'm not going anywhere. what for? the novelty of this site hasn't worn off yet... lilac, please don't feel you have to prove your intent to me. you can intend whatever you like, at this point. s.a. thanks for the honest feedback. although, if i left an trail for people to follow, i wouldn't really be anonymous here, would i? maybe some of the things i write are about certain people you don't know, and things you aren't involved in, so i don't think any less of you for not understanding what i choose to blathe about. of course they make no sense to you. they aren't supposed to. i have a friend that swears he can hear me rolling my eyes over the phone. he always calls me on it, and he's right every time. he's pretty intuitive though... are you getting that feeling right now? just curious... if so, at least you're intuitive. that's a compliment. 030314 ... no reason where exactly in canada are you from? 030416 ... minnesota_chris :) the part near San Diego 030416 ... no reason hehe..oops. 030416 ... niska minnesota_chris, i like your wit, but as usual, it's a little (oops, again!) hasty - you asked me where i am FROM, not where i RESIDE. i moved to Canada about 2 years ago, and it's most-likely not permanent. where i live right now is really not any of your business. i think once i mentioned i follow Eastern Standard Time, so why don't you super-sleuths comb through the rest of my blathes for clues, hit google for a while and then get back to me with your findings... 030416 ... niska at least i HOPE you know that San Diego isn't in Canada, Chris. i'll give you the benefit of that doubt... 030416 ... minnesota_chris it was a person named 'no reason' who asked you where you were from. I remembered the bit about San Diego, and you have blathed about Ottawa and Quebec as if you had visited but didn't live there. That's all I know about you, though I am curious. I also had the feeling you wouldn't say where you're living. 030416 ... cube Eastern Standard Time covers alot of territory - from New Brunswick in the east to the Manitoba border in the west. This accounts for a good 75% of the Canadian population. The good news is the recent advent of indoor_plumbing in our igloos :-) ³ 030416 ... no reason yeah, eastern standard time does cover most. and i wasn't asking to find out your exact _address_ or anything. i was just curious cuz i'm canadian. 030416 ... niska no reason: i was talking to minnesota because he asked me 'where you from?' on another word. I live in Southern Ontario now. 030416 ... niska minnesota: i've been to Ottawa several times growing up. i have relatives there. i've been to Hull in Quebec - to get drunk. 030416 ... User24 I like niska. 030417 ... god do you like to shop? 030417 ... niska are you asking me god? not really... but if there's something i'm intent on buying, i guess i'll have to look around until i find it. i WILL spend hours looking for shoes. i don't have to have a lot of them, but i have to be really happy with them... 030417 ... niska i like you too, user24. 030417 ... User24 yay! 030420 ... x little angry chick(15) 030421 ... silentbob Flowers from the safeway: "What was the most disgusting thing youve ever eaten" Niska: "Parker Posey" I laughed out loud 030609 ... ;) On 03/06/01 Flowers from safeway wrote: New day, new topic. If your life were a popular movie, who would play you? (besides you) god wrote: burgess meredith, or adolph menjou niska wrote: parker posey see: ztupid_question. Or silentbobisanass neither makes a difference 030609 ... endless desire this was actually a very entertaining page. i like niska. however, i have only been blathing since the beginning of may. . .and maybe she has ripened since then (?) i do wonder if all blatherers seem to get in the way when they first begin. or is it only when they begin to speak out? and this leads me the inevitable question, do i get in the way? do i even speak out at all? hmm time to think. ((i feel young today and it is frustrating)) 030609 ... Soup for the Poor It seems there are ways to be a "good" blather when you are just a youngin'. Would anyone care to explain those for Endless and I?--If there are even such ways. And when I say ways, I do not mean ways that would hinder new blatherers from expressing themselves, but rather, keep them out of trouble in the blatherer world. Or not even that. I am not sure exactly what I mean, because I do not want to come across as a "pleaser" who is only here to do or say what others ask, nor do I want to come across as someone who's not confident in their own ability to blathe. I am merely asking for, hmm, "pointers" for new blatherers, so they won't but heads with others. . .if you catch my drift? 030610 ... Innocent Bystander Don't be like Niska 030610 ... endless desire yeah. . .thanks poor soup for speaking for me. haha, but your question was good, and i am, too, am curious. i wouldn't so much mind being like niska though. but i did read her say_anything. . .she kind of flipped out there. whoo. so i guess you are saying not to do that. don't worry, i mean, i only flip out when someone touches my buttons. (winks for fun) 030610 ... x i didn't impart the last comment, btw, under my name. i don't even understand what it's trying to say. 030610 ... niska who cares? the whole point of blather is it's a free platform. why don't you try being yourself so YOU can be happy? what other peole think is irrelevant. especially when they critique your style, or personality, or blathing evolution thus far... they don't know who you are. i mean, who cares? this isn't high school. it's not some club. you don't have to 'belong', or impress the teenagers here. this was created for everyone who has internet access, to use as they see fit. example: innocent bystander hypocritically, despite the name, blathes shit about me wherever he/she can. i feel kind of sad for this person that wastes their time on grudges, but some people can't get over it, you know? especially something they started themselves... it's not all puppies and roses. it doesn't all have to be great and sunshine up the ass. i like that people here are honest. i get enough boot-licking all day for fuck sakes. no one is afraid here. and i don't have to pretend to be nice to anyone i don't want to here. that's totally refreshing. looking for friends on blather, and trying to find the right 'clique' here is ridiculous. if you're trying to get people to like you, just do what you like, and ignore what you don't. if you meet people you like here, great! but remember, as in real life - you don't like every person you meet, so why should every person like you? this place reminds me of Lord Of The Flies. a society comprised of children. there is no law, and if there was, no one would have the wisdom, the strength and the foresight to uphold it responsibly. so basically, go nuts. it's a riot! 030611 ... endless desire your insight is much appreciated niska. and you are too right, blather is here for us to be exactly who we are and i think that is exactly what i am on blather and that is why i am so attracted to it. 030611 ... niska me too, kiddo. i should be doing the dishes right now... but no - i'm on here. can't stop. i try, but i always come back. 030704 ... misstree may i tempt you into sending me an email at misstree@chaosmagic.com? exporting myself to canadia seems possible in the future, and i'd love to have a go at picking your brain. 031205 ... smurfus rex I like niska because she's like a wildcard 031205 ... niska hehe - 'canadia'. did you ever make it there, misstree? i've exported myself from, of late. but i miss it... ah, it's so clean there. 060126 ... niska holy hell and bloody ashes. i can't believe i haven't been here in 3 years. i guess that makes sense for me - preschool in the fall for the yougin. where does the time go? 060126 what's it to you? who go blather from