in_white_and_black deb they finally got here today after my anxious week-long wait- they got here and i stared for a while, unable to really read the words raised and glossy spelling it all out- all i could see were our names across the bottom in script proclaiming for all to see that we are no longer ourselves, but an 'us'. forever. it's kind-of scary, this knowledge i harbor- these boxes littering the dining room filled with the most valuble paper i've ever been thrilled to buy smile slyly at me and whisper "it's official" and i can't bring myself put more than one together- one. and just to see how it looks. that's it. my wedding is less than 5 months away and i'm scared of the invitations! not the invitations, really, but what they represent. this is permanent -i have no doubts, mind you, but it's a big step looming before me, and i'm just not sure how to begin the climb. 010320 ... frAnk take it from one who has been married for 20 years, the climb isn't what's important because you always find yourself looking down from mountain heights and then going, "how did we make it?" what's cool is you don't know, you just did it, and did it together. but the more you climb, you get more confidence through experience. of course i don't know you and your fiance, but it's basically the same for everyone... marriage is unbelievable, the sincerest form of selflessness there is and just the fact that you are concerned about the invitations with this kind of intimate emotion tells me you are into it with a unique passion. he is very fortunate to have you. 010320 what's it to you? who go blather from