bad_experiences_are_no_excuse deep sadness it's too sad when you copy someones bad actions, the actions that have harmed you and messed with your mind. i do understand, it's just too painful, swallow your own pain and deal with it, don't pass it down the line. 070619 ... pSyche We all had our hard times, honey. 070619 ... unhinged nobody has the patent on suffering 070619 ... Lemon_Soda Actually, bad experiences are the perfect excuse, which is why so many people use it. It takes courage(which is acting despite your fear) to challange and overcome something we know from experience is going to hurt us. And a person who does to others what was done to him/her does it because they believe that is how its done. Same reason I try to do nice things for people. Lotsa people have done nice things for me. 070620 what's it to you? who go blather from