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aware of contradictions made someone has been a rather bitchy blatherer lately.

tsk tsk tsk.

too much blather_chastising and not enough of those actual thoughts or interesting blathes she's capable of...

seems sort of hypocritical. 		020718
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in defense of the accused is you're so aware of the contradictions, then back off

blather_is_blather

i don't always like it but i've come to accept it. 		020718
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roar hiss (jeez...) yes but its just the way that you go ooout of your way to point out every tiny thing you find wrong in someone else, that seems so unnecessary.

doesn't it get exhausting being so pissy all the time?

I agree, blather_is_blather. 		020718
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rebuttal from the defense various other people have taken the liberty of being by turns, nasty, insulting, condescending and just outright pains in the ass.

why can't she? or is it that one must be "special" in some way or other to warrant that right? is there a registry one has to sign with or permit one must acquire to blathe in such a manner

i will not name names, but if you are who i think you are your argument holds about as much water as my pasta strainer

and in case you didn't notice, i am not she. 		020718
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daxle I'm guessing this is about me? If not it might as well be, because I've been pretty bitchy lately. I've been about it all ways. I've tried constructive criticism, I've tried overt ignoring, I've tried to be objective, but this is what it has come down to. I'm_off_my_prozac, can you tell? It was all about of a month ago when I last realized I was doing this and tried to stop, but last night when I discovered yet another new blatherer determined to say as much as possible as quickly as possible before reading much of blather and finding out what it was about, yes I was annoyed, and yes I'm quite easily annoyed these days. However, just like I can't stop them, you can't stop me, and you bitching about my bitching is hypocritical and futile to say the least. 020718
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daxle furthermore my guess is that daffy is the complainer and birdmad is my DA... am I right? do i get a prize? 020718
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unhinged mmm...i would say that the complainer isn't daf because he's never afraid to put his name with his opinions 020718
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god well, it's not any of me. 020719
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pre-law and forensics dropout bird guilty as charged 020719
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ever dumbening: metablathering what i couldn't figure out was why you continue to slam kx. we've all come to know and love your occasional, prozac-dearth-derived outbursts, because they're usually directed at the true clodhoppers of blather. but kx?

i_love_kx21 (and though my instincts tell me he's a he, i wish she was an attractive she that just so happened to live in the east bay, and, and, oh nevermind.) 		020719
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Teenage Jesus Yeah, I don't think it's daf; he'd definitely sign his name. I bet it was a chick.
[ducks thrown tomatoes and heads of lettuce.] 		020719
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daxle so basically what you just asked is: how can I be against kx when you love him? that's kind of silly.
my complaint against him is the same as it always has been- that he talks and talks and rarely listens. the closest thing is his "and I will tell you how wonder you are" bit. as far as I can tell, even then he doesn't listen much. 		020719
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Teenage Jesus KX does seem to have a unique power to have been able to turn vagueness into an art form...and we all know that not everybody digs the same "art." I used to like it, but my tastes have changed. And you're right, he/it/whatever does seem to willfully ignore responces/reactions. However, there's something that makes me "like" him or her anyway. Hard to explain... 020719
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ever dumbening no, i'm not suggesting that just because i like him/her that you should. the suggestion was more that his brand of drivel is far less annoying than many others. [i realize that that is still an opinion, but as paste!'s philosophy prof said, "i'll give you an 'f' if you say it's all relative." ie, on an absolute scale kx21's musings are better than many here that you _don't_ bash.]

i'm just wondering why you have a particular vendetta against kx21. you stated long ago (and on multiple occasions) your dislike. it seems very personal to you.

** would it make you happy if kx responded to your inquiries? **

anyone who's survived past the illusion of undergrad knows well that there are very few concrete answers out there. even as a student of the sciences, daxle, you should know that "answers" only generate more questions. and why does kx21 really need to listen? kx is just riffing, so to speak.

i see kx21 as merely trying to get us to think. if he stirs you to anger, maybe you should ask why.

if you're simply complaining for kicks, then, well, ignore everything i just said. 		020719
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daxle First, I just explained why I was complaining, so clearly it wasn't 'just for kicks'.
(oh and btw, I have my BS [bachelor of science] degree now... seems appropriate doesn't it?)
Obviously he doesn't ~need~ to listen, because he doesn't. However, I think that since he is inquiring he would probably benefit from listening to the thoughts of others. He wants us to listen to his thoughts- why shouldn't he listen to ours? It's like when you're working on a problem, and you can't find the solution... it just cycles around and around in your mind... until someone tells you something you didn't think of.
I really don't think it's very /mean/ of me to suggest this. 		020719
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god i want to pee in everyone's mouth. 020719
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7777777 That kx21 thing writes like an ESL robot. 020719
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Teenage Jesus Father! I'm SO embarrased! 020720
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god it seemed like the most inappropriate thing i could say 020720
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nocturnal HEY! I thought I held this title permanently. see what happens when I go away for so long? apparently I'm easily forgotten. 020721
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Teenage Jesus Not forgotten. You've just got some TOUGH competition. ; ) dax 020721
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Evil (and quite naked) parallel universe Bono Forget about, you? never.

