no_person_is_worth_your_tears dondeestanlosjaguares "No [person] is worth your tears. And the one who is, doesn't make you cry" I think that is how it goes, but most of you should get the point. I think that is totally wrong. Who ever said that obviously never really loved. Just one of those people who think that they know everything. The one who really loves you, will bring tears to your eyes because of how happy they make you, simply by giving you a kiss every morning. This person can bring tears to your eyes by telling you I love you in a most desperate way. Tears become inevitable when you finally get a chance to see this person and spend some time together. Tears are a reaction of the soul when it is very happy or sad. The person who is really worth it will make you cry, but will never hurt you. Won't ever want to hurt you. I may have people who disagree with me, if that is true then, oh well. I really don't care, but I do know this: I have found this special person that is worth my tears. One who can tell me I love you over the phone and still bring tears to my eyes. Now that I've found her, I want to get to her and never let go. . . 021005 ... devalis That's possibly the most beautiful thing I've ever heard and I completely agree. I've found my tear jerker and he's worth ever drop. 021006 ... jane what about yourself 021006 ... devalis me? 021006 ... jane sure but i mean, aren't i worth my own tears? aren't you worth your own tears? 021006 ... devalis in my case... no. in your case, of course! 021007 ... jane why not in your case? 021007 ... devalis I deserve no one's sympathy, especially not my own. 021008 ... jane i'm sorry 021008 ... devalis it's not your fault. Andy did it. 021016 ... not fit for speaking I've never wanted to hit someone so much in all my life. 021016 ... kss I've been struggling for years to to undo that feeling; the rationalizing, shutting out, and denial of feel sadness, especially for myself. My mom used to get in my face about it; about how good I had it, and how I should just get over it, and not feel sorry for myself. Because I had it better than other people, and I shouldn't complain, and I was wrong for feeling I deserved better. you know what mom? FUCK YOU! Disappointment fucking hurts! Sometimes it hurts bad. And I want that bad out. Don't try to explain it away, because it doesn't go away. It just rots and gets nasty, and takes up room that could be used for better things. Get it out, deal with it, and be done with it. I am worth my own tears. Everyone is worth their own tears. You don't have to have a reason. Just cry. Sometimes life hurts or is sad, and no words or thoughts are going to undo that or make that go away. 021016 ... *nat* but sometimes you just cant help it 021016 ... jane sean's not, for sure but that's not going to stop me from crying 021016 ... lauren I agree with you on this one...tears are always viewed in a negative light, what about the times we cry when we are happy? Having been in love I feel sharing tears both happy and sad are part of a healthy relationship. I cry all the time, sometimes alone, sometimes with people...it is my form of release and yeah there are guys that are not worth my tears, but that doesn't stop me from crying...when you are hurt by someone you care about it is really hard to say "fuck it" and those people who never cry, that have it all together....those are the people we should be worried about because one day I swear they're all going to burst. 030219 what's it to you? who go blather from