band_dudes unhinged damn. it seems as if i can only date boys in bands. it also seems as if there is a common thread of macho bullshit associated with most of these males. i don't know how to tell him i understand the game without scaring him off. i'm not sure if he's worth having if i have to be scared about scaring him off. he made me feel pretty. not many men are able to do that. the situations always have to be convoluted with guys like this. only a musician could understand that music always comes first. if only i could distinguish between expressing what i need and bitching. 051109 what's it to you? who go blather from