being_yourself anne-girl re: love & dating i read somewhere that people tell you to be yourself not because you're magically some kind of amazing person deep down inside though you probably are :) but cause people like all sorts of different people... there's no x type of personality that everyone likes and if you're just yourself, someone out there's bound to like you, right? and it's hella less effort actually my theory is to become a person you yourself are happy with and then if people don't like that, it's their problem but i haven't finished the first step yet, so i don't know if it works 050627 ... Doar i've been told time and time again that this works. we'll see, as when i am myself i can be a real prick. and no pun intended. . 050628 ... hsg My theory is being_happy is your_true_identity. Anything but happiness is too tough to continuously and unconditionally hold. Any path or pattern no matter how far out or however lost or creative one might become all paths keep returning to sustain able bliss . 090629 ... flowerock I thought I was, I'm still learning, still meeting_myself. When I let myself shine, I mostly laugh and flowell. 150928 ... flowerock I've recently decided to be unfiltered as often as I can stand... I told my coworkers this recently and that if I was not filtered enough to tell me, honestly, because I could tone myself down for work if need be... but we all get along pretty well it seems and I was pleasantly surprised to find that their response was mostly positive and in full support of being ones self and a weirdo. I complain about this city alot, but I do love some things about it too, the freedom to be real and myself is one. 150928 what's it to you? who go blather from