cancerandpiscesorpiscesandcancer me22 cancerandpiscesorpiscesandcancer who are they together? what does that mean? 030831 ... Dafremen They are both Water signs. There will be an almost immediate understanding between them. All Water signs are extremely sensitive and empathic, and they all have their particular defense mechanisms for hiding their sensitivites from the outside world. In the case of Cancer, Cancer becomes cranky, snappy and bitchy. Cancer sulks and pouts and hides away from the world when it begins to poke at Cancer's tender insides. Pisces people escape when the people around them begin to cause them pain. Some escape into alcohol or drugs, some into fantasy, movies, shopping..you name it. Many literally up and disappear, without a word..because Pisces people HATE scenes and they hate unpleasantness of all sorts. The last of the Water signs, Scorpio, defends it MOST tender heart of all of the signs with FIRM control over the emotions (so that they aren't lying out where everyone can see them) and with a retaliatory strike whenever they are harmed emotionally or otherwise. Scorpio exacts revenge, and when Scorpio axacts revenge, it's not a game. This is a lesson, so that the offender never even CONSIDERS the offending action again, let alone repeat it. All three of these signs seem to have an understanding between them. They seem to instinctively understand each others temperaments and detect each other's sensitivity. They are very gentle and nurturing with one another. Cancer happily mothering and nurturing, caring and providing a happy homebase for everyone. Pisces patiently listening and understanding and FEELING for everyone. Scorpio watching out for, defending and protecting everyone..loyally. Both Cancer and Scorpio are VERY loyal as a general rule. Pisces is loyal, but flighty and changeable, like most Mutable signs. Any bond between Water signs will tend to be strong. This also should hold true for those with their Moon in a Water sign or with large numbers of planets in a Water sign, or in the 12th(Pisces), 8th(Scorpio) or 4th(Cancer) houses. 030901 ... User24 oi! I thought you'd buggered off? 030902 ... Bizzar I was drawn to this because I am a cancer, and my boyfriend a pisces. This is what Ive found from astrology.com: When Cancer and Pisces come together, it's usually a positive meeting of spirits. Cancer is a self starter, and Pisces is easily energized by Cancer's ideas. Both signs are basically tolerant and sympathetic. Pisces can teach Cancer to appreciate creativity and spirituality . In turn, Cancer can help Pisces put their utopian theories into practice. This partnership can enjoy an amazingly strong and multifaceted emotional bond. Cancer admires and appreciates. Cancer is interested in material comforts and a rich home, and at times cannot understand the simplistic, spartanist attitude of Pisces. Their goals can be very different when it comes to their life's aspirations. Once they can understand and overcome this difference theirs will be a very rewarding relationship. Cancer is ruled by the Moon and Pisces is ruled by Jupiter and Neptune. When The Moon and Neptune come together, a beautiful spiritual connection is made. Both of these celestial bodies vibrate with feminine energy. Together, they represent an idealistic relationship which borders on the divine. Pisces is also ruled by Jupiter. This adds a masculine energy to the combination and represents philosophy, expansion and excesses. The nature of this planetary combination offers a utopian relationship, drenched in emotional intrigue and a real celestial bond. However, Cancer must be careful not to cramp the floating Fish, as Pisces will suffocate under too many demands. (How true is that?) Cancer and Pisces are both Water Signs. Generally they're very compatible, as Water is a tangible, physical entity and both appreciate this property. Pisces is born to connect mankind, and when they come together with Cancerian intuition and nurturing there is no stronger bond. In turn, Cancer has a stable view of life, but still understands the emotional ambiguity of Pisces. Cancer can help Pisces stabilize their ephemeral nature. Cancer may tire of Pisces' instability, and Pisces may in turn feel that Cancer is self-centered and negative. It will be easy for them to find a compromise. Cancer is a Cardinal Sign and Pisces is a Mutable Sign. Cancer wants to initiate while Pisces likes to float from project to project as the feeling takes them. Cancer needs to give Pisces the freedom to enjoy external interests. Pisces can show Cancer that completion is sometimes better than initiation, and that compromise without struggle can pay off. Cancer and Pisces feed off of each other's energy well, and should be completely compatible in romance or business. The best aspect of the Cancer-Pisces relationship is their similar emotional natures. Both have a great capacity as teacher and student, and they complement and harmonize with one another very well. The overall empathy and commitment these two signs value in a relationship is what will keep the ties strong and long lasting between the Crab and Fish. So very true... 030902 ... unhinged i've had relationships of sorts with both cancer and pisces, the pisces first and most recently the cancer and me being a libra they didn't work out all that well....although my relationship with the pisces prepared me for my relationship with the cancer so overall the cancer was handled slightly better. but yeah, they are both really sensitive. with really ingrained defense mechanisms that are so hard to work past. and some people tell me i'm crazy for putting any stock in astrology but its helped me more than a few times to know what astrology has to say about it. yeah, i definitely blathered this one. blah. 030903 ... Bizzar I have to say I am a full believer in astrology simply because it has never led me wrong. Some may argue and say its too general to be personal, but I would disagree in my case. I have read many books and they all say the same for me. And every last bit is true. But its like a religion, some believe, some think its silly. Its all in the discovery. 030903 ... oldephebe wow really got a lot out of daf's, Bizaar's and unhinged posts - lotta things made sense here's a question - what it the out look for a cancer and a libran both born on the 29th of the month ? 030903 ... unhinged not knowing much about astrology or numerology but just getting out of a relationship with a cancer all i can say is the cancer should ask more questions and not get too worked up about getting their toes stepped on a little now and again and the libra should open up and offer more than a silent hand. cancers like to hear how much they are needed and loved and if you don't tell them exactly what's up they will fill in the blanks on their own...and they remember EVERYTHING so don't piss them off or lie or cheat or steal or any such thing cause they will remember forever in vivid detail. and libras don't like to have assumptions made about them. (or maybe that's just me and not my sign in general) for the most part, it's kind of rough just because of the nature of the signs. they are kind of incompatible on the surface but it was one of the most connected relationships i ever had. and in a lot of ways the most healthy, but in a lot of ways not. it just needs A LOT of openness from both people for it to be a perfect relationship; which i guess is completely generic and general advice but if you take the astrology into account you'll see what i'm taking about. (ha daf--- i'm taking over your job amateur style...neener neener, catch me if you can) 030903 ... unhinged (and then daf told me my moon was in pisces and suddenly astrology made a lot more sense in my life. yes i do disappear when faced with confrontation and absolutely HATE scenes of any kind, especially the bad kind. i wish he would figure that out already and stop jumping down my shit when i need to be separated. i'm sure he's over on his side thinking i don't love him anymore. and that hurts like hell) 110325 what's it to you? who go blather from