what_is_a_virgin Eleventyus theEleventyeth What makes someone a virgin?! Is oral sex... sex? why is there any question? I dare anyone to defend that oral is not sex. 051101 ... peyton i don't want to be critical of your thought but virginity is a moment and when you cross that line and feel that snap and part of you becomes them and whether they embrace to their heart or throw it away is irrelevant because part of you is gone and someday you'll remember that moment and think that was the time when the sky shined and you gave something to them that put the sun in their eyes forever regardless of the method or the function or the cruel machination it's a moment and it's there until you pour yourself into someone and feel the breath catch in your throat 051101 what's it to you? who go blather from