passive minnesota_chris I have to get a girlfriend. Call more people. Make Rhin happier. Find a permanent job. Establish more goals in life. Decorate this apartment. 030216 ... carlita when i asked my best_friend to describe me with one word... passive ... is what she said. not in a good keep_the_peace kind of way, but in a bad get_walked_all_over kind of way. i guess both are true. 030715 ... voodoo "that's what i need. someone to boss me around and tell me what to do. you're too passive. i don't like walking all over you." funny you used the word passive it's so perfect i've been told it before by people who know me a lot better than you what you don't understand is i like being that way it's just me i thought we would work because of it you're the opposite aggressive, i guess and i like it 030813 ... weaving sunlight the opposite of what i am but long to have the courage to be 040224 ... minnesota_chris I am too passive, and people do bad things to me, and I don't retaliate. 080421 ... minnesota_chris and oh look, I started this blathe years ago 080421 what's it to you? who go blather from