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is it french?
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if a girl asks you to call, why dont you?
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Lick
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You are asking the wrong guys. Self enflated egos cause non-compliance with your questions of communication.
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yourName
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so then the guys that dont call are assholes?
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p2
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ha!
like a girl would ask me to call her
this should be under joke_index
but if you're serious
it must be one of three reasons
1) not interested
2) cowardice
3) mind_fuck
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cinzento
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1) I don't feel like talking on the phone right now, I'll call later ... and then I forget.
2) I'm too shy. This is true even of my closest friends. There's something about calling people that I can't deal with.
3) The girl is my mother. I know she'll call back, and all of my calls to her get charged to her phone bill anyway, so I just wait for her to call me.
Usually, I *do* call back if you ask me to. It just takes a little time to make myself do it.
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Perrier
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Because we're interested but not THAT interested. To much commitment to soon.
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Another Guy
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You are not high enough on the ladder to actually give a shit whether we hurt your feelings or not. Same goes for the ladies. Same old, same old.
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minnesota_chris
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we don't call because a) the girl is unattractive b) the girl is weird in a non-good way c) the girl is too intimidating d) we just forgot about it (this actually happens to a few of us)
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martini
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what if you hooked up 2 days before?
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minnesota_chris
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that would be all the more reason not to call someone. I have no idea why this is, but I know it to be true, with me at least.
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martini
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because its embarrassing or what?
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white_wave
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why is the guys responsibility to make the first call? i started making most of the calls, and we are still together 9 years later.
and by the way, i feel that guys don't call for the same reason that girls don't. girls, please don't take it personally....
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martini
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and what reason is that?
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whitechocolatewalrus
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i really don't like this question.
how can all of these be directed toward "guys" when all guys are different? each person may have a different reason. each situation is different and can not all be grouped into "guys don't call because they think the girl is ugly" or "guys don't call because they had better things to do" and so on. there are a million different reasons why he didn't call you. but if you really wanted to talk to him, why didn't you call? seriously, i_think i could probably go on forever about this, but i think i will stop.
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p2
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i assume the original question
was for intentional behavior
but even so
if you "forgot"
you couldn't have been
all that interested anyway
another point
i'd like to make
is that
"hooking up"
does not mean he's interested
if it's not out of cowardice
(and i don't think it is
due to your "hooking up")
according to the ladder_theory
you are on rung 5
or lower
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minnesota_chris
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yay smallrus! Thanks for breaking out of the man stereotype!
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040304
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blah bla blah bla TK
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so to sum it up he's (who ever "He" happins to be) is eather
unintrested
or
or shy bc he -is- intrested yet fears aquword converstion and silent pauses
through personal experence I have found that the ppl I have a hard time talking to on the phone due to aquwordness and silent pauses turn out to be ppl I'm not really compatabull w/ any way, and any way the next time I see the person in RL I feel all strange bc of the previously bad phone convo and thus avoid ferther contact *shrugz* but then again what the hell do I know, I after all like shy aquword guys who stumble over their words when they're around me its just not something thats as charming over the phone is all I guess
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040304
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what's it to you?
who
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