magnetics 6 ~ The Lovers How can it be, when meeting as equals we fight, so ferocious relentlessly repellent, aversive? Yet, finding ourselves amid unbalanced strata the pull of desire annexes binding us together! 070629 ... cube Otherwise known as codependency. Romantic, eh? ³ 070629 ... quantic i would say that is pretty important, there is not really any way out is there, i wouldn't have known that if the pudding comes last. it's like living in a black and white world then someone showing you what colour is then taking the colour away again, you are always yearing to see and feel the colour again without really realising what it is. and now i am stuck in a broken lift with you, you've trapped me. 070630 ... unhinged quantum_entanglement 'mindfulness is not just a stress reduction technique, it's actually a form of courage. it's you saying to the person you love 'i will let my attention on myself go for now so that i can feel and hear and see you and then see what happens next.' so a relationship without attention becomes a strange bargain of people who are trying not to hurt each other and i think we can do better than that' - susan piver 170519 what's it to you? who go blather from