questions_on_virginity sabbie ok, i have a question. i was thinking about putting in a bid under buy_daxle's_virginity but then i thought "im not going to bid for something that the person who ownes it doesnt know where it is' and then i was thinking that if you dont have it anymore daxle, who does? cos i know the term its 'taking someones virginity' but what does that person do with it? the boy that took mine took it away but i didnt think he put it in a box on his mantlepiece or anything, but years later i heard that he waved it around my friends like a flag "she chose me to do it" and none of them belived him and several had quiet chats to him about what i would ever do to him if i found out he was spreading all these lies about me (yaa my friends!) but he also told me that day that i was the fourth virgin he had ever fucked (just after he said 'thank christ you didnt bleed, i hate it when they bleed') and so i guess he was collecting them after all and who knows, maybe he has them framed on his wall or something which brings me to the question what does someones virginity actually look like? 020914 ... Freak I don't know but thats a damn good question! 020914 ... sabbie do you think theres a planet somewhere where all the virginites that are no longer needed go? do they retire to the bamamas and sit around the pool drinking coloured liquids with paper straws? or like that childs book i have when i was little 'where do the butterflies go when it rains' do you think everytime it rains the butterflies become virgins again? my virginity and some butterfly huddling under the same leaf. and if that were to happen, and my virginity and that butterfly go close, listening to the rain on the florna, do you think if my virginity herself has sex would she disapear like a broken bubble? float away on an orgasmic coil of smoke and disperse into the atmostphere like bank cigarette smoke? ... what a way to go. but that brings me back to my original point, or at least, one of my many original points. go where? where did my virginity go? was it pushed back into my womb by his dick? maybe thats where boys virginities go, they spurt it into whichever orifice they have dived into, but it doesnt quite work like that for girls. and if the boy is wearing a condom does his virginity get smooshed around his willy? does some of it seep back into the hole? can a boy absorb his own virginity back? and if thats so, can a girl keep her virginity inside even after the big push? but if it did indeed leave, how did it get out? there was this boy in the way after all. is that what fanny farts are? little shreads of my virginity still escaping even after all these years? did it rise off that mattress on the floor on wings of sweat and blood and driped towards the cealing like an ectoplasmic ghost leaving a snails trail of the smell of rubberandsperm and little droplets of salt behind it? 020914 ... Photophobe he was collecting them? Thats such a sick concept. No offence to you sabbie, but I really don't like whoever it was... 020915 ... Aimee I took out a piece of notebook paper one day... I think I was in 9th or 10th grade, and I wrote on it "Aimee's Virginity" and coloured the paper and made it look all pretty and flowery. Then I gave it to my friend Arthur... for safe keeping of course... I wonder if he still has it... and if he does... where is it? Technically, I didn't lose my virginity, (I know exactly where I put it) but since Arthur isn't the first person I was with sexually, does that mean I didn't lose my virginity to Art? eh... oh well... 020915 ... girl_jane Can you take it back if that person really doesn't deserve it? I've given my body, but I have yet to give my heart...I'll put that in my locked jewelry box for safe keeping. When I do give my heart, the boy will know that he is special. There are still firsts- my_stomach_hurts 020915 ... daxle Well... I'm pretty sure the person I gave it to threw it out from anger after he had it for three years without knowing. Of course this does depend on what virginity actually is. Thus arised the confusion on who actually got it. Either would be worthy. Both were genuinely wonderful people... both better than I will probably ever be. I figure I'll probably find it crumpled up in the gutter by the road some day and it won't even be worth picking up. I never wanted it anyway. 020915 ... unhinged ive always wanted to take mine back. twenty years later i think i am finally through to the other side of mine being forcibly taken. 190115 what's it to you? who go blather from