close_friends joepriest the closer the friend the more you know about each other an the less you hurt each other... apparently! wots the horrible truth? its that no-matter what, the closer the friend, the easier they can hurt you without realising. they think they know what will just annoy you and what will REALLY make you feel bad about yourself, but they dont. sometimes you dont want to argue with some things a close friend says, and eventually that friend might hit the peak of ur anger without realising theyve done anything wrong! a close friends close friend can also affect you greatly. for one thing, the 2nd hand close friend knows even less than a 1st hand close friend, so they can hurt you more and not know when to stop. but on the other hand, a 1st hand close friend will want to know what they have done wrong straight away and you dont even want 2 talk 2 them or anyone, so you hate them even more, whereas a 2nd hand friend will not be so insistant to know the wrongdoing, and will just leave you be, so you can easily recover from the hurt and resume talking to them sooner rather than later! but who knows? maybe the truth is you do not know your close friend/s as well as you could and might just as easily make the same mistake! maybe, we should all take some time to get to know our close friends true personalities, likes, dislikes, and feelings! i hope i can do this much at least! 020830 ... ~gez~ #moral# dont get too involved with anyone until you can be sure they're perfect. most people can screw you up and will, but thats they way the world revolves i think. 'if you stay out of other's lives they won't fuck up yours' - an apoligetic gez (though i suppose it won't mean much at the moment) 020830 ... Torch I agree with you two 020830 ... ~gez~ good i like agreeing, its fun isnt it 020830 ... ~gez~ "how come we do it so infrequently then?" i dont know actually, its the way our relationship is held together i answered that before you asked it case i forget to ever check this post again 020830 ... blamethesky can fuck you over the hardest 020830 ... silentbob i need to just stop liking her 020830 ... ~gez~ its ironic that close friends, even if you thought they weren't can know so much about you 020830 ... eklektic close friends are nice to have a opener football games, to lose your voice with, to talk about web design and where you belong in the world with, to discover jazz cds under trees with. 020830 ... joepriest wow, blamethesky summed my point up in one sentance! although mine also ses that close frends r good! 020831 ... Alfred Now, I really do need that salt water enema. I've held my urine all day. Tie me up and let her rip!!! Listen kiddo - frineds will screw you over! Period! It's axiomatic OKAY?? Once you accept that you'll deal and get on with it!!!!! FEEL BETTER!!!!!! 040112 ... dying embers it's devastating... losing close friends 040113 ... misstree water_brothers 040113 ... no reason people who have them are luckier than they probably realize 140115 ... unhinged as opposed to...? far_friends shallow_friends to me, by definition, friends should be close. otherwise youre just an accquaintance i might like to hang out with when im otherwise unoccupied 140115 ... epitome of incomprehensibility All my close friends are currently not geographically close (I count three in that category). 140115 ... no reason to me, there are different types of friendships, but if you think of it like that, then i guess replace "close friends" with "friends." 140115 ... under_the_hat I invited you last night You leaned in close enough to Talk of strategy and diplomacy and distruction I don't remember what you said I do remember how close you were That if I were only to catch those lips In a kiss There in the audience I was captivated. I had to force my self away. 140116 what's it to you? who go blather from