insights_into_scorpio Dafremen Others in the past have accused these two of being cold emotionally. There's a good reason for that. They are. [Being of] the Water Element; they find it difficult to display their feelings openly. But romantic temperature is a matter of interpretation. What others may call cold, to Cancer and the Eagle can read from warm to hot. Compensating for their inheritance of cooler, Water Element chemistry, these two are secretly sentimental, even more so than Taurus and Leo. The Cancer-Scorpio attempt to hide this sentimentality isn't always successful. Tears come to both their eyes easily when their emotions are touched(which is frequently.) With her, the tears often spill down over her cheeks, and the secret is out. With him, after the first unbidden misting or faint wetness, a manly gulp and a powerful surge of self-control will dry his tears so quickly , most people are none the wiser...Noone in the world can control his emotions as superbly as a Scorpio man. He exercises a continual watch over them, forcing his facial features to assume a neutral position in the midst of any emotion, from surprise or elation to hurt or grief. Nearly always the Eagle succeeds. When he doesn't, you can be sure the depth of the emotion felt is truly overwhelming, virtually uncontrollable. So, you see, they aren't emotionally cold at all -- it's just that they both find it difficult to show on the outside what they're feeling on the inside. It's not easy for feelings, even strong ones to break through their shells. For the Crab and the Scorpion each possess a hard shell of self-protection, an extra insurance policy from Nature against the intense degree of hurt always felt by such sensitive, sensitive creatures. - from Love Signs Cancer/Scorpio Chapter 020426 ... Dafremen Like the Scorpion, these people are inclined to live within themselves. They are not easily coaxed or frightened. Outdoor sports appeal very strongly to them and much of their leisure time is given to such pastimes. The ocean or any body of water which has the charm of majesty, power, beauty or picturesqueness, possess great attraction for them, and they are fond of travel and adventure on water, as well as the beauty of lake or river scenery. They dearly love to sit and wonder beside the restless waves of the ocean, which is so symbolic of their ceaseless rolling and tossing nature. - from The Zodiac and Its Mysteries Scorpio Chapter Professor A.F. Seward, who wrote that book, was an Eagle. November 28th. 020426 ... Dafremen Both the Crabs and the Eagles tend to never forget a kindness. Likewise, they mutually share long memories for hurt or injury. Wound either Cancer or Scorpio and the memory will linger, never fading, occassionally for a lifetime. But there the similarity ends, for the Crab will seldom try to even the score, preferring to cry and nurse injured feelings alone, cauterizing the wounds with liberal doses of self-pity, while the Scorpion will bloody well see to it, in one way or another, that there is returned an "eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth" -- a bruise for a bruise, a dented fender for a dented fender, and insult for an insult and so on. - from Love Signs Cancer/Scorpio Chapter 020426 ... Dafremen Sometimes the demon of jealousy takes possession of the men as well as the women of this sign and the intensity of their natures drives them to the verge of murderous frenzy. They are often suspicious of their mates, and if they do not know where they are at all times, they are apt to misjudge their actions. - from The Zodiac and Its Mysteries Scorpio Chapter 020426 ... Dafremen DISCLAIMER: As anyone who knows me is aware, I'm not into young folks doing stupid sh*t because they think they WANT each other in a loving way. Love comes with time and trial by fire and I think sex is just a stupid, shallow experience without love. Please hold off and get to know someone WELL before you decide to get sexually intimate with them. Knowing them well means seeing them at THEIR WORST within the confines of a romantic relationship as well as at their most attractive and enticing. It means knowing each other over the course of many months or, more likely, over the course of years. Sex without REAL love is like two people agreeing to be sex tools, objects for each other's mutual masturbations. Ok, enough of the disclaimer and the lecture...on to the good stuff. Daf - The genitals are everyone's erogenous zone, but for Scorpio the genitals are where sexual energy is exclusively focused and concentrated. Scorpio starts off with intense sexual feelings, and genital contact adds fuel to the fire. Even a light fingering of Scorpio's genital area will turn him or her into a volcano of passion. There is almost no wrong way to touch and fondle Scorpio's genitals unless you are inflicting pain...Since much of the excitement in erotic touching comes from anticipation, any manual or oral stimulation of the genitals should be done very slowly, and you should not always follow through as expected. "Teasing" with your fingertips can spur Scorpio on to the sexual heights. - from The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need / Astrology and Health Chapter / Scorpio Section 021012 ... freakizh daffy! that's not as easy to do compared to gemini's place (hands). imagine it: oops! sorry, gem, i didn't meant to sensually brush my fingertips against your hands // oops! sorry, scorpio, i didn't meant to slowly caress your penis. silly. very silly. 021012 ... Dafremen Scorps are more aware than any other sign of the relationship between life and death. They know that death..is life. In the book I'm writing, Scorpio represents the water that remains behind after the run off. They are the water that soaks into the ground and enables the cycle of decomposition to begin. Scorpio knows that death sets the stage for life. As my friend biglizrd likes to say, "Hey, worms gotta eat too." 030510 what's it to you? who go blather from