southern_belle amy! see... i just don't think this way. 4-to-1 ratio, remember? boys galore! all the time. i'm used to it. but ok, alright... i'd like an m, and i'd like a t... and i'm ready now to solve the puzzle, Alex. 000309 ... BoofPixie that's me in mississippi. you can buy things that make you smell like flowers. 000309 ... Q Sorry, you got the facts wrong. Very wrong. The ratio is in fact just the reverse. There are not boys galore. To the extent there is anything related to blather for which supply is inadequate, it is males who participate. As a statistical reality, a female who watches (and perhaps sometimes participates) on blather and wants to have extrablather relationships with certain males who participate must take the initiative to contact the male(s) of interest. The data I am aware of bear out this observation, but I won't name any names in order to protect the innocent or cryptic. Your erroneous observation is fortunately irrelevant to the mystery. Please let me know if you want the mystery unravelled directly without varnish in a non-blather forum, where privacy and confidentiality can and would be protected, or on blather where protection of privacy and confidentiality would be insured with crypticism that even you, the ueberprincess of crypticism, would have trouble unraveling. 000310 ... amy sorry i was talking about my college, where i learned- or attempted to- how to socialize. 000310 ... kork i wouldn't have you how you are 030509 what's it to you? who go blather from