i_had_an_idea S. It was a real good one too... Too bad my memory's so hazy 030317 ... Babyblue What is it about? 040416 ... shivers and then i told u but u didnt understand 040416 ... Beliste but when I told you about it, even if you didn't say the words "How characteristic of an imbecile", that was the look on your face. And so, the idea i had, i had no longer. It ran away from the house inside my head. 040514 ... DannyH But it wasn't good enough. Now I'm running out of time and I need a new one. Can anyone help? 070416 ... ldeax I had an idea. It was a bad idea. It stemmed from selfishness. I was living with one love and met another. Upon our first meeting I had the sense that we were too connected. If we allowed it, love was imminent. I didn't want to choose. So I thought, "what if I told both of them that I wanted to be with both of them?" It's been a lot of years, and the details are fuzzy, but I do know there was a lot of heartbreak all around. But the core assumption, that one person must devote themselves to only one other person at a time, was broken. After some fits and starts, I found a way to make it harmonious. Goin' on 7 years of multiple concurrent relationships, I've got a front porch and a back deck to rock on. Been long enough that when I watch a stupid sitcom (as an attempt at brain candy) I get stuck not on the most ridiculous plot turns, but on the typical rifts caused by monogamy and blind jealousy. She is mad because she found that that he is interested in women other than her. Why? He is freaking out because he has to choose one girl or the other. Why? nothankyou 131107 what's it to you? who go blather from