silentbob_is_a_boy silentbob though he sometimes feels like a girl 020502 ... blue star i like boys. they make me want to have sex. just thought I'd mention that. 020502 ... bethany ...who will someday climb a mountain where an ethereal yet ephemeral mist of manliness will hoist him to the shouting place and at that apex he will silently shout silentbob is a man 020502 ... silentbob these girls were saying they hated boys and loved men. i asked which am i. they said i had to figure out on my own. i asked what they qualified as men. they said someone who treats women how they want to be treated. someone who respects women. someone who understands women. someone who is not self centered. i said i am a man. they said and he has to have a job. i said i am a boy. 020502 ... bethany funny how they said you have to figure it out for yourself but then all the criteria was how you were treating women.......yeah, and a man definatly has a job or a really nice religious/monetary excuse 020503 ... girl_jane "And what color does SHE want?" "I want PINK!" 020504 ... Casey Well if he is a boy, that would make me a...oh...nevermind. 020505 ... poetic_onslaught silentbob, thats pathetic. how are you going to say that u sometimes feel like a girl? if your parents heard you say that they would be very disapointed. i would probably slap my boy if he ever said some stupid shit like that. unless he was gay. (hypothetically speaking, because i dont have any kids). u should be ashamed of yourself. if your gay then i appologize for my criticism. 020506 ... silentbob sometimes feel like a girl because i'm not an overly aggressive irrationally thinking animal whose only goal in life is to score chicks, get laid, get wasted and fucked up, like all the other boys i know. sometimes i feel overly sensitive and i don't find a lot of guys i relate to. however, i do find a lot of girls i relate to. you're so annoying. am i going to get yelled at for bitching now? 020506 ... i am jack sometimes it is the inflamed_sense_of_rejection born of oversensitivity that actually leads to the constant need to get fucked_up and wasted 020506 ... silentbob i do have a constant feeling of rejection and outcast, and most the time i feel it is imagined. but i don't resolve those feelings with getting wasted and fucked up can ya dig it? 020506 ... i am jack yeah, true. it doesn't always end up the same way for everyone everybody's got their own defense mechanisms 020506 ... oldskoolie you know your anima, silentbob. 020506 ... poetic_onslaught im not yelling at you man its just criticism with some aggresiveness. thats just how iam most of the time. anywayz as to being able to talk to girls easier than to guys is perfectly understandable. thats just nature. you cant talk to guys about the same stuff that you can with girls because most guys feel like its against their nature and are too insecure to be "soft". ive always found it easier to talk to girls also. guys that prefer to talk to guys and just avoid any emotional conversation are the jocks and people like that. so im pretty sure every guy here feels the same way you do. if we didnt feel the same way then we wouldnt be here. in others words your not the only one and just because your sensitive and can relate to girls easier only means that your more secure being a man. we dont have to prove it by only thinking about pussy all the time and shit like that. 020507 ... phil I present for you, the "groin kick" (circus music blairs on a cheap set of speakers) drum roll please... pow thank you, bows, thank you 020507 ... silentbob poetic_onslaught, how can you say that? don't you know your mother would be so offended to hear you talking like that? you should be ashamed of yourself. sorry, thats just how i am. 020507 ... no reason Don't ever feel bad about a good thing, silentbob. I know at least a few guys who are similar to what you describe, and they're great. 020507 ... Tiffa Silent Bob (and the rest of us for that matter) is a boy. And is a girl. In fact, omygods... he has the very same hormones that constitute either one!! Is he a hermaphridite?! No you baffoons, he is not. Neither are you (i would assume) or I. I really can't dig this whole sex seperation thing. What Bob says here is PERFECTLY understandable and often echoed. Poetic, I am sure that at some point in your life you or one of your friends said "God you're such a man" for spitting or doing something overtly masculine (stereotypically speaking). We all, as homo sapien sapiens, have dual and complementary sides to us. God forbid society (embodied by yourself, Poetic) allow us to feel this way. Androgenia - the downfall of male/female chauvanists. 020507 ... silentbob thank you tiffa would you join me for watching say_anything while pigging out on some ben and jerry ice cream? 020507 ... misstree Go tiffa! Gender is a myth, a maze superimposed onto our mental maps by socialization (read: training) to make everything easier to classify. Lift the veil, and know a truer version of the world. 020507 ... poetic_onslaught how is what tiffa said any different than what i said? its the same shit but with more words. i just added that most people dont embrace both their feminine and masculine sides. i mean really everything is either masculine or feminine. to say that gender is a myth is ludacris. everything is either male or female, and thats how everything balances out. tiffa, are you trying to insinuate that im a chauvinist? i thought i made it clear that any male on here obviously embraces both sides of their nature, otherwise we wouldnt be open enough to participate in these type of debates. why did you get mad silentbob? i agreed with what you said. apparently your too sensitive to even accept a bit of criticism. 020508 ... silentbob because it wasn't real criticism. it WAS sarcastic chauvinistic remarks, that weren't really funny. your two statements kind of contradicted one another. one was sarcastic, obviously. and i was just reacting because i was just getting back at you, Sarcastically, for what you said before. and now you're the one reacting. obviously you can't take much criticism either. or you don't realize the hypocracy. don't take any of this seriously because i don't. and yes i am sensitive. i attribute that to my feminine side. don't worry. you'd be better off ignoring people when they react to you. and i should learn to take my own advice. 