life_never_gets_perfect anne-girl i used to think it would - that one day I'd wake up and I'd be [insert age here] and life would be perfect and I'd be perfectly happy with myself and have nothing to worry about... but that doesn't happen [perfect would get awfully boring] 051129 ... andru235 could it be said that in "heaven" one is faced with the kinds of problems one likes / is suited for, and the reverse in "hell"? or would you rather say, "greetings! i am a vafftian golokrite, but let's pretend otherwise, you big amalgamated proctologist!" me, i'm staying out of this one. could get heated. 051129 ... you never know well all it means is that you aren't there yet. 051130 ... oren Perfect in general, probably not, but if_you pay attention, you'll find moments of perfection. With age, I've learned more and more to savor them while they're happening. This way, I get to enjoy them apart from_the reminiscing. 051201 what's it to you? who go blather from