antisocial splinken i've gotten anti-social. it's disgusting. it's what always happens in the warmer months. can't stand so much body heat from being in the same room with other people. but i think that the summer suffocation is over now. i was just chilly enough on my way to the library to wish that i had someone to walk with me. 001009 ... j_blue i get antisocial when i am around people i dont know. i start to avoid situations where i might talk to someone. i walk around with headphones on to dissuade people from talking to me on the street. i buy from vending machines and the internet whenever possible. people tend to think i am shy when i get this way... 001009 ... silentbob whenever someone says something that makes me feel uncomfortable i close inside and don't let anyone in, unless it's later with another person to talk about my problems. 001009 ... Brad That's what we call it when we go back to my room to be alone. 001009 ... splinken is that what the kids are calling it these days? 001009 ... Barrett 1. unwilling or unable to associate in a normal or friendly way with other people. 2. antagonistic, hostile, or unfriendly towards others. 3.opposed or detrimental to social order or the principles on which society is constituted: antisocial behavior. NOT just wanting to be alone! 001010 ... j_blue yay, at least i am antisocial then. good for me... 001010 ... miniver "Asocial" is what most people mean when they say "antisocial". Although, antisocial has actually come to be defined much more similarly in recent years. There is the "hostile or disruptive" definition, as well as the merely asocial "shunning the society of others; not sociable". 001010 ... j_blue dictionary.com yeilds the following: a·so·cial adj. 1.Not social: “Bears are asocial, secretive animals” (David Graber). 2.Avoiding or averse to the society of others; not sociable: “It's not that you're so asocial, but a man who likes people doesn't wind up in the Antarctic” (Saul Bellow). 3.Unable or unwilling to conform to normal standards of social behavior; antisocial: “crime, riots, drug use and other asocial behavior” (Derek Shearer). 4.Inconsiderate of others; self-centered. and an·ti·so·cial adj. 1.Shunning the society of others; not sociable. 2.Hostile to or disruptive of the established social order; marked by or engaging in behavior that violates accepted mores: Criminal behavior or conduct that violates the rights of other individuals is antisocial. 3.Disrespectful of others; rude. 001010 ... guitar_freak that's me. or at least that is what my therepist says... 001022 ... guitar_freak god my employer even said I was. I didn't get a big raise because of it. geez that is just WHO I AM!!! 001105 ... tourist Years ago I was told by my boss that I had a bad attitude. I replied that it was the only attitude I had. 001106 ... guitar_freak What did he do? 001106 ... tourist He pretty much just shook his head and walked away, Someone had to go under the house to hook up the air conditioning system, It was better for him if it was me. And I didn't really care one way or another it was cooler in the shade, and nobody screwed with you while you were busy. Or at least appeared busy. 001123 ... gwyllynne heh have you ever heard of an antisocial bar fly? makes my heart giggle 001124 ... Barrett Yeah, I've had to escort a few out of my bar. And if you can believe it, some tried to fight me. 001124 ... gwyllynne were any of them short lil red head girls? cuz if so, I am sorry that I kicked your shins. 001124 ... Barrett I don't know, what were you drinking? 001124 ... stupidpunkgirl last year i spent the time between classes sitting in the corner, not wanting to talk and if someone would come up to me, they would ask if i was ok i wanted them to leave me alone, so i always said yes now i actually want to talk to people i can't i lost my ability to talk to people so now i'm just shy 001220 ... ex new girl that's the way i feel sometimes. nobody understands. there are days when i just want to be alone. away from everything and everyone. i want to sit and watch tv. quietly. by myself. some people can't get enough of social activity. me, i can only get so much. lots of times, i just need to think. to understand. so why do people get all upset when i don't go outside? why do they say mean things about me being stuck up with i go sit by myself at dances or sports games? can't they just understand, i want to be alone. i like being alone... but no forever. just sometimes. 010603 ... unique butterfly i'm anti-social most the time. i have no idea why, but nine out of ten times, i'd rather be by myself then with other people. why? people annoy me. besides, i'm my own best friend! :D not really. that was stupid. 020415 ... me im antisocial cuz most dont like my penis or my bread in the middle. is that fake? hmm 020416 ... silentbob hahahha me is funny that sounds like bad grammar but really it isnt 020416 ... freakizh i met a girl who said she was antisocial. apparently, she didnt like to hang around with people. so she sat down in the corner in everyclass, pretending not to pay attention. then i introduced her to my friends because of pity. and i must say that she has my place now, surrounded by people and i love the silence at the back of the room. 020416 ... sara i am only antisocial around people that i dont know very well. i'm very talkative and outgoing when i am around my friends but i become uptight and shy around strangers. i cant really help it though because thats just how i was born. its a hard thing to change. if anyone has any suggestions please tell me!! 021228 ... screwing for virginity when i just stand there and stare off into space people think something is wrong. and it sucks because 99% of the time there isnt, but when i say nothing it alwase sounds like a "yes there is, but i wont tell you till you prove you really want to know" nothing, when really it is a "nothing" nthing. it gets especially anoying when im at a bar or party and im taking a break from everything by standing in the middle of the room doing nothing. 021229 ... new i'm extremely anti-social. i can't help it. i just don't like people. 021229 ... Rhin i don't do humans. 021230 ... fiction i almost wish i could be antisocial something to hide behind when everything else seems to fail 030402 ... wont seeyadontcare fiction can remain for an eternity 040105 ... spiffy all of you, go away. ha. 040607 ... Jeff People bore me, i dont understand why anyone would want to just sit around and talk to other boring people 041029 ... carthonasi i can be with friends when i have to, but i will never call them or anything. i have this overall feeling that no one wants to be with me. Even if they call sometimes. I really hate being by myself. 050121 ... shivers i used to be... and i miss it sometimes. being able to feel as i am, not needing to be happy for the sake of your friends feeling that way to. i dont mind it, i want to see them smile, but i want to be my old selfish horrible dead-inside self again. 050121 ... emmi me and my guy are both antisocial. except for him it's because, as he says, "most people just bore me to death" ie. he's a little conceited, while for me it's cause i'm insecure and too shy to show my social self most of the time. 050122 ... DaMon. I don't like to talk to people but I can't help it. I talk a lot. And later I feel completely exhausted from it. I don't want to see anyone. But when I do I can't help but talk. I try so hard to shut myself up. I_almost_wish I would lose the ability to talk. But it's not everyone that exhaust me. 050122 ... u24 the name of an excellent, but defunct, magazine. it was among the best. 050123 ... thorn i think i'm more asocial than antisocial, but i'm either one at different times. i was really antisocial at the end of last year, and i'm still suffering from it now, becuase most of the people i know don't want to talk to me, and i'm almost incapable of having a conversation with anyone. i didn't talk to hardly anyone for so long my conversational skills are gone. it makes things pretty tough at school, especially since i can't hang out in the art room anymore. 050202 ... my name it means nothin i am. Sort of. I spend a lot of time wishing I had friends, those friends, that person...but then if I get a friend I never want to do anything. I feel like all my time will go away if I plan something with someone. Even though I never have anything to do! Arg. Hopefully this will change. Also wish my conversation skills were better. Can't remember how to go about making new friends on my own. (I guess blather isn't supposed to be my diary, but I'm treating it that way.) 070826 ... me crazy, conversation? who needs it? 070826 ... zeta People don't like to talk to people who have schizophrenia or bipolar 070826 ... j_blue that's not true, they just don't want to invest as soon as you can be called crazy it's only people don't mind crazy bother to relate to you, unless you hide it 070827 what's it to you? who go blather from