boys_men_and_males Aimee Alright, this is just me being pissed of at the opposite gender. First of all, stop using me! I am getting so sick of this. In the matter of a month, I have told two people that I suspected I had feelings for them and guess what, that's right they both shot me down. What gets to me is that I actually ended up kissing one of them!!! I really thought I had a chance, but no, this the amazing part, he's in love with someone else. talk about feeling used. I am so close to just giving up on you people. It's not okay for you to play this game of see-saw with my head!! In fact, it hurts me to no freaking end. "I want somebody to love" but quite honestly, I'm just becoming more and more afraid of you guys. Please give me some warning if you're going to do this to me. If kissing me and holding me, means absolutely nothing just let me know and don't make me sit there guessing for a blasted week. You guys aren't worth my tears. So stop hurting me.... please stop hurting me like this. 010311 ... nocturnal yeah, they'll do that. as much as it sucks, you always gotta be just a little guarded with their kind. I'd much rather be able to completely give myself to someone as soon as I get the urge to do so, but that's so unsafe, I always keep some distance. you can just never be sure. 010311 ... johnny west It works the other way as well. The closest I've ever come to a true "relationship" has been worshipping a girl, giving myself to her completely, and having her throw me away once she got whatever it was she wanted (probably some lunch and a pack of gum). I'm a giving person; if I care about someone, I won't hesitate to help them in any way I can. But this isn't always a positive thing. Some people pick up on it and try to exploit it. I've decided not to stop giving. Instead, I'll just keep hoping I eventually find someone who is interested in ME and not what they can mooch off of me. 010311 ... dB It's a give and take thing. If someone gets turned down at the start, it's always they guy who says no. In the dumping department it's always the chick that does the dumping. When I say always I mean mostly. 010311 ... guitar_freak OK. BOYS are all of you out there who don't handle situations maturely, thinking of themselves. MEN are so few and far between. Very few males ever reach this stage for it has nothing to do with age. 010311 ... johnny west It has everything to do with objectivity and selflessness. And the ability to cook gourmet foods. 010311 ... mikey or admit when your wrong 010311 ... johnny west That's definitely a requirement. 010311 ... psychobabe ok, i talk about this not to piss boys or men off, i say it cuz its true. Boys are guys who talk about what they have all done, and what they all want to do. Men are guys who have alittle more respect and can keep their little conquests to themselves. does that sum it up alittle? 010324 ... florescent light Last night I had the pleasure of being in the company of 6, yes, six, very attractive, and intelligent males... They ranged in age from 15 - 29. All in my house. All hanging out with me. I was the only girl there....was I ever having a good time. 010325 ... tit and girls and females... i am a lesbian and yet i nodded my head to everything aimee said. why is love so hard? 010329 ... dB Beacause when both teams are crap at the game, it turns into a grab and snatch free-for-all. Of course that's just an observation. Oh yeah, and if both teams are crap, then nobody ever gets the ball, or at least no intentionally, and not for very long. 010329 ... birdmad gambles on love this story is true no matter which side of the gender coin you're looking at. with one exception, the only honsety i have ever known was during my promiscuous years, when i wanted nothing else from my partners and they wanted nothing else from me when anything of any more depth or worth entered into the equation, i discovered that i had stumbled into a game whose stakes were much higher and where the incidence of bluffing was far greater. and the worst part is the knowledge that i am too addicted to this game to simply get up and leave the table no matter how far in the hole i have fallen 010330 ... jete You can't really place blame on a gender. i know everyone wasn't trying to be stereotypical, but it has nothing to do with gender, just human beings. some are good, and some suck.! in the words of Ani D. "you can't really place blame, cause blame is much too messy. some is bound to get on you while your trying to put it on" 010330 ... unhinged if we let people walk all over us they will. if we give love selflessly, chances are we won't get it in return. human nature, boys and girls, men and women, males and females. and we wonder why a good one is so hard to find.... 010330 ... abraham lincoln Honest girls kick ass!!!!!!! 010801 ... anyone And here's a joke to lighten the mood... What separates the boys from the men in Greece? - A crowbar. Ah,hahaha. That was disgusting, possibly racist or bigoted, and highly inappropriate. Carry on. 010801 ... Frustration So I call this chat line as a first time caller just for fun and actually meet a really nice guy. We end up talking until 2 A.M. about anyhting and everything and he says how he thinks i am really easy to talk to and nice and whatever. He e-mails me the next nihgt and says how he can't stop thinking about me and how he can't wait to talk again. So i call him up, he doesn't answer, and i leave a message. And then I wait, and wait, and wait. And I am still waiting. It has been 3 days and no calls, no messages, no nothing. I know it has only been 3 days but i thought he wanted to talk!..? Why do boys do that? It is a stupid game, or whatever it is, and i hate it! If he is not critically injured in the hospital from some accident he could have at least wrote and said hi right? He is in big trouble. Unfortunately, He will never know that he is did wrong beacause, alas, I am too afraid to complain to him...... 030408 ... i ♥ my cock If a guy does call back right away and acts genuinely interested, he's likely to be regarded as potential stalker material. If the guy holds out for a couple of days, he's being a jerk. 030408 ... stork daddy have different sized tales. 030408 ... niska i don't know any woman who would give her real # to a guy she isn't interested in talking to. call the next day when you know she won't be home. first, if you didn't really like her, you can at least do this to check if it's her real #. if it's not - hey! no pressure! no guilt. if it is - well, just hang up - she'll get the point. she'll hate you, but why should you care? you don't like her. if you do like her, and it's not her real # - well, she probably did that because she doesn't want anything to do with you, and this is to your advantage, since you'll never have to face her anyway. if you do like her, and it IS her #, then leave a brief message indicating your interest in speaking with her, and your #. this is only keeping a promise you made to call, and there's nothing desparate about that. now the ball is in her court. these are not rules, they are reasonable courses of action for what i understand is the most difficult phone call to make, for some dumb reason... calling late will indicate a lack of interest. calling more than once before she returns your call is deparate. you would react the same way to her actions if you had given her your #, so suck it up and dial. if she didn't give you a #, and you have to find it somehow - don't call her EVER. she doesn't like you. 030408 ... niska boys, men and males in general all worry about the phone-call scenerio. sometimes, girls, this is the reason they NEVER call - it's too much hassle, and they are afraid. don't worry - you deserve a stronger man. 030408 ... Chris aka johnny west sounds like me 061028 what's it to you? who go blather from