diatribe__slut_vs_virgin jane a slut, huh? so i can't just sleep over somewhere without you assuming that sex has occurred? and you're offended by that? well, i don't go around jabbing at you for being a virgin! actually, i'm offended that you haven't slept with your boyfriend yet! he's done everything for you! he deserves a lay, even a horribly pathetic one from a virgin. why dont you try and give him a blowjob and gag on the head of his average cock, you inexperienced bag? your choice, you say? well, hey, honey, its my choice to sleep with whoever i want, and none of your business. 050307 ... stork daddy there may be evolutionary psychology reasons as to why men prefer to dedicate the majority of their assets and affections to virgins while discounting sluts. but that does not justify the amount that preference is institutionalized and rationalized in this country that is supposed to be about personal freedom. sluts of the world unite, you have nothing to lose but sleep. 050307 ... Clark Nova A woman I used to know once accused me of suggesting she was a slut after she regaled me with the story of her exploits from a few nights previous. She didn't let me finish my argument as to why she wasn't, since she had already made up her mind that I had called her such. Had she let me finish, I would have said that matters wouldn't have been so frustrating if she had been an actual slut. I can count on a genuine slut to follow through on a proposition, and if all of the cards are on the table, I know not to make any more of it than that. There is an actual payoff to the build-up, not a dose of bitterness and blueballs. I prefer sluts, sluts are, contextually at least - honest, Virgins, on the other hand - and the professionally demure are overrated and while there is a certain thrill in tutoring them from inexperience into wanton-ness, it takes more patience than I have to coach any but the quickest studies from my bag o' tricks 050308 ... silentbob Sluts don't exist. And virginity is a construct. 140126 ... epitome of incomprehensibility I dunno. Irving Layton, for example, was a bit of a slut. But Canadian poetry is largely a cultural construct. 140126 what's it to you? who go blather from