flirting
Toxic_Kisses ...Is a way of life 011011
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Gazaar fearful loathing in remissive timing, intoxicating new girls. 011201
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pontifier it is the pregame for the sex...you know what the sex is don't you? 011210
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Dr. Schmogg When done right, and under proper circumstances, it causes chemicals to be released in the brain of the recipient, bringing him/her close to a state of euphoria and/or heightened awareness. 011210
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Toxic_Kisses Most times I’m not even aware of the fact I’m flirting and for that matter don't even understand what I'm doing that’s being taken az flirting
Az far az I'm concerned I'm just being me! And so when you a accuse me of flirting and don't tell me what edzactly it iz that I did than Yes I AM going to clam up and not socialize bc I don't want to be accused of flirting again and than later here you rant and rave @ me even more about it for the next 2 weeks.
The fact that you even ask why I don't want to go out any more astounds me
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Syrope is an art :) 020622
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Ariadani is so dangerous! people should definately be careful who they flirt with. 020623
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nightcrawler is... impossible, for me.
kasey: how does one flirt?
me: i have no idea.
kasey: maybe we're supposed to do that weird giggling thing.
me: or play with their hair?
kasey: yes, definitely.
me: play with their hair? thats what we have to do?
kasey: yes, we definitely have to play with their hair.
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minnesota_chris I'm often accused of being flirty. I'm not though. I just smile, and listen to what people say.

I think I'm a male bimbo. I think a bimbo is someone that people always view in sexual terms whether or not it is justified.
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Mo i always thought a bimbo was someone who flirted aimlessley just to get attention, and is dumb 021118
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p2 a bimbo is dumb
only because s/he has been allowed to get away with being dumb
due to her/his drool-inducing looks
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minnesota_chris no no no. It's my idea that a bimbo is a person that others view as a bimbo, nothing innate. Now a tramp, on the other hand. . . 021119
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minnesota_chris Mo and p2 are saying the view that people have of bimboes, that they are beautiful and that by tossing their head they can garner undeserved attention.

But the "bimbo" is just being friendly. It's not their fault that people incorrectly sexualize their behavior.
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birdmad cught a snip of molly hatchet a few minute ...with disaster 031215
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birdmad ( can't spell, but caught a snippet of Molly Hatchet a few minutes ago) 031215
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p2 m_chris
see: bimbo
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p2 . 031216
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justme can break a friendship 031216
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celestias shadow is rather fun. and is difficult to teach properly. 031228
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bandersnatch i have been acosted (ooh, big word. i hope it is spelled correctly) by more than a few people for flirting with them when i in fact was not. 031228
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milady i've found that singing softly to a guy drives them crazy
but only try it if you have a good voice...
it worked when i tried it...

any tips? spill folks
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minnesota_chris Once I brought breakfast and coffee to my friend who was living down the street, when she was feeling out of it and had to get moving. She still talks about it.

Two of the sexiest things I ever did were singing Elvis songs to someone while they were in the potty, and painting their toenails.

Mmm, both to the same person, to seduce her I guess, even though I knew it wouldn't work out in the long run. I guess that was bad. Or at least, not the best thing I've done.
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shower singer I think i'm too friendly.
Male people keep mistaking it for flirting, and then I realise too late, and then it gets messy.

Lesson learnt: only be friendly to a guy if I am willing to sleep with him.
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minnesota_chris ya gotta be willing to shut someone down if they get interested. That's the hard part, but crucial. 040623
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easy as 1 2 3 I find shutting people down simple. Answer the questions and continue taking small steps further from the interested party's direction

eventually they will take the hint and let you go
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emmi my 4 year old little sis just told me not to kiss her cause she only wants to be kissed by her boyfriend. haha ahhaha ahahah aha hahhahahh h 040624
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daxle i gave him my phone number

and then i practically ran out of the building

i smiled and laughed and yelped and i kept asking myself why i was so excited

i think it's really nothing to do with him. i think it's that i think i've finally overcome my fear of people. i'm untoucheable.
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kc Is one way you play the gender game. Smile, tease, flip your hair, swagger around and see if ze'll notice. 050327
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andru235 i flirt with the grace of a crumbling forgotten pillared temple overgrown with vines:

not a style that modern gay guys seem to respond to. shocking.
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anne-girl i think i might have been, earlier today
with my friend's older brother
just mildly

he's way old... probably in his early 20s or something
shy, quiet, but a geek, kinda cute

he uses Gentoo :)

then i realised it was stupid, and stopped
silly me

i was just surprised, cause it's not the kind of thing I do.
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anne-girl he really is cute, though
*images bouncing around in her head*

yay for skinny stuttering computergeeks!
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andru235 wow. if early 20s is "way old" to you, anne-girl, then you must be "way younger" than i thought. i had guess that you yourself were in your twenties!

but then, i have been accused of being a 7-year-old, and not without just cause...
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anne-girl laugh
i'm almost seventeen
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anne-girl 20s isn't that old... i think 22 sounds like an excellent age to be... but y'know
it's into third decade... post-teenager... all that crap attached to it
still far away for me
tries to elucidate
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andru235 for some people the age-difference thing is great, but for most people, it ain't.

personally, i'm one of the former, i've always been attracted to men about 10 to 15 years older than me...surprisingly, this distance preference has persisted as i have aged...sometimes i wonder, when i am 65, will i be attracted to 75-year-olds?

perhaps by the time i am 65 i will have learned to flirt in the modern style. which will, by then, be outdated.
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anne-girl it seems to me that people would care much less about such things at sixty-five
but never having been 65, i could be wrong

and i don't know how to flirt either
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emmi blush
panic attack
deep breath
and then the flirting begins
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unhinged should you do it if you don't really mean it? 080714
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past hard to tell sometimes, but i'll continue anyways

(not a response to you, n, but my own thought when i saw the word)
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past i mean it, and i meant it, and i hope you did/do too. 080718
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no reason fun but over-the-top-ness and overconfidence need to be shot down 080908
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