compartmentalized
unhinged fuck_buddies


the fact that you were going through a break_up when we got together had absolutely no bearing on our relationship....right. sure.



if i was your friend how come i never met or hung out with you and your other friends?
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unhinged and really, i think that's what chased me away in the end.


i wrote you this:

tirelessly


but you wanted to 'make every effort to keep those things apart' i.e. me and the rest of your life
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unhinged from 'shakti leadership...' by nilima bhat and raj sisodia

an exercise to actually examine feelings and events instead of compartmentalizing them:

'think back to an ordeal you successfully overcame and its core stages. ask yourself:

- what was the crisis? how were you shaken out of your comfort zone?

-did you heed the call or refuse/resist it? why?

- how were you tested? who were your allies and enemies?

- what was your greatest fear? how did you overcome it?

- what new capacities did you gain? how did you mature from the experience?

- how have you shown up differently as a person since then? as a leader?

- what are you offering the world, and how has it changed for the better?' -nb and rs
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