i_think_im_bi StarrLite How do you know for sure? 020828 ... hey now! do you like boys? do you like girls? if the answer to both is yes, then youre bi. 020828 ... hey now! just so you know.. i wasnt being sarcastic. 020828 ... Mahayana You're bi if [you] and only you deems yourself as such, and it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks, this is for you and only you to decide. so... if you think you are- you are if you think you aren't- you aren't and remember nothing is set in stone even when considering and contemplating sexuality and all the various components for some individuals it can actually be rather fluid [whatever you decide ...you are still beautiful- and thats what truly matters] :at the end of the day: 020828 ... silentbob some say everyone is bi, some are just more aware of it. that may be true. but i'll never know, because i'm all about girls. 020828 ... unhinged i think it's something that a lot of people take a long time to realize because it somehow doesn't fit into american culture that you could possibly be attracted to both genders. people like cut and dry answers in general too. the mind likes things concrete. bisexuality is far from concrete. it was confusing for me too at first. how could i be attracted to guys and girls at the same time? i think my bisexuality might be on the wane because my experience with women has been invariably bad but then again so has my experience with men. but i haven't been seriously attracted to a girl in awhile. so i guess mahayana's answer is a good one for me too. to me, love is love. who cares what they hide underneath their clothes. 020828 ... silentbob it seems like more and more people i meet are bisexual. 030112 ... Lilac it must be the cool thing to do these days 030113 ... Lilac or maybe everyone is just really confused. 030113 ... eklektic "one must do as his nature dicates." - oscar wilde and yeah...a lot of people are discovering their bisexuality lately. maybe everyone really is bi, but some havent realized it until now. 030114 ... misstree it's been trendy to be bisexual since i was in high school, ten years ago. it is still very trendy for females to be bisexual, but not quite so for women. the term "bicurious" has been coined for people who were open to exploration regarding their sexual orientation, but unsure if they were indeed something other than hetero- or homo-. has negative connotations, but fuck connotations if you really want to explore something as integrated and difficult to understand as sexuality. if i continue babbling, i will let loose some very nasty thoughts better placed elsewhere, so /end rant 030114 ... misstree er, "not quite so for men" sushi coma. 030114 what's it to you? who go blather from