no_expectations unhinged because most of the time, expectations lead to everything short of the expected 091002 ... unhinged and this exact topic came up in the meditation retreat i went on this weekend. or the mantra_of_the_year 'inside i am deep and still' debby sat on her cushion in the front of the meditation hall and said: 'your mind is like an ocean, the thoughts like the waves on top' 091006 ... linkage rolling_stones 091006 ... In_Bloom no such thing 091007 ... unhinged giving_and_receiving what you want may not be what you get but that doesn't mean it's not what you need 091118 ... unhinged ( rolling_stones indeed ha my father always sang that song to me when i asked for things in the store when i was a little girl: 'you can't always get what you want....') 091118 ... Lemon_Soda "No expectations" is a bullshit answer for "I don't care, Jerk". And no, I didn't read any one elses post, I'm just saying thats what it has come to mean to me. 091118 ... unhinged leaves room to let people be who they really are 100815 ... unhinged (when i stopped expecting things from you i realized that i shouldn't have anything to do with who you really are. when will i learn to stop wasting myself on people like you? ) 100815 ... no reason these words can be dangerous and i wonder how often they are true 100815 ... unhinged they are 99% never true; we are conditioned to expect 100815 what's it to you? who go blather from