which_is_worse no reason not liking someone you know is right for you or liking someone you know is wrong for you ? 080406 ... auburn bah. that's the hardest question ever. 080406 ... unhinged yeah, that is a hard one. i've experienced both...they both suck. hard. but liking someone that is wrong for you usually brings on a more intense hurt cause of the wrongness. but the not liking someone that is right for you has this 'if only i could' wistfulness about it. yeah, they both suck. 080406 ... amy i almost always go for the latter, even though i can't take or won't be able to afford what is in store... and the first scenario I'll use to fuel my guilty conscience. they both suck, but they both seem like necessary evils until the right person comes along and then you (or I)'ll be all ready to welcome somebody unneurotically. i try to remind myself, time spent on romance is never time wasted, but I'm sort of lieing to myself about that. gotta be optimistic. 080406 ... GROSS!! eating a huge hairy spider that is alive, or eating a small piece of poo? 080407 ... Lemon_Soda I'd rather eat the spider. 080407 ... jane i second that. as long as the spider is not poisonous or will otherwise kill me. 080407 ... sameolme Pepsi! 080407 ... no reason attaining intimacy and losing it, or never having it in the first place? 100815 ... no reason attaining should be obtaining 100815 ... unhinged obtaining and losing is far worse than never having the pain of losing something hurts way more than speculation 100815 what's it to you? who go blather from