~=~peels off leathers again and streaks wildly through the blather streets~=~ 		020721
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nocturnal thanks evil bono for that wonderful display. I still wonder who you really are, but I s'pose I'll never know.
and tj, you're damn right I'm not forgotten. after all the time and energy I've put into this blue vacuum, I should hope that today's blatherskites can still appreciate the one and only gold star award-winner. 		020724
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phil today 020729
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pralines I had a dream in which daxle was being framed for some crime - stealing cds and videos I think - by Minnie Mouse. 020729
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daxle no... cd's and videos have those annoying security tags and they'd catch you way before you ever got them off... 020903
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~gez~ did not catch me
not that i ever even considered stealing from anyone or anywhere, ever 		020903
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Dafremen Heheheh I just found this blather!

I laugh because it's really funny that those who have TRULY taken the time to find out about me, KNEW that I wouldn't hide behind a sobre nombre. Dax has this idea that I would persecute, berate or hold a grudge against her. It goes back to the mistaken impression she has formed of me and her insistence on clinging stubbornly to it in the face of facts and actions to the contrary. Rather than take in the entire picture, she casually discards those pieces that don't fit the image of psuedointellectual egocentric that she has built up in her mind about me. She STILL thinks this is about validation and attention for me. That I am an incorrigible whiner with a penchant for smacking the downtrodden whenever it suits me in order to garner a reaction. She thinks this is a sociopolitical game for me. She has, as I am wont to say, mistaken MY intentions for HER motives.

I suppose I could repeat this until I am blue in the face and she STILL wouldn't take my words at face value. Unfortunate, because this IS, I'm afraid, the truth about why I am here at blather:

I write. I react, but only as an excuse to write. I express because the day I stop working my brain is the day that it stops working for me. I let the words flow from my brain to my fingertips and what comes out, comes out. That is all. No hidden agendas, no gaping holes in my ego to be filled, no hidden feelings of inadequacy to be chased away by persecuting the weak or stroking the masses.

How we got off on this wrong foot is a mystery to me, (ok, so not really, but please, don't make me pull my artistic license out of my wallet, I'm on a roll here) but the whole misunderstanding has, I must admit, been the inspiration for more than a few writings. I have no ill feelings for you dax and I would be the LAST person to persecute you in the name of my own personal feelings about your bitchiness. I rather like you, truth be told. To me, you are a strong willed character in the blather_book who I have, with familiarity, grown fond of. Much like the characters in a book, YOUR feelings toward ME are inconsequential, for everything that blather means to me occurs in MY mind, not yours, much in the way that everything blather means to you occurs in your mind. Besides, what kind of weak-willed, paste-minded simpleton would I have to be to let YOUR feelings toward me have ANY influence over how I feel about you? I am perfectly capable of reaching my OWN conclusions as to how I feel about another person (as a person OR a character) without having to take into consideration their feelings about me. If someone dislikes me, that is THEIR decision, I am still capable of liking or disliking them as I see fit. Noone, and I repeat NOONE dictates my feelings or actions but ME. Good call T.J., unhinged do0d. I wouldn't write a critique in anonymity simply because if I DID write a critique, it would be in the name of writing, not in the name of critiquing and I sign EVERYTHING that I create in the name of writing. When I want to BUMP one of my blathers to the top of the list...THEN I use an alias. Just ask flippo. 		020927
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Dafremen P.S. I believe that Kx is perfectly capable of answering his questions WITHOUT the input of anyone else. The minute he starts to LISTEN to us, what happens to his wonderful absence of preconception? When we start polluting his thoughts with our own mundane musings, what of that pure unadulterated something that might have popped out the other side of his mind after "cycling around" a few thousand times? Perhaps, Kx is just using blather as a sounding board for his own thoughts much as I do sometimes. Perhaps to know his own mind he must read it here first. 020927
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daxle well this is all quite postposteverything, but I'll say that if the same thing happened right now, I wouldn't guess the anonymous person was you and I'm not sure why I did at the time. as much as I "don't know you" by this late hour I think I know enough to guess that much. anyway... your stuff's all been said before and i don't have much to say to it.
but as for the kx21 thing, It did respond to me once i started playing it's game, and even took a few suggestions for change. to imply that we should not conversate with It I think it denying the thing you tout so rampantly on blather. frankly though, i don't care what you think. so that's all about that. 		020927
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Dafremen Final note: I never said that I thought we shouldn't converse with Kx21, but rather that we shouldn't expect or require Kx21 to LISTEN to us as you suggested in your earlier blathe. Free_expression is of course as accomodating of the outspoken but ignored as it is of soft-spoken and heard. Believe me, I know wherefrom I speak. : ) 020927
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kx21 The Bitch in the House:-

Woman_nag or Man_talk? 		020928
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kx21 Who are the bitches in the blather Space?

PCA / M_answer- M_theory on Bitch... 		020928
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Dafremen Don't ever change dear Kx...seriously man...don't you change a damned thing.

Heheh woman_nag.. 		020928
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Xeneth Sparda

 		I'm gonna have to agree...Don't cange a thing Kx 040916
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daxle Why should I even have to compete for the crown? Its mine and everyone here knows it. 040916
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daxle you might be a bit more comfortable without that stick up your ass, imitator 040916
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