amor_joven stork daddy he was 19 and i was 17 the first time we had sex. i suppose that means it was statutory rape. it didn't feel like rape. but i guess i was just a dumb kid. that's what the law seems to presuppose. not that it's a bad thing...i guess it works. it's like they have to draw the line somewhere, so they do it where on average they protect the person who on average needs protection. it's too hard to consider each individual person, so you just have general standards like liars are bad and charity is good. besides...i couldn't explain to them what exactly me and him had anyways, so i suppose it's right for them to hold me to their standard. they couldn't understand mine. i couldn't either. what's weird is that hundreds of years ago people regularly married and had children at 13 and 15 and 16. i wonder if we were really so different then? so much less civilized? 050129 what's it to you? who go blather from