polyamory nom i said to the guy on the bus 051113 ... Piso Mojado tinyurl.com/ddmpg 051114 ... ever dumbening i would like to openly communicate that i want to be on the polyamory blathe with you two. :) 051114 ... nom heh : ) 051114 ... stork daddy start with the premise. don't start with the conclusion. it doesn't work that way. 061030 ... the great pumpkin as played by leon phelps are we talking tort reform, or gettin' freaky with lots of lovely skanks? 061030 ... stork daddy you'd be surprised the things you hear when establishing loss of consortium. 061031 ... stork daddy but i think shel silverstein said it best - Just me, Just me Sweet Marie, she loves just me (She also loves Maurice McGhee). No she don't, she loves just me (She also loves Louise Dupree). No she don't, she loves just me (She also loves the willow tree). No she don't, she loves just me! (Poor, poor fool, why can't you see She can love others and still love thee. 061031 ... percy bysshe shelley "to divide is not to take away" 061031 ... stork daddy well assuming arguendo that romantic love is an infinite wellspring percy, indeed the infinite divided by the finite leaves infinite remaining. however, if we speak of a finite something, a division would appear to take something away, though at this point we arrive at a sorties paradox worthy of xeno and are forced to ask the philisophical question of how much of a thing must remain for it to retain its character. judging from the world around me, i'd sadly posit that love appears quite finite. 061031 ... Ouroboros I don't think it works for me. 080316 ... jane considering that everyone is capable of a relative portion of love, it seems that love is indeed finite. question is: how much can you love without giving up yourself? 080316 ... ionesco there are many loves many ways to love love may be limited but, as it comes in many forms, experiencing more forms is a way to expand your experience and that of others - 080317 ... nom i'm so confused by myself and everything 080819 ... xelad There isn't a finite amount of love but there is a finite amount of time. How many people can you really date? Related to- How many friends can you really be close to? Vacation is over and there's more people I'd like to be dating but I know I'll soon hardly have time for the 3. Feels disappointing until I remember how lucky I am to have 3 loving and successful relationships. 080819 ... unhinged yeah, shit dude. i'd settle for one relationship. i don't think i could have three anyways. i have a strong tugging in me to be devoted to just one. but i really have no basis on which to make this judgement, since relationships do not seem to be my strong suit, or something i have very often. but yeah, just one would be nice. someone to tell everything to and then cuddle up with at night. that would be ideally ideal. 080820 ... Caroline 452 is dead Hey Ouroboros, is it working for you now? 101128 ... Ouroboros yea 101129 ... Ouroboros I didn't type that. 101129 ... n o m i can't help the way my heart feels 140203 ... REAListic optimIST It's not in the nature of love to control, Yet selfishness is rampant in poly communities. Such relationships can be healthy with a lot of communication And a sincere desire for others to be happy. 140203 what's it to you? who go blather from