virginity fuck something so huge when you have it. it may or may not mean the world to you.. it meant the world to me. with it you are given innocense. without it.. really nothing. when you have it.. it's everything. when you loose it.. it's really no big loss. this astounds me. 010429 ... the swinger of birches eric and i have virgin lips. 010430 ... jinx I can wish can't I? I know I can regret. 020217 ... lulie overated. 020217 ... Arwyn i took it back and gave it to someone who actually wanted it 020307 ... 0of46 Does anybody really BELIEVE that Brittney Spears is still a virgin? ......... !!! AND IF SO, HOW MUCH DO YOU THINK SHE COULD MAKE SELLING IT ON EBAY?!?!?!?! or better yet, on PPV? 020829 ... jane no!! no virgin sings like that plus virgins can lie like no other 020830 ... oppressed_youth I hate it when people consider you to be a different species just because you haven't had sex yet. "Ooooh, I've had hot, steamy, uncomfortable SEXXXXXXX which means I know much more about the world than you. Take a number and I'll answer your question. What? You don't have any? Why are you walking away from me? I'm cool! Right?" It angers me. It's not like the occasion hasn't presented itself to me; I'd just rather love someone before I had sex with them. And these so-called more experienced ladies all regret it. So they feel the need to remind me every time the topic arises to "just wait till you're in love. You don't know what it's like." Yeah, I appriciate it. Really. I do. But shut up. 020831 ... jane i don't think they should say things like that at all but in a sense, losing your virginity is a life-changing experience, even if you don't want/expect it to be. that's awesome that you want to love someone before you take that step because it is a big step and i don't want to sound condescending because i'm not being condescending but what i mean is that it's such a big experience that you suddenly take that jump into the next part of your life i don't know if i'm explaining it right sorry 020907 ... not_a_virgin_anymore When I lost mine, I cried for my lost innocence. 050704 ... APRicochetMVP i have a lot of admiration for somebody my age who is still a virgin. at the same time, i have no regrets about my own decisions. lets agree to not judge each other and respect each others decisions. they've obviously made us happy. 050704 ... Sonya Long gone. 050704 ... iNsEcUrE_GoTh_GiRl i cried with relief because i still had this precious word this precious symbol of my innocence but with so many people lurking; no, not in the shadows like your mothers and fathers tell you, not the scary stranger hiding in the trees, but lurking in your friends, waiting to paunce, waiting to steal from you this technicality... im just grateful i still have my poor virginity, it cowers in the corner and hides from the people wanting to snatch it away. people say i'm sexually repressed. that's fine that you think that just because im a 16 year old virgin that i'm a freak. thanks for that, and you know what? keep your advice, because i don't want it. when i want to give up my last link to innocence, i'll inform you. there's really just not that much left of it after that. i don't see the appeal of this...sex. really, i don't. maybe i'm a lesbian, but to be honest i think i have stunted hormones, i don't want to 'get with' people and fuck like bunnies. no thanks, i'm fine. really. 050705 ... LS HEY! There is NOTHING freakish about being 16 and not having sex! Even the law of the land says to keep it till your atleast 18. The repercussions of becoming sexualy active are astounding and must be considered carefully before the act itself. Having sex subjects ytou to the very real possibility of emotional turmoil, physical abuse up to and including rape, damaged ego, diseases that will rob you of your health and even your life, unwanted pregnancy that (if your mature about it) completely redefines your life as the caretaker of another, and so on. Its not all its cracked up to be. Does it feel good? Hell, yay. Do I have sex? I consider myself pretty active. Is it worth the risk? Only you can deside that. But if I had a piece of advice it would be to wait. Wait as long as you can, until your sure that whoever it is really appreciates it. Never Never NEVER do it for appreciation yourself. Its to powerful to abuse. Be PROUD OF YOUR VIRGINITY! 050705 ... nomme) "fuck virginity" 050705 ... Isaou I am not sure what to do with it. Does this mean i am having doubts? You will not wait forever 090718 ... Isaou I am sorry but I am scared and I want to keep it. I'm sorry :( 090830 ... auburn Keep it. 090830 what's it to you? who go blather from