to_kiss_or_not_to_kiss minnesota_chris when do you know? I had a theory, that you kiss them when it's impossible not to kiss them. But maybe that's not soon enough? 021119 ... loquenoes i guess it all depends 021119 ... Rhin up until the point of contact, i always imagine myself and the guy as being magnets. in the beginning we pull toward, and push away from each other. finally we realize that all we really needed was a little flip. that's when we connect. it's when i feel myself sliding into him helplessly. 021119 ... gay gizmo i have a severe problem of kissing too soon. Like the first night we meet. It sucks cause then that romantic buildup of the kiss is gone. Beleive it or not, but I consider myself old-fashioned. I want to be courted. I want to be taken out on several dates before we kiss. It leaves room for growth. Sometimes I sleep with them the first night we hang out. Not sex, just sleep and cuddle. and then the next time we get together its like....implied that the same will happen and maybe more, when in my heart I wish I could put those things off. 021119 ... unhinged kiss 190112 what's it to you? who go blather from