why_is_porn_addictive
holmes It's stupid, and it shouldn't be a struggle. But I just get bored, and my fantasy life isn't nearly as animated or rich with content.

but then there's guilt.

maybe it's the guilt that's addictive.

bother.
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daxle hi jimmy! 050126
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jane naked people never get tiring 050127
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stork daddy and in porn they never get tired. 050127
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stork daddy and actually, believe it or not...that wasn't me. 050127
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daxle it could be though, you can see that 050128
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stork daddy could be...the only difference is that my fantasy life is too rich and therefore burdensome and i'm lazy. 050128
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Sirius Why are phantasies addictive? Thatīs even more interesting...of course certain phantasies...brainsex? *coughs* 050513
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Lemon_Soda Porn is addictive the same way ciggerrettes or chocolate milk is. Its not really good for you but it tastes great, feels good, and is readily available. Hard to resist. Discipline will get you over it. Be your own parent on this one.

I would say that porn is particulaly harmful because it instills false expectations about what a sexual experience generally is. It also leads to premature ejaculation in intimate situations.
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dim cinderblock locust because your porn will never tell you anything you didn't already know that it didn't mean, nor will it eject itself from the player in mid-scene because it's pining for the last vcr or dvd player it was in before and because you rarely have to worry about finding porn in a format that everyone else but you can indulge 050513
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Sirius wrong expectations for sure...sex is so much better if you donīt think "porn-like"...I promise ya 050513
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the locust No disrespect to you, Sirius, but my metaphors are very very narrowly and specifically targeted. 050513
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Sirius no disrespect to you dear, but I donīt think that I was referring to your statement above..but I understand what you wanted to say then ;) 050513
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dim cinderblock locust ALSO: your porn will never turn around and berate you for for the arousal it deliberately incited 050516
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TK I find porn to either boring or disturbing, often times a mix of both. When renting porn I do so to try and understand why others find it so appealing and just end up turning it off halfway through feeling disgusted with myself and in need of a shower and one of those bright plastic scowering pads and yet no closer to finding others reason for porn’s intrigue and hold on them.

and thus why I rarely watch porn
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