evergreener a thimble in time I'm a future-oriented person, I naturally project my relationships into the future. If I see myself being with a person, beit days or decades, I'll establish short and long-term goals for us. So when a relationship collapses, I feel like I've lost a certain future. In order to recover, I have to envision a new future. Understandably, mulling over the past doesn't help me much. 040602 ... pete mmm.. verily... breathe the tree, fear its trembling... ohh thats the song i made last night.. when the trees tremble... 040603 ... Piso Mojado not all relationships have to be formed for the future. im starting to prefer forming present moment relationships. (cant celebrate the marraige of a couple on their first date. cant mourn for the death of a healthy child. cant go there if youre not here first.) 040712 what's it to you? who go blather from