bigger_picture dalex When I'm really angry with someone, and want to rail against them, I try to stop and ask myself: If they died tomorrow, what would I wish I'd have said/done? When I feel like something has been going on too long, I try to imagine what I'll think about it in 10 or 20 years. When I think what I'm dealing with is really big, I review my place in the microcosm and macrocosm. I'm hardly anything. This is hardly happening. It's mostly air and illusions. Still, kind of amazing and awesome. 120625 what's it to you? who go blather from