silly_sex mahayana [not every-1 can have it] 020419 ... Toxic_Kisses Whip out the body paint! I feel artistic! 020419 ... unhinged . trauma precludes silly it is not silly or casual to me to be naked around someone else 140811 ... flowerock comfort_zones should be respected. silly sex... yes! I talked years ago with a friend about how sometimes the best sex involves laughter and silly jokes and tickles. a brief interruption to the sometimes overwhelming seriousness and intensity that sex can bring. I am happy to have a partner that seems to also enjoy silly sex. it is a good thing to share together. to be able to laugh and also return focus back to the act of love making with a smile, helps me relax and focus less, feel more. commect more completely. ocassionally it detracts from the moment, but there are enough moments to spare a few for th sake of silliness. maybe silly sex is a good way to become more comfortable and confident with my body and actions, new things or becoming better at old things, learning more about eacother in a light and comfortable state of mind and heart. being naked for me is comfortable as long as everyone else if also comfortable and respectful of my physical boundaries. I often feel insecure about how my body looks, my skin, scars that I don t care to explain(old, in the past), the amount of hair on or off of it, what is expected of it... I don t want anyone to expect anything of my naked body, my lover maybe has that right/priviledge, but very few others need expect anything of it. 140811 what's it to you? who go blather from