compatibility EECP When it comes down to it isn't this what it is all about? Most people get together because of need, denial, guilt, fear, loneliness, or some other messed up reason. Think about it, goals or ideas aren't enough. You need to like the same things. You need to have that spark of, "I must have you now." Whithout it you are stuck with another innoying dependency. Be similar but not identical. Realize true love and don't give up until you find that perfect person. They are out there. Give them time and support. Love them without condition. Love them and only them. If you are truly compatible, you won't need or want anyone elso. I love you dragonfly. 020329 what's it to you? who go blather from