which_is_scarier ClairE I_love_you or I_hate_you? 020117 ... niki i love you...never heard it before from anyone that didn't have to legally say it to me 020117 ... birdmad i think going too long without being told either would be scarier 020117 ... Mahayana one without the other ¿[would an individual really know u with just 1]? 020117 ... bzzmel i_hate_you 020117 ... Toxic_Kisses Most definitely I_love_you Hell hate me all you want I don't give a rats ass but for Christ sakes don't scare me w/ I_love_you! Gah than I have standards to live up to and more often than not any one who has ever said this to me ends up becoming possessive/obsessed about me and than hurting me. These gosh darned ppl (not referring to any one in blather) don't realize what it's like to be caged/chained in some one elses love and than to simply be cast away like a snot-rag later on. Don't ever say you love me. 020117 ... silentbob i hate you 020117 ... User24 it depends upon the degree, an I_love_you , said in a kind of sigh-y way is pretty comforting, an I_love_you said in a way which makes you feel guilty for not reciprocating is quite nasty, but an i_hate_you said with a grinding of teeth that makes you fear for you life as you run to the door, scared that the person will follow you to their grave, driven by pure, blinding hatred, well, that's pretty fucking scary. 030822 ... sweetheart of the song tra bong scariest = "you don't matter to me at all either way" 030822 ... mo i love you gives you such higher expectations to live up to 030822 ... ferret your scars, yeah, that would have to be it 030823 ... karl the weed is very very tired the luv would be scarier, unless the hate was coming from a friend or someone you like. 030823 ... misstree coming from another, neither one particularly scares me... for me to say, oh dear lord the first is like putting my soul on a hang glider in a thunderstorm. hate is easy. hate is pure, and full, and powerful, and while its torrents can tear down the entire universe, the center of that storm is myself. love takes away all easy outs, all power i might have. love friggin' terrifies me. hate is unpleasent, but familiar. 030823 ... trixie i hate you because they must have once loved you maybe especially when it is coming from a crying/screaming philipino girl with dyed blonde hair and fake nails with a borderline personality disorder who is smoking at the time. ya, i hate it when that happens. 030823 ... camille life or death for richer or poorer 030823 what's it to you? who go blather from