dead_but_not_quite_numb Spare Change The first rule is that hugs are allowed. Full contact hugs that last too long to be just a gesture. The second rule is no touching. Just don't do it. No punching, no poking, no back slapping. Trust me. Just leave it at the hug. Anything else is a hazard. The third rule is self control. I don't care how bad you want it. I don't care how good it might feel. You are not permitted and you will not. YOu will be friendly and appropriate. You will do as much as you have to, but you are not to step out of bounds. No kissing, no touching, a little lighter on the innuendo. You're like an addict. You can't go back to the places you used to do this. You can't do the same things. You don't hang out with the same people. You change everything. Except the hug. Never forget the hug. 070819 what's it to you? who go blather from