we're_on_the_same_page hsg the bleunderstanding. bleu-blog.blogspot.com : Tuesday, September 30, 2008 Appreciating and understanding others This is the period where people forgive each other - though we should do so everyday, every moment of our life. To forgive, or to ask for forgiveness, in a way is like corrective maintenance. You know, we correct or replace what is wrong. The better way is preventive maintenance. That is, maintain it before it fails. Or in this context, try not to do stuff - intentionally and unintentionally - that will require you to ask for forgiveness later. To do a good preventive maintenance, one may require to perform analysis and, in some cases, simulations. One of the biggest challenge in social life is the interaction between men and women (one of which men usually apologize without knowing exactly what was wrong). Time Out New York did a little simulation to better understand each sex, particularly in the area of bouncing boobs and dangling dicks. Their reporters traded parts to find out how it feels. wiki: BLEU (Bilingual Evaluation Understudy) is a method for evaluating the quality of text which has been translated from one natural language to another using machine translation. 081029 ... Lemon_Soda Is that to say that someone who never forgives just gets more and more broken? 081029 ... Syrope it would make sense to me 081029 ... hsg maybe or perhaps stays broken. i think when we FUNction correctly we smile, by natural_design. i turn myself as well as the offender into a cartoon. the proximal becomes cartoonish also. then by imagining a simple numberline of how long the ever_important_reference such as life or crucial circumstance allows for mistakes, mishaps, delays_or_otherwise_general_bullshit i begin to see the lefter and righter limits forever expand either outward or inward. thus by seeing in each direction forever_outward_and_forever_inward in infinitesimal detail it's easier to make a choice_between_fear_and_love. glad we're on the same page. 081029 ... In_Bloom I heard these words out loud in May April 2008 They carried me pretty far too- past Fear Love wasn't so much a choice as an inevitability and it was welcomed I amplified as I could 081029 ... dafremen Offering forgiveness unconditionally..should begin with forgiving yourself. It ain't easy being human. 081029 ... hsg inevita b l earning to be on the same page i think you can make sense out of forgiveness 081029 ... Lemon_Soda A person who never forgives...can never forgive themselves...OMG life must be a living hell for them... 081104 what's it to you? who go blather from