020508 ... Your Friendly Neighborhood Logan Well Bobby...as the one of the people who knows you very well in real life, *I* understand and relate. Granted, I used to appear to have macho pissing contests all the time and gave the image of a Jughead (or a Stu for those Tao of Steve fans) when in all reality, that wasn't me at all. The repression of my feminine side MADE me aggressive, reactionary, and...well, the stereotypical male. It is only through embracing your femininity, and through womyn embracing their masculinity that gender walls become broken. And as an answer to everything, yes, it is possible to defy gender. Gender is what is impressed upon us and is nothing but a wall to separate the sexes. Their will always be a male and female SEX, but gendering is only assigning roles based on those sexes...and I find that to be one of the largest travesties of life that we as human beings has had to overcome. 020508 ... poetic_onslaught are we even talking about the same thing? you dont sound like if you even read what i wrote. better yet it sounds more like you read it and interpreted it like what you wanted it to mean. kind of like "selective reading" or something. none of the remarks i made were meant to be sarcastic or funny and they weren't chauvinistic from my point of view and also how did they contradict each other? i think all this started over a few mean words and if i wouldve known i was dealing with the brady bunch i would've been nicer. and somehow i find it hard to believe that your not taking this seriously. im sensing some real hostility coming from you. anywayz this subject got kind of old already so im just gonna leave it at that. 020509 ... FNP90 maybe I am thinking of an old mobster movie. A nice "hallway" bar room in a large city, real modern of the times. The crowd there is classy. Well some stranger wlks in, and get s a little out of line with one of the girls sitting at the bar, and upsets a few of the other customer, one of them a big guy, sloping forehead, greasy mug, trench coat, you knmow the type. Anyways he starts to get roudy and grabs the guy and asks hima couple of questions. The guy sitting at the bar feels a little confident and doesn't feel like talking, so he gets hurt, just a kiss on the cheek, but it drops him to the floor, everyone in the room notices. But the big guy at the bar doesn't stop, he starts waling on the guy while he's laying on the floor, his head against the foot rest ont he floor, but the room clears so as the gangster can clear his mind, and get out some rage. Left alone to face this monster the man lies helpless, blood floating up along the wall and flying everywhere. Eyes dialated, rolled up in his head, balls retracted, pissing himself, unconcious, torn face, broken ribs, broken cheek, broken hand, multiple fractures in the forehead, spine, broken teeth, dislocated shoulders arms, jaw. Broken nose, swelling organs, a truly twisted form. Heavy breathing, hat returned on head, spit, and a thoughtless, meaningless, pitiful betrayal or moral and reason...I wish thawt was you. 020510 ... Tiffa Poetic, In your first splurge of words you were indeed chauvanistic and quite rude. Naturally you would rile people up. In your second paragraph you did say the same thing I did, but... you have to consider the way you said it. Often times it's the wrapping that constitutes how well the gift is recieved. Try to become more eloquent and clear. My thery is that you read silent bob's remark on a day that found you caustic, for that I won't slam you anymore. I love B&J ice cream. From Russia With Buzz? 020510 ... silentbob i was thinking fudge brownie or maybe cherry garcia anyway, poetic_onslaught my first few entries were hostile, i'll give you that, but with my last few... lets just say i stopped caring long before you did. and i was going to leave it at that, until you made a reply. 020510 ... Tiffa Sounds like this subject has come to a close. *shrugs* Onto the temple of string! 020517 ... "Ancient Pagan" Masculine and Feminine are merely labels, merely another demonstration of humanity's urge to taxonimize & over-classify reality. Personally I believe gender to be a Paradox: it is both meaningful and meaningless. Gender is a game we play, but a Sacred game of Nature. Bodily matters and sexuality are the physical reflection of higher Spiritual truths and states. Matter is an emenation of Spirit, thus it is Holy. Gender is meant to be a fun expression of dynamic Spiritual play! Consequently our over-classification of "masculine" and "feminine" has oppressed rather than uplifted us. Our expressions must wind in infinite patterns without being limited by mere labels! In short, what we call "masculine" and what we call "feminine" is ultimately superficial: it is content of character (and outflow of Love) that really matter! Think of how intensely Society's labelisms can mould us! That is scary! 020517 ... Lotal mataus ingou Silent bobb is an ass hole. He is a pseudo intelecual stupoooooo. And I mean stupoooo. 020518 ... Arwyn Ancient Pagan.. you are merely echoing what one has already said before you. Bobby... You're one of my favourite boys on the earth. 020518 ... "Ancient_Pagan" Oh! I didn't catch that! (Didn't read the much earlier entries before mine!) Well, at least everyone knows two people agree. There are some who uphold Machismo like its a religion...some of those people might say I'm a sissy-wimp or something... 020519 ... silentbob silentbob is a stupid boy he has felt stupider and stupider lately 020519 ... silentbobfanclub thatisscary sb. i personally find your blather most endearing. 020520 ... phil dresses up like a rabbit, and hops around like a dumass 020520 ... Tiffa *points and laughs at Phil* MMMmmmm conejo frito? *chases the bunny* Come back cute hat!! 020523 ... whome This reminds me of that Dar Williams song, "When I Was a Boy." 031105 ... magicforest I love you. 031106 ... silentbob Me? Or "Whome" for referencing dar williams? 031107 ... Jack Licking Livers jesus, bob is a boy? i'm so not dissapointed now. 040102 ... jane is silentbob a man yet? 080330 ... unhinged what happened to our sad little straightedge anyways? did iowa eat him? 080331 ... jane i thought he moved to minnesota or something. 080331 what's it to you? who go blather from