but_what_happens_when_you Doar allow yourself to become part of your loves world, be bonded to them. Is it your right to separate from them, or try to nurture the love you feel for that person? . just a question... 100809 ... Doar is it a danger to yourself? or is a need to self preserve? such questions i have. . 100809 ... daxle "Is it your right to separate from them," Your right? What do you mean? Like is it the right thing to do, or should you have the option? "or try to nurture the love you feel for that person?" Is this the opposite of separating from them? 100810 ... Doar ah Dax.... it was just a late night question. there is no need to take such a forceful response. i do regard your response as being a bit reactionary and if you do have an arguement you wish to impart to me personally, then communicate. Until then, Still miss you. . 100820 ... unhinged (i think maybe dax was just trying to clarify what you meant. you know you can't pose rhetorical questions on blather without someone trying to answer them dear) you won't let me separate from you you don't hear me when i say 'i can't do this right now' i can't i can't forgive you (again) i can't bullshit on the phone with you i can't see you i can't go to concerts with you i can't when i respond to you you think that means things are back to normal when i don't respond to you you get nasty you are right we have been through a lot together shared a lot together but how much is too much? 'i love you but enough is enough please stop there's no real reason' i should separate from you but you won't separate from me our whole relationship has been clinging running pulling pushing and now that i am the one that wants to cut_and_run you won't separate from me (you know i don't really want to separate from you but but i have to) 100821 ... Doar ok....i understand now. .I will say goodbye with a fondness and never bother you again. . not a promise but an end. . 101016 what's it to you? who go blather from