frenchkissing Toxic_Kisses All the guys I've ever frenchkissed sucked @ it, there was one who just didn’t know how Not to drool when doing so, one who used his tongue like a fish out of water, the other one who would simply stick his tongue in my mouth and than take it out and than in again and so on, WTF iz up w/ that? You guys really need to learn how to kiss! I've read books on the subject (hell it wasn’t till I was 13 when I had my first frenchkiss, I figed if I read up on it and knew of many diff ways to French kiss Id know what I waz doing and wouldn’t fuck up, unfortunately the guys I've been w/ haven’t read the same books and seem to think that theirs nothing wrong w/ the way they frenchkiss, I once gave one of my books az a gift to a current BF and he got all hurt and defensive and what not, gawd why do guys have to be so babyish some times! hell if my guy/girl gave me a book on new sexual positions and what not that I didn’t know about I’d eat tha thing up, I always have this nagging fear in that area that I just don’t know enough, witch iz odd since I waz exposed to sex at an early age and started reading books on it when I waz 10, don’t get me wrong, I'm not any sort of slut, I after all have only been w/ 2 ppl, I always figed if I waz good in bed though I wouldn’t have to worry about being cheated on... Gee I got way off topic didn’t I, hate when I do that! 011010 ... Photophobe It doesn't matter how good you are in bed. Everone will cheat on you. No matter how forfilling you are to your partner, they're always dreaming of some other guy/girl, and acting on it when given the chance. You've read books on kissing? why? why not just wait till you're kissing and have fun with it, experiment yourself. half the fun is discovering new things. I have a fear that one day I'll stop discovering things in sex. It'll just become routine and loveless. I think that'll be the day to become celebite for a whiel you know, born again virgin style. And if they kiss badly, don't tell them, of course that'll hurt them. you can force them to kiss better. just don't take a passive role, and don't LET them kiss you badly. 011010 ... the indulgent ascetic if they're worth kissing, then they're worth teaching there's always something more to be learned 011010 ... lost yes it is. 011011 ... psychobabe lol thats true. I personally like doing that with long ones between short ones. Then all the fun stuff inbetween ; ) 011025 ... unhinged i should more often i hear i'm good at it it must be the pisces in me they say pisces and of course scorpio are good kissers 080317 what's it to you? who go blather from